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Choosing Joy Over Sadness

May 21, 2026
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On PowerPoint today, Pastor Jack Graham begins the second part of the series from the book of Proverbs titled “Choices.” With the message “Choosing Joy over Sadness,” Pastor Graham teaches that Proverbs provides wonderful guidance as to how we are to skillfully and wisely make our way through life, and to do it joyfully.

Jack Graham: Welcome to PowerPoint with Jack Graham. Unfortunately, too many people settle in life. Settle for survival rather than experience the joyful life that we have in Christ. The Savior said, my joy I give to you.

Guest (Female): On today's PowerPoint, Dr. Graham brings a message about what it means for you to live with real joy. Now, here's Dr. Graham with his message. Choosing joy over sadness.

Jack Graham: Begin finding right now Proverbs chapter 17 and verse 22. A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Now, I know it's difficult to to stay up in a down world. And there's so much despondency and discouragement and depression in the world today.

And we shouldn't be surprised because in 2 Timothy chapter 3, the first three verses, the scripture talks about these days as the last days. Understand this, that in the last days, there will be times of difficulty, for people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good.

Watching these scriptures fulfilled before our eyes can be downright discouraging. And yet, those of us who are followers of Jesus, those of us who have experienced His life and therefore His joy and His peace and His purpose in our lives, we should live with an outrageous and contagious joy. Joy that is continual. Now, continual, I say, because it is different than human happiness.

Human happiness is based upon circumstances. What happens to us? I've said it before, if what happens to you happens to make you happy, then it will just so happen that you'll happen to be happy. But if what happens to you happens not to make you happy, then it will just so happen that you will happen not to be happy. Get it? You know, it's all about the happenings in our lives.

We will never live this side of eternity in a perfect world. I'm not happy all the time. There is a time for tears. There is a time for grief. There is a time for sorrow. But we sorrow not as those who have no hope. And because we have a hope in Jesus, the tears only wash our eyes so that we can see Him more clearly. We can in spite of our circumstances choose a joyful attitude. We can choose misery and sadness or depression or defeat or we can choose confidence and certainty and optimism and hope and yes, joy.

This is what happened to the Apostle Paul in prison. He said in Philippians 4:4, "Rejoice in the Lord always and again I say rejoice." This wasn't Paul the professor. This wasn't Paul the preacher. This wasn't Paul the theologian. This is Paul the prisoner in the most extreme conditions and circumstances saying rejoice and just in case we didn't hear it the first time, rejoice in the Lord again. Always, I say, rejoice. Every day is sweeter than the day before if you choose the joy of Jesus. Life is about our choices. You can get up in the morning and be down and be negative. I I found in my own life that you know, it's about the first 15 or 20 minutes that can set the pattern for my whole day.

So, we have to learn how to get up early and get going with our lives and and and make those choices early with praise to God. The first lips words out of our mouth should be praise to God. So, how can we know this joy? If a merry heart does good like a medicine. What is this medicine that produces a merry heart?

Number one, let's call it revelation. A simple simpler way to put it is read God's word, receive God's wisdom. Look at Proverbs chapter 7 verses 1, 2 and 3. My son, keep my words and treasure up my commandments with you. Keep my commandments and live. Keep my teaching as the apple of your eye. Bind them on your fingers and write them on the tablet of your heart.

Chapter 16 of Proverbs verse 20 is another one. Whoever gives thought to the word will discover good and blessed. And that word can mean happiness, genuine, authentic joy and happiness. Blessed is beyond human happiness. It's God's happiness to be blessed. And blessed is he who trusts in the Lord. Proverbs 30 verse 5 says, "Every word of God proves true, and He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him."

So, when we take refuge in the word of God, when we open the word of God to to saturate and bathe our souls in the scripture, we are beginning to see things from God's perspective. Remember our definition of wisdom? Wisdom is seeing things from God's perspective. So, the world comes against us. All the beatings and the problems that we know and experience, and yet when we are in and we can lose perspective.

We can start looking around and about. But when we are in the word, when we seek God's revelation, we discover wisdom which is perspective on life. We see things from God's perspective. We learn to shield ourselves in the promises of God. We learn to experience His living presence in the word. Not only to know the the word of God, but to know the God of the word. We read our Bibles.

Proverbs 12:25 says, "Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down." Literally, anxiety produces depression. You want to know what produces depression? Anxiety produces depression. Weighs us down, but a good word makes him glad. This good word of God will gladden your heart, strengthen your soul and give you perspective on life when the fears and the anxieties and the pressures and the tensions and the stresses of life are weighing you down.

So, the first thing in order to discover joy in your life is to know the joy of the scriptures. The Bible talks about the scriptures bringing rejoicing rejoicing to the soul. And I can track my own life and during times of great stress and problems and hurt. I go back to my journal. I go back to the scriptures that I was reading at that time and those marks sometimes with tears on the pages, the underlines, the the highlights of those verses when God spoke to me in dark days and dark moments and difficult times. This is the way we find joy in the midst of difficulty and hurt and pain. The word of God.

Second thing. Exaltation. In other words, worship. Our scripture says a merry heart does good like a medicine. The Bible says addressing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs playing melody, making melody from your heart. We ought to wash our face every day in the worship of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Make a joyful noise unto the Lord to praise Him even in this storm, to praise Him in the midst of this situation. Rejoice in the Lord always. Not just when circumstances and situations are turning our way, when we are problem free, but to praise Him in the midst of the most difficult times of our lives. To to to offer the sacrifice of praise.

I've discovered in life that we don't feel our way into acting, but rather we act our way into feeling. And even when we don't feel like worshiping, even when we don't feel like praising God, when we act in accordance to His word and bring our praises to Him, regardless of how we feel, guess what happens? When we lift Him up, we get lifted up. Our souls into the presence of the Lord. Lift up your head.

Look to the Lord. Turn your eyes upon Jesus. Look full in His wonderful face and the things of earth will grow strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace. You've had the experience, no doubt, of being on an airplane on a dark day, thunders rolling, clouds, it's dark, can't see the sun, lightning bolts. You wonder if you can make it through. The airplane takes off, it shutters just a little bit. Up, up, up, up, up. It goes through the clouds, through the rain, through the storm and onto the other side. And then that quiet, blue stream, that jet stream in the air with the sun is shining on the other side of the clouds. There truly is in Christ a silver lining in the clouds.

A beauty, and a blessedness, and a cheerful heart in the midst of the storm. Back to Paul. When Paul and Silas were in jail for preaching the gospel at Philippi. Midnight, it's dark physically, it's dark spiritually and emotionally. Paul must have turned to Silas and said, "Let's sing something." "Sing something? Paul, do you realize the trouble we're in here?" "Yeah, let's sing Amazing Grace."

And those two guys began to sing in that prison and God shook the place, brought the walls down. The jailer and his family came to Christ. It was revival at midnight. All because two men, rather than griping and grousing and complaining and getting down and defeated and giving up, they lifted up their praise and their exaltation to God.

Jesus said, "Come unto Me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Now, if you're not a believer in the Lord Jesus, life will never make sense this side of eternity on the other side of eternity. Solomon, who gave us so many of the Proverbs, shared his story in the book of Ecclesiastes. And as he described his life before coming to know the reality of God, he talked about pursuing pleasure and that didn't work. He talked about pursuing uh profit, making money, that didn't work. He talked about pursuing delicacies and food and and enjoyment of all kinds. He he was he was the king, he had power, he had everything, but he concluded without God in his life, vanity of vanities is all nothing.

Just a big zero. And you know, the problem with people who don't know Christ, it's not so much that they live vile lives, but that they live vague lives. Empty lives. God has a will and a purpose and a plan for you. He wants you to experience His grace and His power and you can try all the pleasures in the world and seek happiness at every level. But you will never know true joy, lasting joy, eternal happiness until you know Christ, until you come to Him.

Guest (Female): You're listening to PowerPoint with Jack Graham and the message choosing joy over sadness. July 4th, 2026 will be a day of great celebration for the 250th birthday of our great country. However, there has never been a more important time in our 250 years as a nation where we need God to move in power and heal our land. That's why I'm inviting you to join Dr. Graham in a prayer challenge for our nation. To join, simply text "Cry" to 59789. Again, text "Cry" to 59789. Remember that your support of PowerPoint Ministries helps bring the truth of Jesus Christ to people around the world. Every day we hear from listeners who are searching for answers, longing for peace and discovering hope through God's word. Often for the very first time. Your generosity keeps that message going out. And as our thanks for your gift today, we'd love to send you Dr. Jack Graham's book, The Jesus Book. A powerful guide to help you grow deeper in your relationship with Christ. Text "May" to 59789 to give your gift and request your copy. Again, text "May" to 59789. Thank you for helping proclaim the hope of Jesus. Now, let's get back to today's message choosing joy over sadness.

Jack Graham: Third thing. But I'm going to call occupation. Occupation, which is work, involvement in life. One of the problems that we have when we're down defeated is that we want to stay there.

We're tired, we're we're out of commission and therefore, what do we need to do? We need a new challenge in life. We need a reason to get up out of bed rather than just the alarm clock. Do you have a reason to get up every morning, besides just hearing that alarm clock? The work of our hands, doing something productive and doing something meaningful. That's essential for life.

What of the Proverbs say? Proverbs 12:14, "From the fruit of his mouth, a man is satisfied with good." "And the work of a man's hand comes back to him." In contrast to that, Proverbs 13:4 says, "The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing." Just a zero, vanity. While the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.

Proverbs 16:3, "Commit your work to the Lord and your plans will be established." Or how about this one, again, in contrast. You want sadness? Here's a sure recipe for sadness. "Slothfulness cast into a deep sleep, and an idle person will suffer hunger." Not only the hunger of the body, but the hunger of the soul.

Proverbs 21:5, "The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance." Proverbs 21:25 and 26, "The desire of the sluggard kills him." "For his hands refuse labor." "All day long he craves and craves but the righteous gives and does not hold back." You want joy? Find your joy in doing something meaningful with your life. Many need a new challenge. You need a new goal in your life.

Just laying on the couch every day and punching the remote and overeating and feeling sorry for ourselves, won't cut it. You have to force yourself to get off your back, to get up and get going, force yourself to move. That includes healthy eating and and regular exercise, but I think the best cure of all is strong work, hard work, especially when it has meaning for your family and your faith.

You say, "Well, I'm just stuck in a rut with this terrible job I have. I hate my job. I'm stuck in it for the rest of my life." Well, then find a volunteer opportunity. Volunteer in a ministry in your church. Start a new business. That thing you've always dreamed about. The thing you've been doing with your hands, maybe God has put something in your heart and a dream that you need to fulfill and act on. Go ahead if God gives you the go.

Agreeing to coach kids in sports, agree to get involved with a student group. Don't quit. Don't give up. Look for new opportunities that will produce enthusiasm in your life. Passion about something produces energy. I think about Caleb. He and Joshua came through that terrible trek through the desert. Everyone was dying out. It was a terrible, long, desperate condition. These men weathered uh through and finally came to the promised land. Moses is gone, Joshua is leading, they're now ready to enter into the promised land. And Caleb, who is now get this, 85 years young.

I say young because listen to it. Joshua 14, "And now, behold, the Lord," this is Caleb speaking, "And now, behold, the Lord has kept me alive." "Just as He said these 45 years since the time the Lord spoke this word to Moses, while Israel walked in the wilderness, and now, behold, I'm this day 85 years old. I am still as strong today as I was in the day that Moses sent me. My strength now is as my strength was then, for war and for going and coming. So now give me this mountain, this hill country of which the Lord spoke on that day, for you heard on that day how the Anakim and these were giant and fierce warriors, the Anakim were there with great fortified cities and it may be that the Lord will be with me and I shall drive them out just as the Lord said."

He said, "Don't send me a rocking chair. Don't put me out to pasture. Don't give me the pasture land over here. Give me that mountain." "I'm not going to quit. Those Anakim, just let me at them." Don't quit on life. Don't say, "I'm tired," or, "I'm retired." Put your life in ministry.

Keep believing and achieving in your life, especially in the work of Christ. Many of you at midlife are finding that success doesn't really fulfill. That what you're looking for is significance and that significance is found in your relationship with God and your occupation with the things of God.

Jesus said in Revelation 3, "Be faithful unto death." May God give us the strength to our dying breath to be occupied for Him, to keep our eyes on Him. And then finally, this merry heart medicine is produced by association. Associations, the right kind of associations. Let me give you a few of these great Proverbs. Proverbs 17:17, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity."

But in contrast, a man of many companions, Proverbs 18:24, "A man of many companions may come to ruin." That speaks of those that are just external friends, the people we see. Many companions, you know, it takes a lot of time and effort to have real friends. And a brother friend is born for adversity.

Proverbs 27:6, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend." You know, a doctor may cut you open, it doesn't feel good, but that's a faithful wound from a friend who's trying to help you. Sometimes friends speak truths in our life and speak to us forthrightly in order to help us. Proverbs 27:9 and 19, "Oil and perfume make the heart glad and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel." "As in water, face reflects face, so the heart of man reflects the man."

Loneliness and isolation will rob you of joy. The last thing you need to do when you're down is to cut yourself off from the worship with God's people, to cut yourself off from your family and your friends. Turn out the lights, shut the door. That only makes you more lonely, which makes you more depressed and more discouraged.

And in contrast to that whole idea of having great friends, if you want to have real joy in your life, get rid of defiling associations. People that bring you down. People that are negative, the slanderers, the gossippers, the people that are always hating and despising. That's a down. Proverbs 13:20 says, "The companion of fools will suffer harm."

Don't hang around foolish people. Proverbs 22:24, "Make no friendship with a man given to anger." Stay away from those things that are downers, including people and activities. You know, we talked about alcohol in another message. Alcohol is a depressant. Stay away from it. Reconnect with old friends, be faithful to your family.

There is joy and laughter even in the bad times. Reach out to others. Have some people that can talk to with you and help you, friends that will hold you up. Ecclesiastes 4, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow, but woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up."

Do you want God to heal your hurts and your sorrow and your pain? Receive the love and the grace of your friends, but not only receive friendship, but give friendship and love away. The God of all comfort will comfort us and with the comfort with which we are comforted, we comfort others. You see, self-pity is the source of all of this and self-pity is not just a problem, self-pity is a sin.

Self-pity, selfishness is turning inward rather than reaching outward. There is joy in life, even in the most difficult of circumstances. Handle the great musician had a paralyzing stroke. So, what did he do? Did he lay in bed and quit? No. He wrote the Messiah, including the Hallelujah chorus.

Even in your mess, there is music if you know the Lord Jesus Christ, who said, "My joy I give to you. Not as the world give, give I unto you. This is my joy. You can choose joy over sadness. You can choose authentic happiness that even in the worst of times, you will find the best of your God.

Guest (Female): You're listening to PowerPoint with Jack Graham and the message choosing joy over sadness. We want to thank you for being a part of the mission of PowerPoint Ministries. Every day, through the support of friends like you, the message of Jesus Christ is reaching people across television, radio, and digital platforms around the world. So many people today are searching for answers, longing for peace, and looking for something to still hold on to. And your support helps point them in the one who offers all that and so much more. Jesus. As our thanks for your gift this month, we'd love to send you Dr. Jack Graham's book, The Jesus Book. A powerful guide to help you move beyond simply knowing about Jesus to truly knowing Him through His word. Text "May" to 59789 to give your gift and get your copy. Again, text "May" to 59789. July 4th, 2026 will be a day of great celebration for the 250th birthday of our great country. However, there has never been a more important time in our 250 years as a nation where we need God to move in power and heal our land. That's why I'm inviting you to join Dr. Graham in a prayer challenge for our nation. To join, simply text "Cry" to 59789. Again, text "Cry" to 59789.

Jack Graham: Pastor, what is your PowerPoint for today? We're talking about all the choices that we make in life and one of the choices that we must make is to choose joy over sadness. You don't have to live depressed or defeated, you don't have to live sad and sorrowful your whole life. You can live in the joy of the Lord. That doesn't mean that we're always happy. Joy and happiness are two different things. Happiness, as I said in the message, depends upon what happens to us. But joy is an internal work of God's spirit. Jesus said, "My joy I give to you." And we can choose joy over sorrow and sadness and hurt and pain every single day of our lives. I find joy in reading the scriptures. The Bible talks about the joy of the scriptures. I find joy in prayer and communion with God. I find joy in the fellowship of other believers and in the laughter and the excitement of being together in worship and in praise to God. We can even have joy in the face of tragedy and sorrow. This is a life that Christ has promised us and it's the life that you can choose. So choose joy over sadness today.

I really want to encourage you to go to Jack Graham.org. And there you can find resources that will encourage you in your daily choices. The daily word is a devotional that you can receive every single day. So, the way to get in touch with us and to stay in touch with us is just simply to go to Jack Graham.org and be a part of our growing, exciting online community of faith. God bless you. I look forward to joining you next time on PowerPoint.

Guest (Female): And that is today's PowerPoint. Remember when you give a gift to PowerPoint, we'll send you Dr. Graham's book, The Jesus Book. Just text "May" to 59789. And join us again next time as Dr. Graham brings a message about how you can conquer fear and be courageous. That's next time on PowerPoint with Jack Graham. PowerPoint with Jack Graham is sponsored by PowerPoint Ministries.

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PowerPoint Ministries is the radio and television broadcast ministry of Jack Graham, pastor of Prestonwood Baptist Church — a nearly 37,000-member church with three campuses in the Dallas and North Texas region. Through PowerPoint Ministries, Dr. Graham offers practical, biblical steps on how to tap into God's power for successful Christian living.

About Jack Graham

Dr. Jack Graham serves as Senior Pastor of Prestonwood Baptist Church, one of the nation’s largest, most dynamic congregations.

When Dr. Graham came to Prestonwood in 1989, the 8,000-member congregation responded enthusiastically to his straightforward message and powerful preaching style.

Now thriving with more than 57,000 members, Prestonwood continues to grow, reaching throughout the North Texas region. In 2006, the church launched a second location, the North Campus, in a burgeoning area 20 miles north of the Plano Campus. Prestonwood also has a flourishing Spanish-language ministry, Prestonwood en Español, which includes members from more than 20 nations. And Prestonwood.Live, the online community, draws worshippers from all over the world.
Dr. Graham is a noted author of numerous books, including the latest Reignite: Fresh Focus for an Enduring Faith. In this deeply personal book, Dr. Graham shares lessons he learned in the midst of crisis – offering insight on how to focus on Jesus even in the darkest days.

Other books include A Man of God: Essential Priorities for Every Man’s Life; Unseen: Angels, Satan, Heaven, Hell and Winning the Battle for Eternity; Angels: Who They Are, What They Do and Why It Matters; Powering Up: The Fulfillment and Fruit of a God-Fueled Life; and Courageous Parenting, written with his wife, Deb.

His passionate, biblical teaching is also seen and heard across the country and throughout the world on PowerPoint Ministries. Through broadcasts, online sermons and e-mail messages, Dr. Graham addresses relevant, everyday issues that are prevalent in our culture and strike a chord with audiences worldwide.

In October 2022, the Bible in a Year with Jack Graham podcast was launched in partnership with iHeartPodcasts and Pray.com, with a cinematic feel that brings the Bible to life. Within the first week of its release, the podcast reached the top spot on the Spotify religion list, and it has now surpassed 30 million downloads.

Dr. Graham has served as Honorary Chairman of the National Day of Prayer and has helped lead various national prayer initiatives. He served as President of the Southern Baptist Convention, the largest Protestant denomination in the country with more than 14 million members.

He and Deb have three married children and eight grandchildren.

 

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