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When You Can’t Hold It Together

November 12, 2026
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What if holding it together was never your job?

Bonnie Sala: A military neurosurgeon was deployed to a war zone. One day, his unit came under attack. As bombs fell around him, he realized there was nothing he could do to save himself. I'm Bonnie Sala with Reset. Later, that doctor would face the same helplessness in a very different way when his son died. He knew what it felt like to reach the end of his own ability to fix, prevent, or control what was happening. Looking back, he realized, I was never supposed to be able to hold it all together. Maybe you're there right now. The panic is real, the situation is real, and it feels like you can't keep it together.

You may be trying to hold a family together, keep a job, manage a diagnosis, or protect someone you love. Your mind searches for some way to make everything turn out right. The good news is that none of us was ever meant to keep it all together, but there is someone who does. The Bible book of Colossians says this about Jesus: He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. This means the weight of holding your life, your future, and the people you love together was never meant to rest on you. As the neurosurgeon put it, Jesus is holding it all together, not your scared, anxious brain.

You can use that brain to make wise choices, but scripture tells us to cast our cares on the Lord. He will sustain you. He will never let the righteous be shaken. When fear tells you everything depends on you, answer it with what is true. You are not the one holding all things together. Jesus is, even when you can't see what comes next. I'm Bonnie Sala. Ready to grow your faith? Discover practical tools and more at guidelines.org.

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We all need a daily reset! Bonnie Sala shares 2 minutes of daily encouragement that will help you connect the way you live with what you believe. Learn how the truth and grace of God’s Word can reset your thinking, relationships, attitudes, habits and more!

About Bonnie Sala

Bonnie is the president of Guidelines International Ministries, which exists to shine the light of the Gospel in places of spiritual darkness through audio messages that encourage, equip and bring hope to new believers, the unreached, and those living under persecution.

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