New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: July 26, 2024

July 26, 2024

Topics: FeelingsDivorceFinancesSingle ParentingAdult ChildrenVideo GamesAffairs
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the importance of emotional regulation.

2. My heart went out to a previous caller, and I wanted to share creative ways that kept our family going after I divorced my abusive husband to protect my kids from him.

3. Our son is graduating college but will still live with us; how do we set boundaries with him when he spends a lot of time gaming?

4. I’ve been married 18yrs, my wife has developed a relationship with a neighbor, and she told me she is done with me.

Suggested Resources:
Why I Believe
Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World
Intimate Deception

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

Archives

Topics: Estrangement, Drug Addiction, Boundaries, Infertility, Grief, Adult Children, Affairs, SecretsHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the silent epidemic of parent and family estrangement. 2. Is my response to my drug-addicted sister wrong? I told her not to call me unless she calls me from a treatment center. 3. I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 16yrs. How can I cope after my doctor told me 2wks ago that I will never get pregnant? 4. I’ve been estranged from my adult daughters for over 20yrs after my nasty divorce. 5. Should we let our son know that his wife was having an affair? We have been estranged from our son for 6yrs because of her. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery BibleLife Recovery WorkbookLife Recovery Workbook for GriefDoing Life with Your Adult Children
July 25, 2024
Topics: Depression, Adult Children, Addiction, Boundaries, In-laws, Sexual Abuse, Parenting, GriefHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares different types of depression. 2. I’m in addiction recovery and battle with depression; now that I’m pregnant with twins, do any foods enhance your mood? 3. I just want my adult daughter who is struggling with addiction and health issues out of my house; what do I do? 4. Your show helped me to resolve a conflict with my father-in-law! 5. My 11yo son told me last December he had been sexually abused by his father and grandfather; how can I function in life when I have a breakdown every day? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery BibleTake Your Life BackEmotional Freedom Workbook
July 24, 2024
Topics: Thankful, Feelings, Getting Unstuck, Affairs, Trust, PTSD, Living TogetherHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how to do thank therapy by giving thanks in everything. 2. I was molested as a child, my marriage ended in divorce, and I feel shut down; how do I kickstart my emotional life? 3. I’m 62yo, have PTSD from abuse, and can’t trust anyone; how do I reverse that? 4. Should I stay or go from the woman I’m living with? I pay half of her mortgage and raise her kids. Suggested Resources:Changes That HealTrustLife Recovery BibleLife Recovery Workbook
July 23, 2024
Topics: Brain Issues, Drug Addiction, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Adult Children, Same-Sex Attraction, ForgivenessHosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: 1. Becky Brown shares the four happiness chemicals: dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and endorphins. 2. What is the best way to support my brother who is recovering from a brain injury and heroin addiction? 3. What is causing my relative to have seizures? He was molested as a child and is using alcohol and vaping to cope. 4. I was abusive to my five kids in the past and my daughter is gay; how do I love them through Jesus Christ and what does that look like? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery JourneyTake Your Life BackForgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
July 22, 2024
Topics: Self-Awareness, Getting Unstuck, Connection, Feelings, Betrayal, Finances, Anger, Grief, Weight Issues, DepressionHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares the life-changing importance of naming our negative core patterns. 2. I feel stuck in my sixties after my divorce 12yrs ago; how do I get motivated? 3. How can I better understand the importance of my wife’s emotions when I have a lack of emotions? 4. I recently lost my abusive husband and found out he had canceled his life insurance and built up massive credit card debt. 5. My son’s wife died 2yrs ago and his stepsons were taken from him. He is distraught; how can we help? Suggested Resources:Healing Is a ChoiceTrustHow We LoveLife Recovery Workbook for Grief
July 19, 2024
Topics: Christian Walk, Teens, Adoption, Divorce, Remarriage, Anxiety, Adult Children, InterventionHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares how to practice a posture of praise before prayers have been answered. 2. My adopted daughter, who is a high school senior, is vomiting since I told her I’m moving across the country. What should I do? 3. I used to be a pastor, got divorced, and have stopped serving God; did I betray God when I remarried? 4. I grew up in an abusive home, and my anxiety has become debilitating; where does anxiety come from? 5. My 42yo daughter has lived with me for 2yrs; I gave her a deadline to move out but she won’t. Suggested Resources:How We Love Our KidsHow We LoveChanges That HealConquer Worry and AnxietyTake Your Life Back
July 18, 2024
Topics: Anxiety, Getting Unstuck, Triggers, Betrayal, Alcohol, Mother Issues, Addictions, Adult ChildrenHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the many causes of anxiety. 2. What would you suggest to get unstuck after 17yrs of marriage? We’re both believers and don’t want to get divorced, but I don’t want to be miserable anymore. 3. I had a great experience at Restore this past weekend! It truly restored my faith and gave me strength to move forward. 4. How do we show my alcoholic mom she’s living in sin, and how do I help my dad deal with her without enabling? 5. I’m working through betrayal trauma and you guys helped me begin the journey to recovery at the Restore intensive. How can I help my adult children with their addictions? 6. I learn best by re-listening to my conversations, but my adult children don’t feel comfortable with me recording them. What else can I do? Suggested Resources:Intimate DeceptionLife Recovery WorkbookDoing Life with Your Adult Children
July 17, 2024
Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Enabling, Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Bipolar, Church Life, Adult Children, EstrangementHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how our job as a parent is to disciple our kids. 2. Our 40yo son has had a drug addiction and pulled knives on me; what should we do if he wants to move back after he gets out of jail? 3. I just learned that my husband was unfaithful with a man; am I unreasonable to not want him to take a new job which may be tempting for him? 4. Should I meet with the church elders about problems with my pastor’s wife who has bipolar disorder and my pastor who enables her? 5. My 50yo son stopped talking to me for a year with no explanation; how do I go about finding out why? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery BibleIntimate DeceptionBoundariesDoing Life with Your Adult Children
July 16, 2024
Topics: Relationships, Borderline, Boundaries, Adult Children, Difficult Conversations, Narcissists, Drug AddictionHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: 1. Marc Cameron shares the difference between the price of something vs. the cost. 2. How can my husband and I set clear boundaries with my 25yo daughter who lives with us and has BPD? 3. A Christian friend blindsided me when he said he was crossing me off the list of people to invite to his home. His wife said he was just kidding; what do you think? 4. What do I do with my narcissistic 51yo daughter who is on kidney dialysis and is a drug addict? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackUnderstanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality DisorderHow We LoveUnderstanding and Loving a Person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder
July 15, 2024
Topics: Perfectionism, Aging Parents, Adult Children, Trauma, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Dating, Affairs, Sexual Abuse, SuicideHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about perfectionism, attitude, and judging others. 2. What should I say to my elderly dad who is verbally abusive and falsely accusing me, my mom, and my sister? 3. My 49yo son has a demanding wife who has convinced him that he has dementia and tries to keep us out of his life; how do we approach her? 4. I lost my dad and sister, and my youngest daughter was kidnapped; why do I keep going back to my physically and emotionally abusive husband? 5. I just ended a month-long relationship, and it seems like every time he hugged or talked to a woman, I felt a crippling pain in my heart; what is causing it, and how do I get rid of it? 6. My 19yo granddaughter is afraid of her father and suicidal, and I my older granddaughter told me she was sexually and physically abused by him. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery Workbook for GriefDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow We LoveTake Your Life Back
July 12, 2024
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Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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