Most parents have seen anger in their children. Anger is a secondary emotion. When I say that I mean that something else has caused the anger. If your child comes home from school and blows up at you, or his brother or sister, or even the dog, it's possible that something happened at school to cause him to get angry. So now, you've have an angry child, what do you do? The time to address anger in a child is not in the midst of the argument or in the midst of heated words. You may need to give your child some time to cool off or to remind him to choose his words carefully. After the anger has died down, try to understand what hurt him and work through that issue. React to your child in love, not anger. One final thought. A child who is angry, is like a mud wrestler. You, as the parent must stay out of the mud, and remain as objective and loving as possible. I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real Family Life.
August 2, 2017
Early in marriage, every couple needs to talk about when they want to have children. As a new couple is getting to know one another and adjust, it's easy to put the conversation off. Many couples wait to have children because they aren't certain their marriage will go the distance. Many feel inadequate to be a mom or a dad. And it's a scary world out there. It can be intimidating to bring a child into the world. Let me offer you some advice. First of all, look at children through the eyes of God. In the Bible, He's told us to be fruitful and multiply. He refers to children as a blessing. Children also are redemptive and teach us to be less selfish and more giving. One final thought. Every couple needs to be in discussion about when to have children. As you do, remember: children are a gift from God. He will help you nurture and provide for them. I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real FamilyLife.
August 1, 2017
"For this cause," the Bible says, "a man shall leave his father and mother, cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."
July 25, 2017