New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: May 1, 2019

May 1, 2019

Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

- Is it true that men can turn on and off emotions like a light switch?

- How do I prepare for a marriage with an older man who has been celibate since 1990?

- How do I motivate my husband to get help for porn and alcohol?

- Comment: Men don’t shut off their emotions; they have the ability to separate emotions from reality.

- What can I do if I am sexually attracted to my wife but just too tired for sex? 

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: - How do I help my alcoholic husband who doesn’t want help? - Does someone get into Heaven if they continue to sin? - My alcoholic mother doesn’t speak to me; how can a mother stop loving her children? - I am worried that my husband might die and leave me alone; do I need a therapist? - Steve’s abortion talk at Baylor was amazing; thank you for being so transparent. - My mom never liked me and I am depressed; am I an alcoholic? 
April 30, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Special Guest Psychiatrist and Author Dr. Daniel Amen Caller Questions: - My daughter has a condition that causes her to lose consciousness; how does that affect the brain? - When will I know I no longer need anxiety meds? I am exercising and don’t eat meat. - My 11yo niece, who had trauma before she was born, attempted suicide; is medication the only treatment? - I am 63yo missionary with ADHD and MS; would a brain scan help me think? - Do you have a cure for fibromyalgia? - What do you think of electroshock treatment for depression? 
April 29, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: - Can I remarry after divorcing my bipolar husband who abandoned us? - Comment: You cannot use Psalm 37:4 to get whatever you want; you must ask God to reveal your desires. - Finding Freedom was an awesome weekend of learning and growing! - I’ve been married 2yrs, had an affair, and now my wife wants to divorce; shall I pay for it? - A lack of intimacy and connection developed when I was drinking; what steps can my wife take to reconnect?
April 26, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: - I disagree with your advice to a pastor who married his affair and wants to return to ministry. - My new husband still talks with women and won’t let me see his phone. - How do I crawl out of a midlife crisis after things haven’t happened like I thought? - My married nephew ignores his 13yo daughter but praises his affair’s two daughters; how can I help her? 
April 25, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: - My pastor says porn is not a reason for divorce; what do you think? - How do I know when it is safe to date a guy who is into pornography? - Do I need to tell my ex-husband’s girlfriend that her children are not safe with him? - I’ve been married to a narcissist for 2yrs and he keeps leaving; what do I do? - My husband is addicted to crack cocaine; how can I get him into inpatient care without insurance? 
April 24, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: - How do I get out of my green card marriage now that I’m a youth minister? - Listening to New Life Live has helped me so much! - I was engaged after my divorce and he broke it off in a text; how do I trust again? - My friend has cancer and is trying to kill herself with opioids; what can I do? - Comment: I was in Lynne’s situation of waiting for a mate and God’s Word helped me. 
April 23, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Was it right to financially cut off my son who abuses opioids? How can I get my purity back on track and stop feeling guilty? My bipolar wife and I have intimacy issues; how do I regain my life and love? Our 19yo son spiraled into drugs and ruined our marriage. 
April 22, 2019
From the New Life Live! archives, this show originally aired on Good Friday in 2009 Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: - I learned how to forgive and get unstuck at your New Life Weekend! - How can I date without the fear of taking the next step? - My 15yo son is blaming me and calling me paranoid like he heard my abusive ex-husbands say. - How do I draw the boundary between unconditionally loving and enabling my 19yo gay son? - It meant so much for me to surrender all of my concerns to God at the New Life Weekend. My girlfriend of 3mos turned cold and I feel hurt; did I get too attached too fast? 
April 19, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - How do I maneuver a relationship with my 40yo daughter who is borderline? - I have been married for a short time and I have a fear of sex; what can I do? - How can we help my alcoholic nephew who won’t go into a program? - Is it possible to fall in love with a woman in Guyana who needs my help to come to America? 
April 18, 2019
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - How should I handle my neighbor obsessively mowing his lawn at night? - I promised to marry my girlfriend of 12yrs after she deals with her hoarding; what now? - How do I get my parents to rebuke my brother for sexually abusing me as a child? - As a 15yo, is it the right thing to break up with someone if you have feelings for someone else? 
April 17, 2019
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Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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