Out of the same mouth can come blessing and curse. It all depends on what we choose to believe in our hearts. One of the hardest and most damaging things we can do is speak unkindly of people, even to the point of spreading untruths about them. The damage control we need to have in our lives first starts with looking in the mirror to make sure we get cleaned up. Once that takes place, and we begin to pray for individuals, it is very hard to speak poorly of them or gossip about them.