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Why Isn't He Helping?

January 27, 2026
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Dave is outta town I have a five and three year old in the bathtub..

Ann Wilson: Dave is out of town again. I have a five and three-year-old in the bathtub, I’m nursing my baby, and I hear my five-year-old say, “Mommy, I’ve got to go poop.”

Dave Wilson: This is Real FamilyLife with Dave and Ann Wilson.

Ann Wilson: He gets out and says, “I’m not pooping in front of my brother,” so he runs down the hall. Then the doorbell rings. My baby is screaming because I have to stop nursing. I go to the door, and it’s a guy selling magazines. Then I hear my son say, “I pooped all over the floor!”

I was so overwhelmed. I was thinking, “Where is my husband? Why isn’t he helping me?”

Dave Wilson: I’m just glad I was gone because that’s real family life right there.

Ann Wilson: The truth is, each day feels so long, but it’s a season and it will pass. They become adults and your house will be in order.

Dave Wilson: One day that house will be clean. Trust me, we know.

Ann Wilson: Relish the moment. Jesus is cheering you on.

Dave Wilson: Get more at familylife.com/real.

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About Real FamilyLife®

Real FamilyLife® is conversational in nature and provides practical, biblical tools to address the issues affecting your family. You'll receive motivation, encouragement, and help.


About Dave and Ann Wilson

Dave and Ann Wilson are co-hosts of FamilyLife Today©, FamilyLife’s nationally-syndicated radio program.

Dave and Ann have been married for more than 40 years and have spent the last 35 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They have been featured speakers at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember® since 1993, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.

Dave and Ann helped plant Kensington Community Church in Detroit, Michigan where they served together in ministry for more than three decades, wrapping up their time at Kensington in 2020.

The Wilsons are the creative force behind DVD teaching series Rock Your Marriage and The Survival Guide To Parenting, as well as authors of the recently released books Vertical Marriage (Zondervan, 2019) and No Perfect Parents (Zondervan, 2021).

Dave is a graduate of the International School of Theology, where he received a Master of Divinity degree. A Ball State University Hall of Fame Quarterback, Dave served the Detroit Lions as Chaplain for thirty-three years. Ann attended the University of Kentucky. She has been active with Dave in ministry as a speaker, writer, small group leader, and mentor to countless women.

The Wilsons live in the Detroit area. They have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, three daughters-in-law, and a growing number of grandchildren.

Contact Real FamilyLife® with Dave and Ann Wilson

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