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From Heartache to Hope: Navigating Suicide Loss

July 24, 2026

Hope is what author Wende Gaikema brings. For this critical topic, suicide loss, each one of us might know someone who could desperately need this information. Our guest, Wende Gaikema, is a fabulous leadership coach who empowers businesses and nonprofits to grow their people and organizations. She has also done the hard thing: writing a book about her heartbreaking experience in order to help others. Unexpectedly, she and her husband, Jeff, lost their wonderful son, Matt, to suicide in February, 2018. Her book, From Heartache to Hope: Navigating Choices in Your Suicide Loss Journey is an important resource that those in heartache need. As she states: You didn't have a choice that someone you loved died by suicide, but you have a choice in how you respond.


Wende is the author of "From Heartache to Hope: Navigating Choices in Your Suicide Loss Journey," available now on Amazon in paperback and e-book.


Get the book: "From Heartache to Hope" by Wende Gaikema on Amazon

Connect with Wende: coachwende.com


Other Resources:

https://www.griefshare.org/

https://whilewerewaiting.org/


TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Intro

00:37 Welcome to Parent Compass

01:09 The story

02:59 The unexpected call

03:46 Speaking at Matt's funeral

09:00 The choices you make after loss

16:00 Is suicide an unpardonable sin?

20:00 Scriptures that brought comfort

24:00 Forgiveness after loss

27:00 How to support someone grieving suicide loss

33:00 Coping with holidays and "heaven dates"

38:00 Closing prayer


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If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, please reach out for help:

US: Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)

International Association for Suicide Prevention: https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/

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