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Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: April 20, 2021

April 20, 2021

Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

- Should I walk out on my husband since his alcoholic son has lived in our basement for 6yrs and now has moved in his grandson without my permission?

- Do I support my husband or leave after discovering he has been with multiple women, including prostitutes?

- How do I honor my mom who’s a narcissist and always blames me?

- I’m going through a divorce and my younger teens, who are court-ordered to visit their abusive father, have become disrespectful. 

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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: - How do I help my daughter who got married less than 2yrs ago, then went through chemo, and is now separated? - I am dating a man whose mom just died and he isolates. How do I talk to him about it when I lost my dad to COVID in January? - At 56yo, what kind of counseling license should I get? I would like to start a Life Recovery Group and be a counselor at Every Man’s Battle workshop. - How do I change my attitude toward my marriage? I felt pressured to get married at an early age.
April 19, 2021
Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - I heard a podcast that said the Every Man’s Battle book doesn’t validate the trauma to women. - How do I find help after my husband of almost 35yrs died? We had drama in our marriage just before he died. - How do I walk through the bad relationship with my unloving parents? - What should I do if my wife talks to people who aren’t there and is in and out of mental hospitals? 
April 16, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Special Guest Dr. Tony Evans, author of Kingdom Men Rising Caller Questions: - I am so grateful for Dr. Tony Evans! - I have a group of girls that come to my house and and listen to Dr. Evans’ daughter. Thank you for your ministry! - How can I help my husband see that he is verbally abusive? - How can I have my son draw strength and be the man in the relationship with his fiancée? - My fiancée cheated on me when I was in my 20s and I never married; how do I get over fear at 60yo? - My adult daughter says my husband molested her as a child. He is a pastor and denies it; how long should I wait for him to repent? 
April 15, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - My ex-husband’s mother told me to put up with his abuse because Jesus did; how do I get past his family? - What do I do now that my wife left me to follow a false prophet in Chile? - I was married to an abusive pastor who told the church I had affairs. - How do I deal with pre-verbal trauma? My mother was depressed and anxious when I was born, and I feel numb. 
April 14, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Special Guest Charlene Quint, author of Overcoming the Narcissist, Sociopath, Psychopath, and other Domestic Abusers Caller Questions: - I’m in my second abusive marriage; what can I do? - In my marriage, I’m a former abuser. Men can change, but they have to want to change. - I went through an emotionally abusive marriage and was stalked for 12yrs after I divorced. - How do I get out of my 24yr marriage to a narcissist? - I am now divorced, but how did I get trapped into an abusive marriage? 
April 13, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Special Guest Steve Poe, author of Creatures of Habit Caller Questions: - How can I break the attachment style of seeing my husband as my father? My father died when I was 12yo. - My husband started using nasty language with me and no one else the last 6mos. - I separated myself from my abusive mom after my father died. Did I do the right thing? - How can I be a help to my brother-in-law and his parents due to a rift between them? 
April 12, 2021
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Special Guest Psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen, Founder of Amen Clinics Caller Questions: - How do I deal with seeing my mom declining after she went into a care unit for Alzheimer’s? Should I be taking care of her? - Should I try to get an item back that I sold to ease my anxiety over selling it? - How can I calm my brain after my husband’s sudden death at home has left me physically ill? - I’m 60yo and have been divorced twice; what can I do if I want to get married again?
April 9, 2021
Hosts: Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - My 20yo son was diagnosed with schizophrenia; did his marijuana use at 13yo cause this? - How do I help my mom grieve the loss of my 38yo nephew from a motorcycle accident? - My alcoholic husband has been a dry drunk for the last 5yrs; how do I forgive his abuse? - After my wife filed for divorce, how do I handle my narcissistic mom who wants more time with me? 
April 8, 2021
Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - Did the Old Testament patriarchs like Elijah and Moses go immediately to Heaven? - Am I asking too much of my husband to get rid of his deceased wife’s stuff before I move back? - I watched your videos on YouTube and they helped me not watch porn for a month. Is there a workbook I can do? - I heard a loud voice in my head saying to stop smoking and then was diagnosed with cancer; was that the Holy Spirit? 
April 7, 2021
Hosts: Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - How do I respond to my wife who says we’re unequally yoked? - I’ve had a lot of loss over the last 10yrs but my sister thinks I’m too sensitive; could I be? - What can I say to my wife of 5yrs who asked her disabled ex-husband to move in with us? - How do you know if you’re taking care of your parents or enabling them? 
April 6, 2021
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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