When to Start
Early in marriage, every couple needs to talk about when they want to have children. As a new couple is getting to know one another and adjust, it's easy to put the conversation off.
Many couples wait to have children because they aren't certain their marriage will go the distance. Many feel inadequate to be a mom or a dad. And it's a scary world out there. It can be intimidating to bring a child into the world.
Let me offer you some advice. First of all, look at children through the eyes of God. In the Bible, He's told us to be fruitful and multiply. He refers to children as a blessing. Children also are redemptive and teach us to be less selfish and more giving.
One final thought. Every couple needs to be in discussion about when to have children. As you do, remember: children are a gift from God. He will help you nurture and provide for them.
I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real FamilyLife.