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“Stop Asking Why and Focus on What.”

September 16, 2025
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Topics: Family Relationships, Grief & Loss Support, Personal Growth, Trauma & Abuse Recovery

Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, PhD, JJ West, MEd, LMFT

Caller Questions & More:

  1. JJ discusses why we shouldn’t ask who is at fault when disappointments happen; ask how can we let them shape our character.
  2. Where do I go if I’ve been estranged from my 38yo son for two years because his wife took him away?
  3. My daughters say they don’t have time to see a mediator to help us with our relationship; how do I get out of this loneliness?
  4. I was molested when I was younger by my stepdad, and when I told my mom, she cared more about him instead of me. Any advice?
  5. I just found out I was conceived through gang rape 43yrs ago; how do I navigate having the DNA of a monster?

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