“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God” – Matthew 5:9
Jesus spoke these words during the Sermon on the Mount. It is one of eight blessings in the Gospel of Matthew commonly known as the Beatitudes.
As Christians, it is very important for us to understand this verse correctly. Throughout my years as a pastor, I have frequently heard people incorrectly say, “Blessed are the peacekeepers…”
That’s a drastic error and here’s why. Peacemakers strive to create peace and attempt to reconcile things and people that are at odds with one another; peacekeepers strive to keep peace at all costs. Proverbs 10:10 (NLT) says, “People who wink at wrong cause trouble, but a bold reproof promotes peace.” Peacekeepers, by not acknowledging wrongdoings in an effort to maintain peace, are actually winking at them.
Peacekeepers and peacemakers can actually be considered complete opposite. Southern white men and women in the Jim Crow era could have actually called themselves peacekeepers. They wanted to maintain things as they were without discord or change; they wanted to keep the peace as it was – racism disguised as peace. Civil rights’ activists had to sometimes disturb the peace in an effort to make a new kind of peace – a superior version of peace.
This also happens within the walls of our churches. One reason numbers are declining within our churches is because we do not share our thoughts, concerns, opinions and doubts with each other for sake of keeping the peace. And then members get so upset because they feel like they have no voice, that they leave – never to grace the door of a church again.
Here are three ways we can make peace instead of keeping peace:
1. Speak your mind and share your passions
Peacekeepers do not want to create discomfort and hurt by disrupting the peace. It is important to realize that not all hurt is harmful. The disciples are a prime example of this. In Acts, they had a choice. They first had to disrupt peace to create a further and even greater peace. If they wanted to keep peace, they would have never mentioned Jesus’ name ever again.
2. Share discomfort, pain and hurt
Humans are created to be social creatures, but peacekeepers often feel like their needs, thoughts, pain and grievances do not matter. So instead, they just let all of that build up. They keep it to themselves until it explodes, and then they completely ruin the peace they have tried so desperately to keep.
3. Engage people with who are different (race, age, religion, sexual orientation, etc.)
Often times we avoid people who are different from us in order to keep peace that might be disrupted if we engage others who may view the world differently. Whether it is race relations in America or speaking with your Muslim or gay neighbor, it is important that to make peace with each other, not keep a faux-sense of peace that might actually be disguised prejudice, narrow-mindedness, fear or bigotry.
What is surprising is that in an effort to keep the peace, many are actually sinning. There is nothing admirable about denying the truth, communication and concern in an effort to keep peace; in fact, it does quite the opposite. Although it won’t be easy, it is important that we take our lives back from being peacekeepers and instead become peacemakers.
This article first appeared on Relevant.com.
Stephen Arterburn is an award-winning author with over 10 million books in print, His latest book, Take Your Life Back, which he co-authored with Dr. David Stoop, was released in October 2016. Steve is the founder and Chairman of New Life Ministries and is the host of the radio and television show “New Life Live!”
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