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Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: April 10, 2024

April 10, 2024

Topics: DepressionAdult ChildrenSuicideSexual AbuseEstrangementAnxiety
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

1. Any advice about what we can do to help our 32yo son with anxiety and depression?

2. I wanted to end it last month because nothing is easy for me; what can I do?

3. Where do I go from here if my 35yo daughter cut me out of her life after my son-in-law sexually assaulted me?

4. My 11yo granddaughter has severe panic attacks; how can I help?

Suggested Resources:
Conquer Worry and Anxiety
Take Your Life Back
Emotional Freedom Workbook
How We Love Our Kids

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Topics: Bipolar Disorder, ADD, Parenting, Difficult Conversations, Sexual Abuse, PTSD, SiblingsHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. My husband has a pattern of leaving me when he has a bipolar episode; is there a place in his mind he can go that gives him peace? 2. My sister’s 11yo son with ADHD talks badly to her and all of us, but she doesn’t discipline him; how do I talk to her about it? 3. I want no contact with my father-in-law who sexually abused his stepdaughter years ago and was never charged and has never gone to counseling; what can I do? 4. How do I help my sister who is a domestic violence victim and has mental health issues? I’m now her guardian. Suggested Resources:Understanding and Loving a Person with Bipolar DisorderBoundariesHow We LoveChanges That Heal
April 9, 2024
Topics: In-laws, Adult Children, Difficult Conversations, Drug Addiction, Boundaries, PornographyHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. My passive aggressive daughter-in-law is coming over tonight to talk; how can I steer the conversation to clear up our conflict? 2. I take care of my father and am sober from meth for 2yrs. A cousin moved in and I found his drug paraphernalia; how do I ask him to leave? 3. My new husband doesn’t know I know he is watching porn again; what is the best way to approach this conversation with him? 4. Since I told my pregnant daughter’s boyfriend he needs to marry her, he has been cold to me. Should I address this with him? Suggested Resources:How We LoveLife Recovery BibleWorthy of Her TrustDifficult Conversations CD
April 8, 2024
Topics: Adult Children, Enabling, Separation, Dating, Difficult ConversationsHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. What do I do if my 25yo daughter and her 5yo son moved out, but she now wants to move back home after it hasn’t worked out with her boyfriend? 2. I’m separated from my porn-addicted, emotionally abusive husband who says we should live together, but I don’t want to. 3. My adult children have made it clear they don’t want a relationship with my partner of 8yrs; how do I tell my kids I’m still with him? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackWorthy of Her TrustHow We LoveDifficult Conversations CD
April 5, 2024
Topics: Self-Worth, Childhood Abuse, Fighting, Boundaries, Pornography, Adult ChildrenHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. I’ve had eating disorders and a bad self-image because my mom called me names at 10yo; how do I get a better self-image at 71yo? 2. You’ve been talking a lot about self-image, and I wanted to comment on what has helped me love myself. 3. When someone tries to get into a fight with you, how do you deal with it? 4. How can I know if my son is acting out on porn? He went to Every Man’s Battle but hasn’t been attending the weekly group meetings that I pay for. Suggested Resources:Healing Is a Choice100 Days of CharacterEvery Man’s Battle
April 4, 2024
Topics: End of Life, Suicide, Adult Children, Finances, Boundaries, Grandparenting, Grief, Christian Walk, Empty NestHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. If I show up to say goodbye to my husband’s aunt who has cancer and is doing assisted suicide, does it mean I am okay with what she’s doing? 2. My only daughter demands I give her a large sum of money; what should I do as a widow on a fixed income? 3. Any suggestions on how to explain to my 4yo grandson that his grandfather just died? 4. Is it okay for my adult daughter to not live at home after she graduates from college? I don’t see biblical grounds for her to leave the home before she gets married. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery Workbook for GriefDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow We Love Our KidsFinding Joy in the Empty Nest
April 3, 2024
Topics: Finances, Adult Children, Boundaries, Brain Issues, Stress, Christian Walk, Body ConnectionHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. Our son-in-law has lost multiple jobs and made poor financial choices; how do we navigate our daughter and son-in-law asking for financial help? 2. What help can you give me to deal with the stress of not sleeping at night, headaches, and planning my daughter’s wedding? 3. How do I deal with the consequences of sin? 4. I wanted to share some things that have helped me deal with stress to help the previous caller with headaches. Suggested Resources:Doing Life with Your Adult Children100 Days of HealingBoundaries
April 2, 2024
Topics: Elder Abuse, Separation, Dating, Grandparenting, Anger, DivorceHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. What do I do if I am far away from my brother, and the mother of his kids physically attacked my mom who has dementia? 2. My younger wife from the Philippines is going to leave me; what can I do? We have a son together. 3. Should I stay in a relationship with my boyfriend of 3yrs if I don’t want to spend time with him anymore? I’m 20yo and don’t want to hurt him. 4. My 4yo grandson has outbursts and will punch his sister in the face or break things when he doesn’t get his way; what do we do? His parents are divorcing. Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackHow We LoveHow We Love Our Kids
April 1, 2024
Topics: Blended Families, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Miscarriages, Pornography, ADDHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. What is my husband’s biblical role as a stepfather to my adult sons who live with us? 2. My granddaughter is in college and struggles with insomnia, tinnitus, and I have seen her rocking back and forth; what is my role as her 82yo grandmother? 3. You talked about miscarriages the other day, and I wanted to share my testimony of how God comforted me and my wife after the miscarriage of our first child. 4. How do I know if my adult son is acting out with pornography? How do I continue to help him in his recovery? 5. I am stressed that my husband may have undiagnosed ADHD. How do I live with him making our home a train wreck? Suggested Resources:Doing Life with Your Adult ChildrenUnderstanding and Loving Your College StudentLiving Strong, Finishing WellDifficult Conversations CD
March 29, 2024
Topics: Sexual Abuse, Forgiveness, Living Together, Difficult Conversations, Dating, ParentingHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. How do I forgive the adults who allowed me to be sexually abused as a child? Even my mom allowed it. 2. Should I talk to my pastor since he performed a ceremony for my sister and her live-in boyfriend but did not legally marry them? 3. How can I tell if a relationship is healthy? 4. My husband and I do not agree on how to discipline our kids. Suggested Resources:Forgiving What You’ll Never ForgetDifficult Conversations CDBoundariesHow We Love Our Kids
March 28, 2024
Topics: Jealousy, Weight Issues, Self-Worth, Caregiving, Legal IssuesHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. How can jealousy be controlled? 2. I grew up with a mom who was very conscientious about weight, so I really struggle with self-loathing as far as my weight goes. 3. When do I hold my ex-stepdaughter legally responsible when she was my care provider? I have been told she was guilty of neglect. Suggested Resources:Emotional Freedom WorkbookLose It for Life100 Days of Healing
March 27, 2024
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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