Empty. Angry. Alone. If you've endured a loss, you know these feelings. You know how grief rips through your heart, making you feel like life will never be the same. Truthfully, it won't be. Time won't erase all your pain. You won't ever slip back into your old routine. When you experience a loss, your life is forever changed. Your "normal" vanishes. But that doesn't mean hope is lost.
Things may never get back to normal, but eventually you will settle into a "new normal" − you'll develop a new routine, a new mindset. Your pain will ease, and your heart will begin to heal. That may seem impossible now, but God has made you to be resilient. He created you to function and grow in a world that constantly changes. He knows you. He knows your heart. And He has a perfect plan for your life that cannot be destroyed by any amount of sorrow. Lean on Him − the God of All Comfort − to lead you out of loss and into new life.
Steps to Letting Go
“You will surely forget your trouble, recalling it only as waters gone by.” (Job 11:16)
"In my anguish I cried to the LORD, and he answered by setting me free." (Psalm 118:5)
June's book Hope for Your Heart
Your habits characterize your character. If you are a Christian, your calling is to be clothed in the habit of Christ, with the result that your character actually reflects His character.