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Pay the Compliments
My wife Barbara is good at many things. I try to praise her for the wonderful abilities and traits she has. I can never express too much appreciation for her, but I don't mind trying.
You know, in marriage, we really ought to be more like a mirror that reflects the talents and gifts that our spouses have. If our husband or wife does a great job in a certain area, you should tell them so. It's amazing how much life is given to a marriage, when you and I focus on the positive things our spouse does. The writer of the Proverbs had it right when he said, "How delightful is a timely word."
One final thought. I want to encourage you to take five minutes tonight, and list on a 3 by 5 card a couple of strengths you see in your spouse. Then, tonight, at the dinner table, share your observations. I promise you, it will encourage your husband or wife more than you realize.
I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real Family Life.
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