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Where Do You Turn When It Gets Hard?

June 11, 2026
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When life goes wrong, your first instinct reveals more than you think. Here’s what it looks like to turn toward God in your hardest moments instead of pulling away.

Bonnie Sala: Hard days have a way of showing us what we actually believe. I'm Bonnie Sala with Reset. Two women were involved in bad car accidents. Both were shaken and overwhelmed, their hearts racing. But their responses were very different. One turns to her husband in anger. She blames him for not offering to drive. The accident becomes the beginning of a fight. The other turns to her husband and admits, "I'm scared" and asks for help. The accident was frightening, but it becomes something they carry together. Though the hardship both women faced is the same, the directions their hearts go in are very different.

Many of us respond to God like the first woman. When life goes wrong, we pull away. We accuse and feel abandoned. A bad day turns into a crisis of faith. "Where were you God? Why did you let this happen?" Over and over, God invites us to instead turn toward Him in trouble. "Pour out your heart to Him," the scriptures say, "for God is our refuge." Faith isn't meant to disappear when life gets hard. It's meant to become the place we go first. God isn't threatened by our fear, our anger, or our questions. When we come to Him honestly, we discover there's nothing He can't help us carry.

It's true, God may ask us to do difficult things: to forgive, trust, and wait. But every path He leads us down is a path toward life. The Bible says, "You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence." Faith isn't just for the good days. It's for the days when you're confused and hurting. God is not distant in these moments. He is near, inviting you to turn toward Him and find help. I'm Bonnie Sala. Ready to grow your faith? Discover practical tools and more at guidelines.org.

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About Reset

We all need a daily reset! Bonnie Sala shares 2 minutes of daily encouragement that will help you connect the way you live with what you believe. Learn how the truth and grace of God’s Word can reset your thinking, relationships, attitudes, habits and more!

About Bonnie Sala

Bonnie is the president of Guidelines International Ministries, which exists to shine the light of the Gospel in places of spiritual darkness through audio messages that encourage, equip and bring hope to new believers, the unreached, and those living under persecution.

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