New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: December 17, 2021

December 17, 2021

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

- My family hurt me so much; what can I do to not feel so fragmented inside when I am in stressful situations?

- What can I do if I have a long history of depression, anxiety, and I fear being taken advantage of?

- I have sickle cell anemia and am unable to work, but my mother-in-law calls me lazy; is it OK if I just stop talking to her?

- Is there a timeframe for how long to remain separated from my husband? When is it time to get marital therapy?

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: - I’ve been working with a therapist for 7mos to improve my self-esteem, but he said it was our last session because I’m unwilling to change. What can I do? - How can I be supportive to my 15yo bipolar granddaughter who came to live with us after not seeing her for 13yrs? - Is it unreasonable to ask my husband to take a lie detector test about his porn addiction? I’ve seen lot of suspicious emails lately.
December 16, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - What can I do if my adult children have blocked me? I left when they were teens because I thought their dad would kill me. - I wasn’t really there for my kids emotionally. Is stepping in to help with their kids the best thing I can do for them as adults? - My 33yo son is deep in the depths of alcoholism and has an 8yo son; how do I help him? - Shall I speak to the mother of my grandchildren about them watching things like Squid Game and dancing inappropriately? My son doesn’t want me to.
December 15, 2021
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: - How can I move forward with the man I’m dating who never initiates romance and has a porn addiction? - Where do I go from here after my sister bailed on our trip together because of her financial issues? I felt deceived. - My 27yo autistic son lives at home and has ADD and an anxiety disorder; what can he do when he feels overwhelmed and struggles with suicidal ideation? - Our 28yo son is coming home for the holidays with his live-in boyfriend; what boundaries do I set that won’t alienate them?
December 14, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: - How do I help my 79yo friend in the early stages of dementia who is resistant? - I walked into a woman’s restroom by mistake, and now my wife wants a divorce because she thinks I was flirting. - How do I start to date if I’ve been divorced for 7yrs and have a young daughter? There’s a lot of fear.
December 13, 2021
Hosts: Larry Sonnenburg, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - I’m a sex abuse survivor, my dad and sister died this year, I’m in recovery from alcohol, and I care for my mom with cancer; should I let my husband get the divorce he wants? - I struggle with suicidal ideation and am in a psychiatric facility; how do I deal with coming home if my brother doesn’t want me to be there? - My parents kicked me out last year because of our political differences; how can I reestablish a healthy relationship? Also, should I date a guy who also has political differences? - After 2mos of separation from my alcoholic husband, how can I encourage his sobriety?
December 10, 2021
Hosts: Larry Sonnenburg, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: - I was molested by my uncle when I was four; how do you know if you should keep on living or not? - How long does it take to go through the 12 Steps with a Sustained Victory Group? My husband hasn’t given me full disclosure. - My 16yo grandson lives with me. Should his dad continue to purchase gifts and text when he gets no response? - As a Christian, how do I respond to a neighbor who uses tarot cards and screams at me?
December 9, 2021
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Special Guest Jim Burns, president of HomeWord and speaker at New Life’s Fearless Parenting Workshop Caller Questions: - What are the next steps to help my father with his severe anger issues? And how do I cope with him? - I’ve called before, and you really helped my marriage! I want to be a great dad, but how do I overcome growing up with a lack of attention and trauma? - I’m living with my daughter and her significant other; how do I respond to him when he doesn’t like things I do around the house? - How do I not accept violence from my 14yo autistic son and respect my husband who doesn’t discipline him appropriately?
December 8, 2021
Hosts: Larry Sonnenburg, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - My sister is violent to herself, talks to people who aren’t there, and the person she was staying with doesn’t want to help her anymore; where do I go from here? - I’m estranged from my 50yo son; would you recommend I write him a letter asking him to share his grievances with me? - My sister and her husband refused to meet with me 2yrs ago about problems in our family; should I write her a letter and give a copy to my family? - I just found out the man I was in a 7yr relationship with is addicted to crack. Should I let go or try to help him?
December 7, 2021
Hosts: Larry Sonnenburg, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: - How can I help my 14yo granddaughter who told me her 30yo brother sexually abused her? - I’m a traveling salesman who has fallen into drinking and porn; is there a connection between this and my mom’s emotional abuse? - My granddaughter is in college and says she is a lesbian; at Christmas do I take her out and give her advice? - I was divorced in May and just found out my ex got married in July. What do I say to my teen sons who kept it a secret?
December 6, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Henry Cloud Caller Questions: - After reading Boundaries, how can I stand up to my verbally abusive ex? - Should I tell my renter her boyfriend is texting me a picture of his private parts? - I separated from my alcoholic husband 2yrs ago; why am I content to be where I am? - Should I marry my fiancée without my 14yo son’s blessing? We have kids together.
December 3, 2021
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Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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