Promise to Disappoint? I Do
Okay Dave, as a pastor, what would you love to say at the wedding ceremony, but it would ruin the occasion if you did?
Ann Wilson: Okay, Dave, as a pastor, what would you love to say at the wedding ceremony, but it would ruin the occasion if you did?
Dave Wilson: I've thought this a thousand times. But I've never said it because it would ruin the day.
Guest (Male): This is Real FamilyLife with Dave and Ann Wilson.
Dave Wilson: I want to look at that couple and say today is awesome, you're so in love, you're getting married, but you're going to be so disappointed. She is going to let you down. He is going to let you down. It's going to be so much harder than you can even imagine. And you might discover that in the next few hours. But that would kill the wedding, but it's the truth.
Ann Wilson: It's the truth, but there's more to it.
Dave Wilson: The other side of it is it's going to be the greatest relationship you've ever stepped into. But you're going to be shocked at how hard that's going to be and how the struggles are going to be. So you just leave that part for them to find out because you don't need to say that on the wedding day. On the wedding day, you just say, "Go for it. Love Jesus. Love each other, and serve Him."
Ann Wilson: For Ann and Dave Wilson, and that's Real FamilyLife.
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About Dave and Ann Wilson
Dave and Ann have been married for more than 40 years and have spent the last 35 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They have been featured speakers at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember® since 1993, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.
Dave and Ann helped plant Kensington Community Church in Detroit, Michigan where they served together in ministry for more than three decades, wrapping up their time at Kensington in 2020.
The Wilsons are the creative force behind DVD teaching series Rock Your Marriage and The Survival Guide To Parenting, as well as authors of the recently released books Vertical Marriage (Zondervan, 2019) and No Perfect Parents (Zondervan, 2021).
Dave is a graduate of the International School of Theology, where he received a Master of Divinity degree. A Ball State University Hall of Fame Quarterback, Dave served the Detroit Lions as Chaplain for thirty-three years. Ann attended the University of Kentucky. She has been active with Dave in ministry as a speaker, writer, small group leader, and mentor to countless women.
The Wilsons live in the Detroit area. They have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, three daughters-in-law, and a growing number of grandchildren.
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