Faith and Work: Why Your “Secular” Job Is Instantly Sacred--Jordan Raynor
Faith and work collide in the places you actually live: locker rooms, Zoom calls, minivans, and fluorescent-lit offices where calling can feel like drudgery. Jordan Raynor joins Dave and Ann Wilson to blow up the sacred/secular divide, trace God’s first commission from Genesis 1 into your Monday grind, and show why changing diapers, running routes, closing deals, or pulling espresso shots can all be strategic, eternal work—without changing your job title.
Jordan Raynor: If you asked Jesus about his spiritual life, he'd look at you like you had three heads. You're talking about my life. I hear a lot of people use this term "secular work." Secular literally means "without God." That's what it means.
If you are a Christ-follower, you believe that the one true God literally dwells inside of you everywhere you go. So, the only thing you have to do to instantly make your "secular" workplace sacred is walk through the front door or log onto Zoom.
Dave Wilson: Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I’m Dave Wilson.
Ann Wilson: And I’m Ann Wilson. You can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.
Dave Wilson: Early, first five years of being the Detroit Lions chaplain, I don’t know if you even knew this, there was a belief among owners in the league that teams should get rid of their chaplains because chaplains are telling their players that what they do as an athlete and their work is not important. Only God is important.
Ann Wilson: I remember this because you were worried. And you were also frustrated because it was a misbelief.
Dave Wilson: It sort of swept across the league, and it’s a league of copycats. I remember thinking, if you’ve got a spiritual influence in your locker room, they’re going to tell your players playing football isn’t important, only worshiping Jesus in church is important. I was like, that is not what the Bible says. Work really matters.
Ann Wilson: Think about the fruit of the spirit: love, joy, and peace. An owner’s probably thinking, "This is what we do not want—somebody that has those principles in the locker room." You can understand their fear, but they don’t get it.
Dave Wilson: They don’t get it, and we’re going to get it today because I think that belief isn’t just at one time in the NFL; it’s all over the place. We have Jordan Raynor back. Welcome back to FamilyLife Today.
Jordan Raynor: Dave and Ann, I love hanging out with you guys. Thanks for having me back.
Dave Wilson: You’ve written seven books in three years.
Jordan Raynor: Something like that.
Dave Wilson: So you like to work.
Jordan Raynor: I love to work! You have to, to write a book called *The Word Before Work*.
Dave Wilson: *The Word Before Work*. What a great title. A Monday through Friday devotional to help you find eternal purpose in your daily work. I don’t know if I’ve met a person more passionate than you on this topic. When you bring up the topic of work and God’s perspective, you light up. Why?
Jordan Raynor: I spent the first 10 years of my career as a tech entrepreneur. About halfway through that journey, I was in the process of selling my second company, trying to figure out what I was going to do next. When you sell two companies, the natural thing is to go start a third, so that was the plan.
One Sunday we went to church, and we had a guest preacher preach a sermon I think most Christians have heard before. This sermon made me feel so guilty about wanting to go start another business when there was a need for people to move to mud huts 5,000 miles away from home to make disciples of all nations.
My wife and I felt this tremendous guilt and started praying about it. Path one is to go start another business, but maybe we need to be going down path two and go start a church. One Sunday after church, I had this godly mentor of mine pull me aside. He said, "I hear you’re thinking about planting a church." I’m thinking this guy’s going to pat me on the back, maybe write me a check. He just looked me square in the eyes and said, "That sounds really dumb for you."
"For you," he said. "Jordan, you’re a talented entrepreneur. You’ve created a lot of jobs, you’ve served your employees and your investors really well, and I’ve seen you come fully alive when you do that work. Why in the world do you think you have to go plant a church in order to do ministry? Don’t you get that your work as an entrepreneur is ministry?"
I looked at this guy like he had three heads. I had no idea what he was talking about. He said, "Here’s what I want you to do. With this conversation in the background of your mind, I want you to go re-read Genesis 1, which you’ve probably read 200 times, in the context of this conversation and tell me what you find."
What I found changed my life forever. I saw that long before God reveals to us that he is holy or omnipotent or loving, he tells us that he is a God who works, a God who is productive, a God who creates. Then, fast forward to Genesis 1:28. Long before the Great Commission, we find the very first commission to humankind, which is never rescinded, even post-sin: to fill the earth and subdue it, to take the raw materials of creation and just make it more fruitful for others' benefit and enjoyment. So I didn't go start a church. Spoiler alert. But that message changed my life, and it's why I'm so passionate about it today.
Ann Wilson: Go back to that Genesis 1, to subdue the earth. What does that mean? Because we’ve all read that scripture, but not all of us have taken it to that point.
Jordan Raynor: There are a lot of components of this first commission. First is "be fruitful and increase in number." We know what that means: have lots of babies, fill the maternity ward. Then you get to "fill the earth." This is different. Most scholars agree this is not just to have babies; it’s to create culture. We treat the six days as the end of creation. Day six was the beginning of creation. It’s when God passed the baton to us and told us to fill the earth like he did.
Then you skip down to this word "subdue." This is where things get really interesting. Wayne Grudem, the famous theologian and editor of the ESV Bible, says that "subdue" literally means to make the earth more useful for human beings' benefit and enjoyment.
Isn’t that what players in the NFL are doing every single day? Making this world more useful for human beings' enjoyment, doing it in a God-honoring way. Most people would say no, but Dave Wilson would say yes.
Dave Wilson: It wasn't really enjoyable in Detroit. I'm sure it was meant to be. But you're right; it's entertainment.
Jordan Raynor: This is what we are doing every day. We are imaging our heavenly Father who first and foremost, before he shows up as a preacher, shows up as a creator and is taking this world and making it more useful for our fellow image-bearers. That’s the very thing we were created to do.
Keep in mind, we’re still in Genesis 1. This is prior to sin entering the world. Sin comes on the scene in Genesis 3, and work becomes difficult. Even after work is cursed, God still reiterates the first commission after sin over and over again. In Genesis 9 after the flood, the first words to Noah are to fill the earth again. It makes the Ten Commandments, for crying out loud. Yes, the fourth command is a command to Sabbath and rest, but it’s also a reminder that we’re called to work six days a week. Work is God’s first gift to humankind.
Dave Wilson: Where do we get this idea—and it’s a prevalent idea—that spiritual work is better and more important?
Jordan Raynor: I think there are a couple of roots to this. One is this false divide between the spiritual and the material. The word "spiritual" doesn't appear in the Old Testament. Why? Because all of life is spiritual. If you asked Jesus about his spiritual life, he’d look at you like you had three heads. "You're talking about my life." I hear a lot of people use this term "secular work." Secular literally means "without God." That's what it means.
If you are a Christ-follower, you believe that the one true God literally dwells inside of you everywhere you go. So the only thing you have to do to instantly make your "secular" workplace sacred is walk through the front door or log onto Zoom.
Ann Wilson: That’s so good, Jordan.
Jordan Raynor: Instantly sacred. Everywhere you walk is sacred. That’s number one; I think the source of this is this false divide between the spiritual and the material.
I think the second one—and this is going to open up a bigger can of worms—is that in the last 200 years of church history, for the first time in church history, we have treated the Great Commission to make disciples as the exclusive commission of followers of Jesus. This is very new in church history. I’ve got many theologians who have said prior to 200 years ago, nobody interpreted Matthew 28 as the exclusive mission of the church.
Is the Great Commission commanded of every follower of Jesus? Absolutely. Non-negotiable. All of us are called to make disciples. But we have a dual commission. We are called to the first commission—to fill the earth and subdue it—and the Great Commission as we go about that first commission.
And by the way, in our increasingly post-Christian context, it’s not pastors and full-time missionaries that are making the most disciples. It is mere Christians—entrepreneurs, baristas, and accountants who are working alongside people who are never going to darken the doors of a church. So we have to bring the church to them. Ironically, by making the Great Commission the only commission, we’re becoming less effective at the Great Commission because we’re making people feel guilty about going to work in the very places most likely to carry out the Great Commission and make disciples.
Dave Wilson: I love to hear your comments on this. When you talk about the Great Commission, I remember in seminary, studying Matthew 28 and for the first time realizing that the word "go" is actually a participle. If you don't know English, you're like, "So what's the big deal?" Most of us go, "Oh, participle, that's an '-ing' word." So what he’s really saying is what you just said. "As you are going, make disciples." So what you just said is literally the call of Jesus on our lives. The Great Commission means wherever I send you, make disciples.
Jordan Raynor: 100%. Most biblical scholars that I’ve read agree that the NIV translation, "Go and make disciples," is a really poor translation of Jesus’s words in the original Greek. It has huge ramifications because, as you said, Dave, the better translation is "as you are going, make disciples."
By the way, Jesus himself didn’t go more than 200 miles away from his hometown, and he was the greatest disciple-maker of all time. So if we’re telling our people that we’ve got to go away from our current vocation and location to make disciples, that’s a slap in Jesus’s face because Jesus didn’t go very far and he changed the world forever with the gospel of the kingdom.
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Ann Wilson: Especially as Americans, we work to retire. Work is like, "Oh, I have to go to work." The way you're living feels like, "Oh, I get to go to work." We have this mentality that work is this terrible thing, and it sounds like you’re saying, no, work is this gift that God’s given us.
Jordan Raynor: We’ve got to be careful here. The three of us love what we do. I have a lot of friends who don’t, and they feel more of the effects of the curse in this specific area than we do.
Dave Wilson: It's hard; it's toil.
Jordan Raynor: It’s hard, it’s toil. That’s the reality. What’s been lost in the conversation, though, is that there’s still creational goodness in all good, God-glorifying work. All work was created to be good. And by the way, one day it’s all going to be perfect once again.
Anytime I have a buddy who hates his job or her job, I point him to Isaiah 65. It’s one of the most beautiful promises of scripture. Isaiah is talking about the new earth. I think in verse 17 he says, "See, I’ll create a new heavens and a new earth." Then he goes on and says, "My chosen people will build houses and live in them. They will long enjoy the work of their hands; they will not labor in vain."
Contrary to this American caricature of heaven as a glorified retirement home, our eternal reality on a new material earth—that is not exclusively "spiritual"—contains work. What that means is if you hate your job today, look forward expectantly to the day when you will long enjoy the work of your hands. And if you love your job, may that fuel your anticipation for eternity.
Heaven isn't boring; heaven is the most epic adventure of all time because we will be ruling and reigning forever and ever—Revelation 22:5—with Jesus the King, and that includes good, perfect work that we will long enjoy. Those who claim that saving souls is all that matters—that’s a slap in the face of Jesus because Jesus came to make everything new.
The curse of Genesis 3 broke the spiritual and the material realms. So unless Jesus returns and restores every part of this material world, this earth, and makes it like new again, then his redemption is incomplete. But his redemption is complete. We know that he’s won back every square inch of creation, and that gives value and meaning to the material things that we do today.
He has redeemed them. He has redeemed this earth, he has redeemed our souls, and so working with both souls and the material world—whether you’re working grinding coffee beans or making laptops or creating spreadsheets, whatever it is—that is good work because God never once renounced his claim that this material world, in the words of Genesis 1, is good.
Dave Wilson: That leads me to ask this question: if I’m a Christian and I understand this right perspective, how does it change the way I work? When the NFL was saying, and I had a head coach who disagreed with that idea but he wasn't sure, and he said to me, "Can you speak to that?" I did a chapel on it.
He said, "You’ve got to do that chapel every year just to remind us." One of the points I made is that owners are saying we don’t want Christian players on our team because they’re going to care more about God than what they do on the field. I said they should, if they understand what a Christian player understands about work, they should be begging for you to be on their team.
You should be the hardest working people in the locker room. You should be there first, you should leave last. Why? You’re not playing for an owner, you’re not playing for a paycheck; you’re playing for the King of Kings. He’s given you a gift, he’s given you work. It matters. Your intensity should be unbelievable. You should be the most caring person in the locker room. You’re loving people. It should be like, "I don’t know what these people are, but I want those kind of guys in the locker room," because that’s how Christian workers work. Am I right?
Jordan Raynor: 100%. If you get this high-level concept that work is a gift from God, a good gift, and whatever work you’re doing today—so long as it’s not explicitly out of line with God’s commands—is good, then the practical outworkings of this are endless.
You pointed to excellence. We claim to be image-bearers of God. Look outside your window. How does God work? How does God create? I was just in Zion National Park. "Excellence" falls so far short of describing the God of the Bible, but that’s what we can ascribe to.
If you believe your work matters and you are an image-bearer of God, you’re going to work with excellence. You’re going to work hard. You’re going to work with care for people beyond their productivity. You’re also going to work with rest because you know that the God of the universe loves you on your most and your least productive day, and that you can rest and still find favor as his child.
I could go on and on, but when you get this, when you understand that your work matters to God, the practical outpourings of what that means shape at a very practical level how you do your work. That’s why I wrote what I think is the first daily Monday through Friday devotional.
Ann Wilson: Which is really cool.
Jordan Raynor: To help people connect the Word to their work because the implications of this are legion.
Dave Wilson: I did a whole week of your devotional last night. Me too, I was doing prep. I wanted to read through what you wrote. I remember the first year we started our church in Michigan, I was at a restaurant near where we started it, and this owner comes up. I didn't know the guy.
He says, "Hey, this is my restaurant. Can I talk to you a minute?" I’m like, "Oh no." He pulls me sort of aside and he goes, "Hey, I heard you’re Dave, you have this church, blah, blah, blah." He goes, "One of your guys, he’s a high school kid, works for me as a busboy." Then I’m like, "Oh, what did he do?" And he goes, "He is the best worker I’ve ever hired."
Jordan Raynor: Wow.
Dave Wilson: I go, "What?" He goes, and I know this kid, but he goes, "He shows up early, he cares for people. I mean, he goes way out of his way to—he’s so caring, he’s just—he’s a model." Then I look at him like, "Well, that’s great. Why are you telling me?" He goes, "Are all your people like that?" I wanted to say yes, but of course not, but I thought, what a picture of the way a Christian works in what many people would call a secular job. A busboy—that doesn't matter. To him it mattered.
Jordan Raynor: 100%. There's lots of talk about exile right now. In the West, we feel increasingly like we're in exile. First Peter is a letter to exiles. What does Peter say in First Peter 2? He says, "Do good, live good lives amongst the pagans." Not retreating to your Christian subculture; engaging the city, rushing into dark places, going and working in that industry that you think is God-forsaken, for the glory of God. So that people can see your excellence and your love and your genuine care and they get glimpses—you're scratching off little glimpses—of the eternal kingdom of God and the God who is King of all things.
Ann Wilson: This is so good. And I’m now thinking, as a mom of the stay-at-home moms or dads that are feeling like, "I want to get back to work, but my husband and I, we’ve committed to being home with the kids." I remember that stage when our kids were little, and I felt like I have no life.
I have no life, I have no value, because so much of my value was in my work. I was trying to get a perspective of, "God, I know that this is a gift. I know that you’ve given me these kids and they’re a gift to us, but it feels like it’s nothing." Jordan, what do you say to those parents that are home?
Jordan Raynor: I’ve been so encouraged that those parents have found this devotional book to be helpful. I make very clear in the book: we define "work" as the thing we get paid to do. That is not how God defines work. God defines work so broadly that his definition of work in Exodus 20:10 includes animals working.
Ann Wilson: What do you mean by that? Explain that.
Jordan Raynor: So in the Ten Commandments, we get to the fourth commandment, and he issues the Sabbath command. God says, "Let the animals rest from their work." It’s the same word described as human labor. So this term is very broad in scripture.
To me, that’s very encouraging because I think we can define work very broadly, not as the thing we get paid to do, but basically the opposite of leisure and rest. So if you parent, you’re a stay-at-home mom, stay-at-home dad, you’re doing the work that God has created you to do in this season. And that work is just as important. Now, society’s not going to value that work very much, but the God of the universe does. Look at Mary. I think Mary’s all the evidence that you need. Elizabeth is all the evidence that you need. Exodus chapter one, which is all about mothers and women, is all the evidence you need that God calls that work of parenting very much work.
Ann Wilson: I can remember being at home, and I can also remember cleaning toilets. This is my life now; this is it. But I remember praying, "Lord, do you see? Do you see what I’m doing down here? This is nothing."
And I felt like God was saying, "This is a worship moment, Ann. Every one of these moments as you’re wiping bottoms and you’re wiping noses and you’re cleaning toilets and no one sees and no one’s applauding, I’m applauding every one of those little and big tasks. No matter if you’re speaking before thousands or if you’re all by yourself cleaning your toilet, I see it and we’re applauding it in the heavenly realm."
Jordan Raynor: Psalm 37:23 is one of my favorite verses. It says the Lord directs the steps of the godly, and he delights in every detail of their lives. Every. Not just when you’re sharing the gospel, not just when you’re donating money to church, although he certainly smiles upon those things.
Every time you change a diaper with excellence and love and in accordance with God’s commands, every time you make a latte and create a spreadsheet and land a deal with excellence and love and in accordance with God’s commands, our heavenly Father sees it, he delights in it, and his delight is eternal. Hebrews 6:10: He will not forget the work that we do for him. He is not unjust; he’ll remember it forever. It contributes to his eternal pleasure. And so that should fuel our purpose and pleasure in the present.
Dave Wilson: I was going to ask you, Jordan, to speak to the person that’s struggling with their job, and you just did.
Ann Wilson: So good.
Dave Wilson: I remember when I was coaching high school football, I’d be walking down the ramp to the high school field. I was just a volunteer coach, but every time I made that walk, I prayed and I remembered what I’m doing here. It isn’t trying to win football games; it’s I’m a light for the kingdom, I’m loving these boys, I’m modeling to them what a man looks like. I’m working unto the Lord, and this is a beautiful thing.
But I had to remind myself as I walked because I’d get caught up in football. And that’s good too, because it’s part of the work, but it’s like, no, this is what I’m about. You just did that. If somebody’s listening, I’m going to play Jordan’s words over again before I go to work today because I need to be reminded. It’s going to be hard. This is not an easy job, but it matters, and God’s put me here. Or you could get his devotional and read it every day. That’s good.
Ann Wilson: Man, I love Jordan Raynor. He is such a systems guy, he’s such a Bible guy. Again, his book is called *The Word Before Work: A Monday Through Friday Devotional to Help You Find Eternal Purpose in Your Daily Work*. Don’t we all need that sometimes? We just need to be reminded this has an eternal purpose, even in the mundane days. You can find his book at FamilyLifeToday.com; just click the link in the show notes.
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- Hedges: Loving Your Marriage Enough to Protect It
- Help For Anxiety in Parenting: David & Meg Robbins
- Help Wanted: Moms Raising Daughters
- Helping Orphans With Special Needs
- Helping Others Build Strong Marriages
- Helping the Hurting
- Hero: Unleashing God's Power in a Man's Heart
- Hidden Joy
- High Performance Friendships
- Holy Is The Day
- Home: A Man's Battle Station
- Homeless Men Stepping Up
- Hooked
- Hope After Betrayal
- How Churches Can Include Single Parents: Ron Deal and Gayla Grace
- How Do I Love Thee?
- How Empty is Your Nest?
- How Pinterest Stole Christmas
- How to Break the Cycle of Divorce
- How to Lead Your Wife: Rechab Gray & Ike Todd
- How to Listen So Your Kids Will Talk: Becky Harling
- How to Pick a Spouse
- How We Got Here: Luke and Kristina Middendorf
- How We Love
- Hymns for a Child's Heart
- Hymns in the Modern Day Church
- I Beg to Differ
- I Do Again
- I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life: Brad Formsma
- I Still Believe
- I Take You
- I Will Carry You
- If God Is Good
- If I Could Do It Again
- If My Husband Would Change...
- I'm Happy For You, Not Really
- I'm Not Good Enough
- Image Restored: Rachael Gilbert
- In a Heartbeat
- Independence Day
- Indivisible
- In-Laws, Mates, and Money
- Instructing a Child’s Heart
- Internet Safety 101
- Interviewing Your Daughter's Date
- Introducing Athletes to Jesus
- Is It My Fault?
- Is Your Marriage LifeReady?
- It Starts at Home
- It's All About Love
- Jackhammered
- Jeremiah Johnston: Unleashing Peace
- Jerrad Lopes - How to Become a Great Dad
- Jesus Continued
- Jill's House
- Joy to the World
- Jumping Through Fires
- Just a Minute
- Just Say the Word
- Just Too Busy
- Kathy Koch: How to Parent Differently
- Kathy Koch: Start with the Heart
- Katie Davis Majors: Safe All Along
- Keeping the "Little" in Your Girl
- Kevin "KB" Burgess & Ameen Hudson: Dangerous Jesus
- Kiss Me Again
- Kisses From Katie
- Knowing God's Will for Marriage
- Kristen Hatton - Parenting Ahead
- Lasting Love
- Leaving a Legacy of Destiny
- Letters to My Daughters
- Letting Go of Control
- Liberating Submission
- Lies Men Believe
- Life in Spite of Me
- Listener Tributes
- Living on the Edge
- Living with Less So Your Family Has More
- Locking Arms, Stepping Up
- Loneliness: Don't Hate It or Waste It: Steve & Jennifer DeWitt
- Long Story Short
- Love is an Attitude
- Love Is Something You Do
- Love Like You Mean It
- Love Like You Mean It 2025
- Love Renewed After Shattered Dreams
- Love Renewed: Adam and Laura Brown
- Love Renewed: Clint and Penny Bragg
- Love Renewed: Hans and Star Molegraaf
- Love Renewed: Lance and Jess Miller
- Love Renewed: Scott and Sherry Jennings
- Love Thy Body
- Love to Eat, Hate to Eat
- Love, Sex, and Lasting Relationships
- Loving the Little Years
- Loving the Way Jesus Loves
- Loving Your Man Without Losing Your Mind
- Made to Last: Bryan & Stephanie Carter
- Making Love Last
- Man Alive
- Manhood
- Mansfield's Manly Men
- Marking Memorable Moments
- Marriage and Family for God's Glory
- Marriage Forecasting
- Marriage Matters
- Marriage Secrets That Almost Broke Us: Ron and Nan Deal
- Marriage Tested in the Furnace
- Marriage Undercover
- Married to an Unbeliever
- Marry Well
- Mastering the Money Basics
- Mean Mom's Guide to Raising Great Kids
- Measure of Success
- Melissa Kruger: Parenting with Hope
- Men and Women: Enjoying the Difference
- Michael & Lauren McAffee: Beyond Our Control
- Michael Kruger: Surviving Religion
- Miller/Hudson: Sleeping On It
- Mingling of Souls
- Misled: 7 Lies That Distort the Gospel: Allen Parr
- Money and Marriage God's Way
- Money Saving Families
- Moral Purity in Marriage
- More Than A Carpenter (updated): Sean McDowell
- More Than a Wedding: A Closer Look
- More than Championships
- Moving from Fear to Freedom
- MWB Reaction: Collin and Stacey Outerbridge, Joseph Torres, Anna Markham
- My Life as a So-Called Submissive Wife
- October Baby
- On Pills and Needles
- One of Us Must Be Crazy
- One With My Lord: Sam Allberry
- Oops, I Forgot My Wife and Kids!
- Organic Mentoring
- Orphan Justice
- Our Adoption Story
- Out of a Far Country
- Out of the Depths
- Overcome Pain to Love God's Word Again - Faith Womack
- Overcoming Emotions that Destroy
- Overcoming Lust
- Parent Fuel: For the Fire Inside Our Kids
- Parenthood: Adam and Chelsea Griffin
- Parenting Beyond Your Capacity
- Parenting by Design
- Parenting Heart to Heart
- Parenting is Your Highest Calling and Other Parenting Myths
- Parenting Panic: David & Meg Robbins
- Parenting With Kingdom Purpose
- Partner as First Priority: Ron Deal and Gayla Grace
- Picking Up the Pieces
- Planning for Oneness
- Planting Scripture Seeds
- Playing Hurt
- Politics--According to the Bible
- Practicing Affirmation
- Pray Big for Your Family
- Praying With Jesus
- Preach the Whole Gospel
- Preston and Jackie Hill Perry: Beyond the Vows
- Preston Perry: How To Tell the Truth
- Psalm 127
- Pure Eyes, Clean Heart
- Pure Pleasure
- Put the Seat Down
- Putting Christ Back in Christmas
- Putting Your Parents in Proper Perspective
- Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys: David Thomas
- Raising Emotionally Strong Boys - David Thomas
- Raising Unselfish Children
- Reaching Out to the Orphan
- Real Moms, Real Jesus
- Rebooting Christmas
- Rebuilding a Safe House
- Reclaiming Easter
- Reflecting on Twenty Years
- Reflections of Life: A Personal Visit With Bill Bright
- Refreshment for Families
- Rekindling the Family Reformation
- Rekindling the Romance in Your Marriage
- Relationships Done Right: Sean Perron and Spencer Harmon
- Remarriage After Loss: Ron Deal and Rod & Rachel Faulkner Brown
- Reset: Powerful Habits to Change Your Life: Debra Fileta
- Respectable Sins
- Restore the Table - Ryan Rush
- Rethinking Sexuality
- Rich in Love
- Richer by the Dozen - Bill and Pam Mutz
- Rick Altizer & Rachelle Star: He Calls Me Daughter
- Rid of My Disgrace
- Road Trip to Redemption
- Romance for Dummies
- Romance in the Rain
- Ron and Nan Deal: Mindful Marriage
- Runaway Emotions
- Ruth Chou Simons: Now and Not Yet
- Ruth Chou Simons: When Strivings Cease
- Sacred Home: Jennifer Pepito
- Sacred Influence
- Sam Allberry - Gospel Sanity in a Weary World
- Same Sex Marriage
- Say Goodbye to Survival Mode
- Say it Loud!
- Screens and Teens
- Season of Change
- Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert
- Secrets
- Seeing the Power of God Among Us
- Set-Apart Femininity
- Setting Up Stones
- Seven Reasons Why God Created Marriage
- Sex and Money
- Sex and the Single Christian Girl
- Sex and the Single Girl
- Sex, Dating and Relationships
- Sexual Problems in Marriage
- Sexual Sanity for Men
- Sexual Sanity for Women
- Shame Interrupted
- Sharing Christ with Word and Deed
- Sharing the Love and Laughter
- Shattered
- She Still Calls Me Daddy
- Shelterwood
- She's Got the Wrong Guy
- Shift: Building a Spiritual Legacy for the Next Generation
- Simple Truths
- Single and Free to be Me
- Singleness Redefined
- Sis, Take a Breath: Kirsten & Benjamin Watson
- Six Conversations in an Isolated World: Heather Holleman
- Sleeping Giant
- Smart Phones for Smart Families
- So You're About to Be a Teenager
- Something About Us
- SOS: Sick of Sex
- Soul Surfer
- Speak Life to Your Husband When You Want to Yell at Him - Ann Wilson
- Speaking Your Spouse's Love Language
- Special Kids with Special Needs
- Spiritual Life Coaching
- Spiritually Single Moms
- Start Your Family
- Starting Your Marriage Right
- Stay at Home Dads
- Stay In Your Lane: Worry Less, Love More, and Get Things Done: Kevin A. Thompson
- Stay-at-Home Dads: A Passing Fad or a Choice That's Here to Stay?
- Step Parenting Wisdom
- Stepfamilies and Holidays
- Stepfamily: Blender or Crockpot
- Stepping Up
- Stepping Up to Manhood
- Steps to Manhood
- Stories Behind the Great Songs and Traditions of Christmas
- Strength in Softness: Redefining Success for Women - Allen and Jennifer Parr
- Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters
- Stuart Scott: When Children Lose Their Faith
- Stumbling Souls: Is Love Enough?
- Surprise Child
- Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriage
- Surrender
- Symphony in the Dark
- Talking Smack
- Tea Parties With a Purpose
- Teaching Generosity to Your Family
- Teammates in Marriage
- Tech Savvy Parenting
- Technical Virginity
- Ten Questions Every Husband Should Ask His Wife
- Ten Urgent Steps for Spiritually Healthy Families
- Teresa Whiting: Overcoming Shame
- The "Anything" Prayer
- The 10 Habits of Happy Moms
- The 7 Hardest Things God Asks a Woman to Do
- The Accidental Feminist
- The Anatomy of an Affair: Dave Carder
- The Art of Effective Prayer
- The Art of Parenting: Identity
- The Art of Parenting: Mission and Releasing
- The Art of Parenting: What Kids Need
- The Best Gifts for Wives and Husbands
- The Book of Man
- The Bullying Breakthrough
- The Busy Mom's Guide to Romance
- The Christian Lover
- The Color of Rain
- The Complex World of a Blended Family
- The Connected Child
- The Controlling Husband
- The Creator’s Guide to Marital Intimacy
- The Dad I Wish I Had
- The Dark Hole of Depression
- The Dating Manifesto
- The Early Seasons of a Woman's Life
- The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
- The Enticement of the Forbidden
- The First Few Years of Marriage
- The Forgotten Commandment
- The Fruitful Wife
- The Gentlemen's Society
- The Good Dad
- The Good News About Injustice
- The Gospel Comes With a House Key
- The Grace Marriage: Brad & Marilyn Rhoads
- The Grace of Gratitude
- The Heart of Jesus: How He Really Feels About You: Dane Ortlund
- The Jesus Storybook Bible
- The King of Kings
- The Leader's Code
- The Life Ready Woman: Thriving in a Do-It-All World
- The Love Dare for Parents
- The Marriage Prayer
- The Masculine Mandate: God’s Calling to Men
- The Missional Marriage
- The Mission-Minded Family
- The Mother-Daughter Duet
- The Mystery of Intimacy in Marriage
- The National Bible Bee 2009 Winners
- The Neighborhood Café
- The New Passport to Purity
- The Passionate Mom
- The Pastor's Kid
- The Person Called You
- The Poverty of Nations
- The Power of A Wife's Affirmation
- The Power of God's Names
- The Power of New Covenant Love
- The Profound Power of a Legacy
- The Protectors
- The Realities of Remarriage
- The Refuge of Faith
- The Reluctant Entertainer
- The Resolution for Women
- The Respect Dare
- The Ring Makes All the Difference
- The Road to Kaeluma - Landon Hawley and Perry Wilson
- The Sacred Search
- The Season of Gratitude
- The Second-Half Adventure
- The Secret Life of a Fool
- The Secret of Contentment
- The Shepherd Leader at Home
- The Smart Stepdad
- The Smart Stepmom
- The Soul of Modesty
- The Sticky Faith Guide
- The Toxic War on Masculinity: Nancy Pearcey
- The Unveiled Wife
- The Upside Down Marriage
- The Very First Christmas
- The World's Largest Neighborhood Easter Egg Hunt
- Things That Go Bump in the Night
- Things We've Learned from Dennis and Barbara Rainey
- This Changes Everything
- This Is My Destiny
- Three Essentials for Every Married Woman
- Three Gospel Resolutions
- Three Marks of A Covenant Keeper
- Thriving at College
- Tim & Aileen Challies: Seasons of Sorrow
- Time-Saving Mom: Crystal Paine
- Tips for Smart Stepoms
- To Have and To Hold: Tommy Nelson
- To Own a Dragon
- Tongue Pierced
- Transcending Mysteries
- Transformed
- Treasures in the Dark
- Treat Me Like a Customer
- Trent Griffith: Do You Hear What I Hear?
- True Success: A Personal Visit With John Wooden
- Trusting God While Treating Cancer
- Turn Around at Home
- Turning Your Heart Toward Your Children
- Twenty-Five Ways to Lead Your Family Spiritually
- Two Hearts Praying as One
- Uncommon Trust: Learning to Trust God When Life Doesn't Make Sense--Erik Reed
- Undaunted
- Undefiled
- Understanding and Honoring Your Wife
- Understanding Your Child’s Bent
- Unfavorable Odds
- United
- Unraveling the Messiah Mystery
- Unshaken
- Untangling Your Faith--from the Questions Jesus Asked: Amberly Neese
- Upon Waking: Jackie Hill Perry
- Us In Mind: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Marriage: Ted Lowe
- Waiting for His Heart
- Walking by Faith, Not by Sight
- War of Words
- Warrior in Pink
- Water From a Deep Well
- We Still Do: Michael and Cindy Easley
- Weekend to Remember Getaway Sampler
- Wellness for the Glory of God
- We're in the Money ... Now What?
- What Did You Expect?
- What Do You Think of Me?
- What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?
- What Every Husband and Wife Needs to Know
- What God Wants for Christmas
- What He Must Be
- What Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Men
- What I Want My Children to Know
- What If Parenting Is the Most Important Job in the World?
- What is the Meaning of Sex
- What To Do About Motherhood Guilt: Maggie Combs
- What's God Think about My Anxiety? Ed Welch
- What's in the Bible?
- Whats's Best for Children
- When Faith Disappoints: Lisa Victoria Fields
- When Sinners Say 'I Do'
- When Sorry Isn't Enough
- When the Bottom Drops Out
- When the Hurt Runs Deep
- When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography
- Why Do We Call It Christmas?
- Why God is Enough
- Why I Didn't Rebel
- Winning the Drug War at Home
- Winsome Persuasion
- Women of the Word
- Woodlawn
- Word Versus Deed
- You and Me Forever
- You Are Not Who You Used to Be
- You Are Redeemed: Nana Dolce
- You Are Still a Mother - Jackie Gibson
- You Paid How Much for That?
- Your Child and the Autism Spectrum
- Your Interculturual Marriage
- Your Kids at Risk
- Your Marriage Matters
- Your Marriage Today and Tomorrow
- Your Mate: God's Perfect Gift
- Your Presence Matters
- Your Stepfamily: Standing Strong
- Youth Sports Pressure: Brian Smith & Ed Uszynski
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