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Bonnie Sala: Is self-reliant strength or just an illusion waiting to collapse? I'm Bonnie Sala with Reset. Janelle had always been the strong one—the friend who never cried, the mother who kept the household together, the professional who handled every deadline. But when her husband walked out and the bills piled up, she confessed, "I've run out of strength. I don't know how to do this anymore."

That’s the thing about self-reliance: it works until it doesn't. We tell ourselves, "If I just push harder, I'll get through this." But self-reliance often leaves us burned out, bitter, and broken. One writer put it bluntly. He said, "All our fret and worry is caused by calculating without God." When we leave Him out, we're left with nothing but our own resources, and they eventually run dry.

The Bible shows this in the life of Peter, one of Jesus' closest followers. On the night Jesus was arrested, Peter swore, "Even if everyone else deserts you, I never will." Hours later, he denied even knowing Jesus. Peter's strength collapsed because it was built on self-confidence. But after his failure, he discovered real strength rooted in God's Spirit, not himself.

Maybe you've hit that breaking point. The good news is you don't have to stand on your own. God's invitation in Scripture is simple. It says, "Come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most." It's not weakness to rely on God; it's where broken people finally find freedom.

When your heart is overwhelmed, cry out. God is ready to meet you with strength you don't have. I'm Bonnie Sala. Ready to grow your faith? Discover practical tools and more at guidelines.org.