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What You’ve Lost Doesn’t Define You

July 31, 2026
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When loss threatens to define who you are, lasting peace is found by anchoring your identity in the unchanging love of Christ.

Bonnie Sala: A man in the Democratic Republic of the Congo couldn't stop thinking about what he had lost. I'm Bonnie Sala with Reset. Kasoki and his father had built a business. When it collapsed, so did his sense of who he was.

Every day he replayed what had been taken from him: the work, the future he'd imagined, the purpose he'd found in it all. Then one morning, overwhelmed by fear and worry, Kasoki turned on the radio. In his own language, he listened to a devotional about a woman named May.

After losing her late husband's wedding ring, May had cried for hours. As she mourned, someone gently pointed out, "You depended more on your husband's love than on Jesus's love." Those words traveled across the world and reached Kasoki. He realized that the same thing was true of him.

May had been holding tight to a symbol of love she'd lost. Kasoki had been holding tight to an identity built on what he'd once had. Like May, he needed to remember that Jesus had never stopped loving him and never would.

May lives in America. Her story was woven into a devotional, translated into Swahili, and broadcast by radio in Africa, where it found Kasoki on exactly the right morning. Today, rather than defining himself in what he lost, Kasoki has found peace in God's love.

Scripture proclaims: "Nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord." Across two continents, God worked through His body, using May, a storyteller, translator, producer, and broadcaster to bring His love and truth to one man at just the right time.

Your gift brings that same love to people in their own language, in their own corner of the world. Give today at guidelines.org.

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About Reset

We all need a daily reset! Bonnie Sala shares 2 minutes of daily encouragement that will help you connect the way you live with what you believe. Learn how the truth and grace of God’s Word can reset your thinking, relationships, attitudes, habits and more!

About Bonnie Sala

Bonnie is the president of Guidelines International Ministries, which exists to shine the light of the Gospel in places of spiritual darkness through audio messages that encourage, equip and bring hope to new believers, the unreached, and those living under persecution.

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