“If you want faith—for God’s sake and yours—ask.”
Steve Brown: If you want faith for God's sake, and yours, ask. Let's talk on K-Life.
Matthew: K-Life is a radio program for struggling believers sick of funny religion and pious clichés. Our host and teacher is seminary professor Steve Brown. He teaches that radical freedom leads to infectious joy and surprising faithfulness.
Steve Brown: Thank you, Matthew. If you were listening yesterday, I was telling you about Brian Hanson and his story of being a lonely little boy who was a nerd and didn't have any friends and was being raised in a toxic religious family. And as a little boy, and Jesus likes little boys, he said, God, could you bring me a friend? And the next day, a new boy came to school who was also a nerd and who also with Brant collected baseball cards. And they are friends after all these years. And we interviewed him on our talk show and he had just gotten a text from that long that long time friend.
What happened? He asked, that's what happened. And Jesus liked Brant and did that. Brant is one of the brightest, most fun and articulate people I know. But more important than that, Brant has a mountain moving faith. If uh Brant prayed for rain, I would get an umbrella. I've tried to get him to pray that I win the lottery, but so far he's refused. Jesus said, listen to this, or James said, this is in James 4 2 through 3. You desire, but you do not have, so you kill. You covet, but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight.
You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive because you ask with the wrong motives that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. Now, in a while, I'm going to deal with the wrong motives part of that promise. But first, don't miss the you do not have because you do not ask. As uh I mentioned, I told seminary students that they get a front row row seat to watch the supernatural actions of God. That's true. I've been doing this religion thing for a long time, maybe even before you were born.
And I've watched. Let me bring my witness into the conversation. Frankly, and this is honest, I've seen a lot of unanswered prayer. Well, my friend Jerry Perry says God always answers prayers. And he says to me, that was just because Jesus said no. Well, I've gotten a lot of no's. Uh unanswered prayer. Frankly, I've seen a lot of that. I've held parents in my arms as they wept over the death of their child. I've stood beside more death beds than I can even remember when family and friends had prayed for healing. And I've lamented the pain with those I've loved when their hopes and plans had crashed against the rocks of reality.
One time with when Ruth Graham was asked if all her prayers had been answered, she replied, of course not. If all of them had been answered, I would have married the wrong man several times. That makes me laugh. Uh but so many unanswered prayers cause me to weep. But and there's always that. I've also seen, you wouldn't believe how many answered prayers for which I have no explanation except a supernatural God answering the prayers of those he loves in a supernatural way. I know a man who was healed of ALS and that never happens. I've conducted healing services uh and Presbyterians hardly ever do that.
We used to do it on Wednesday nights where God answered so many prayers. Cancer healed, lifelong pain ceased, surgeries canceled, hatreds dissipated, marriages restored, emotional issues resolved. It goes on and on that I winced whenever I talked about it because I was afraid nobody would believe it. Not only are healing services hardly ever conducted by Presbyterians. Presbyterians don't often believe anything happened either. And then, as I mentioned earlier in my own family, we have a daughter who was healed of a horrible birth issue. When the doctor reexamined her, he said, I don't understand this. This is a miracle.
I believe God is a God of miracle. He's sovereign. He's good. But if you're in a place that's really dark and you need some help like yesterday, it would be a good thing to ask. That's what James said. You don't have because you don't ask. Anne Lamont, whose language leaves a lot to be desired, who loves Jesus as much as anybody uh I know and whose politics are not my politics, said that she believed in three kinds of prayer. And she said it was this. Help me, God. Secondly, help me right now. And third, thank you, God.
God still a supernatural God listens to the prayers of his people. You think about that. Amen. Well, it's Wednesday and sometimes on Wednesdays when I have a little time, I take the time to answer one or two questions. And you've heard me say a thousand times, we love your questions. You can uh you can pick up the phone 24/7 and dial 1-800 K-Life. That's 1-800-539-5433. Uh and record your question and sometimes we put that on the air. Or you can send your question to K-Life Network, Post Office Box 5000 Maitland, Florida 32794. In Canada, it's K-Life Canada, Post Office Box 28060 Waterloo, Ontario N2L 6J8.
Or you can email your question to steve at kelife.org. And uh you know I was going to say this because I've said this a thousand times. If you can help us financially, I would very much appreciate it. This is a very expensive ministry and we squeeze every dime for the glory of God. And I also understand that a lot of you can't do that and that's okay. But if you can be as generous as you can, and I promise we'll be as faithful as you were in giving your gift. All right, let's uh turn to one or two questions.
This is an email. Why do bad things happen? I understand bad things happen because of the sinful choices we as people make. But I've often wondered why God allows such horrific things to happen to people like the Holocaust or human trafficking. I don't know. You know, there are a lot of things that could be said about that and some of them are silly and some of them are thoughtful. C. S. Lewis often spoke of bad things happening. And he said, sometimes we universalize something that is happening only bad to one person at one time, no matter how much you multiply it.
And that's that's kind of true and I get that. Sometimes people say that we don't know the whole story. And this is a lot bigger than we think it is and it involves so much more than we think it does. And we are finite and we're small and we're little. So we don't know what's going on. Uh and there's probably, in fact I know there's some truth to that. Some people say, but you know, you don't know what God is doing. Romans 8:28 is still true. And things look bad right now, but God is working on those things to bring out something good.
You just don't see it yet. And I have to trust that that is true. Some people say God is not as good as you think he is. That's a lie. Some people say you don't have enough faith. That 's a lie. Some people say, ask him for anything and he'll do it because he's a magician and he does tricks for his people. That's a lie too. You put it all together, there's a miracle there. And that is the miracle of belief. And we've been talking about that on the broadcast. Why do we believe something as crazy as a good God when we live in a world like this?
I have no idea unless it's true. Where in the world did we get that idea if we didn't get it from him? And so sometimes God changes things, sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes we understand, sometimes we don't understand. Sometimes there is no earthly explanation for the bad things that are happen. But a miracle is taking place in the lives of God's people. And that is despite all of that. We still believe. Paul Stookey had a song number of years ago during the God is Dead movement and he went to church with his mother at Christmas. And he put a note in the in the offering plate.
It said, I believe in you. You do too and I do too. And that's a miracle in itself. Hey, K-Life is a listener supported production of K-Life Network.
Featured Offer
Adapted from Steve’s new book, God’s Not Mad at You: Confronting the Lies of Guilt, Shame, Fear, and Regret. Topics include… Guilt, Shame, Fear, and Regret—what they are (good working definitions) and why we all (universally) struggle so much with them. / No Kickers—Kickers are the, often subtle, “small print,” the 1% lies that foster guilt, shame, fear, and regret. The Christian faith is unconditional in its promises and truths. God’s love, forgiveness, mercy, and grace have no kickers. / We Aren’t Good People (and They Aren’t Either)—It’s assumed that the key to unity in a family, church, or nation is for good people to convince or coerce bad people into being good…then we can walk off into the sunset together. But what if there aren’t any “good people,” just people who clean up better than others? When the church becomes a place of righteous indignation, it misses everything it’s supposed to be. / The Big Lie—the big lie is this, God is angry at you…with reason. Too often, we’ve truncated the Gospel. If you’re a Christian believer, God isn’t angry at you. (And, if you’re not a believer and go to him, he won’t be angry at you, either.) That makes all the difference in our struggle with guilt, shame, fear, and regret.
Past Episodes
- A Fresh Word from God (Steve Brown)
- Acts
- Acts (Steve Brown)
- Acts Overview (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- Adam and Noah (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- All You Wanted to Know About the Bible but Didn't Ask (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- Amazed by Grace (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Among Friends
- Anger and Forgiveness (Justin Holcomb)
- Babette and the Lavishness of Grace (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Big Message, Little Place
- Big Message, Little Place (Steve Brown)
- Calibrate: Sitting at the Feet of Jesus (Matt Heard)
- Christmas Day (Steve Brown)
- Christmas Eve: A Grace Gift Exchange (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Christmas Gifts: The Four Mondays of Advent - Part 1 (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Christmas Gifts: The Four Mondays of Advent - Part 2 (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Christmas Gifts: The Four Mondays of Advent - Part 3 (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Christmas Gifts: The Four Mondays of Advent - Part 4 (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Christmas Special (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- Comfortable Words (Justin Holcomb)
- Coming Alive (Matt Heard)
- Embracing the Story of the Gospel (Matt Heard)
- Engaging Your Story (Matt Heard)
- Epiphany: Light for the Nations (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- Experiencing Awesome (Pete Alwinson)
- Galatians
- Getting Saved (Steve Brown)
- God, The Master Storyteller (Steve Brown/Matthew Porter)
- God's Grace is Enough (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- Grace Through the Centuries (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- Gratuitous Grace (Justin Holcomb)
- Harmony in the Band (Steve Brown)
- Heart Matters (Matt Heard)
- How to Handle Hallway Experiences (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- How to Trust God in Difficult Times (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- Humility and How We Achieved It (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- Is Pentecost Reproducible? (Steve Brown)
- It's about Forgiveness (Steve Brown)
- It's All About Grace (Jerry Parries)
- It's All About Worship (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- Jesus Saves Sinners for God's Glory (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson/Justin Holcomb)
- Journey to the Cross (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Joy is Plural (Matt Heard)
- Laughter and Lament (Steve Brown)
- Lent: God's Kindness Leads to Repentance (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- Lies from the Enemy (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- Living Your Best Life (Jerry Parries)
- Love (Pete Alwinson)
- Loving Like Jesus (Matt Heard)
- Paul's Missionary Journeys (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- Peter: The Patron Saint of Failures (Justin Holcomb)
- Philippians (Steve Brown)
- Psalms of Lament (Justin Holcomb)
- Real Power (Pete Alwinson)
- Resurrection: It Really Happened and It Changed Everything! (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- Thank God, I'm Free (Steve Brown)
- Thankful for the Gospel (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- Thanksgiving in Troubled Times (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- The Covenants: Abraham (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Covenants: Adam and Noah (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The First Episode of Key Life (1986) (Steve Brown)
- The Gift of Forgiveness (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Gifts Christmas Brings (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Good Things God Has Done For You (Jerry Parries)
- The Gospels: Luke (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Gospels: Mark (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- The Gospels: Matthew (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Graced Church (Pete Alwinson)
- The Grammar of Gratitude (Matt Heard)
- The Kingdom Manifesto
- The Kingdom Manifesto (Pete Alwinson)
- The Kingdom Manifesto: The Poor in Spirit, Those Who Mourn, & The Meek (Pete Alwinson)
- The Kingdom of God (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- The Last Week (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- The Liberating Power of Truth (Steve Brown)
- The Life We Long For (Matt Heard)
- The Life You've Always Wanted (Steve Brown/Matt Heard)
- The Power of Confession (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Power of Pentecost (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Purpose of Christmas (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- The Spirit Who Gives Life (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- The Voice of Jesus (Justin Holcomb)
- The Weird Ways of God (Steve Brown)
- Thinking About Believing (Matt Heard)
- Welcome to the Family (Steve Brown)
- What Difference Does it Make? (Steve Brown/Pete Alwinson)
- What God Hates (Steve Brown)
- What's in a Name?
- When God Changes Your Season (Steve Brown/Jerry Parries)
- Why Do We Need Four Gospels? (Steve Brown/Justin Holcomb)
- Why Jesus Had to Die (Steve Brown)
- Why Theology Matters (Justin Holcomb)
Featured Offer
Adapted from Steve’s new book, God’s Not Mad at You: Confronting the Lies of Guilt, Shame, Fear, and Regret. Topics include… Guilt, Shame, Fear, and Regret—what they are (good working definitions) and why we all (universally) struggle so much with them. / No Kickers—Kickers are the, often subtle, “small print,” the 1% lies that foster guilt, shame, fear, and regret. The Christian faith is unconditional in its promises and truths. God’s love, forgiveness, mercy, and grace have no kickers. / We Aren’t Good People (and They Aren’t Either)—It’s assumed that the key to unity in a family, church, or nation is for good people to convince or coerce bad people into being good…then we can walk off into the sunset together. But what if there aren’t any “good people,” just people who clean up better than others? When the church becomes a place of righteous indignation, it misses everything it’s supposed to be. / The Big Lie—the big lie is this, God is angry at you…with reason. Too often, we’ve truncated the Gospel. If you’re a Christian believer, God isn’t angry at you. (And, if you’re not a believer and go to him, he won’t be angry at you, either.) That makes all the difference in our struggle with guilt, shame, fear, and regret.
About Key Life Network
Because life is hard for everyone, grace is for all of us. And grace means that because of what Jesus has done, when you run to him, God’s not mad at you.
All of the radio shows, sermons, books, and videos we produce work together toward one mission: to get you and those you love Home with radical freedom, infectious joy and surprising faithfulness to Christ as your crowning achievement.
Learn more: http://www.keylife.org
About Steve Brown
He’s not your mother and he’s not your guru. He’s Steve Brown - a speaker, author, former pastor and seminary professor, and founder of Key Life Network, Inc.
At Key Life, Steve serves as Bible teacher on the radio program Key Life and the host of the talk show Steve Brown, Etc. Prior to Key Life, Steve served as a pastor for more than thirty years and continues speaking extensively.
Steve has also authored numerous books, including How to Talk So People Will Listen, Three Free Sins, Hidden Agendas and his latest release, Talk the Walk: How to Be Right Without Being Insufferable (now available as an audiobook).
Contact Key Life Network with Steve Brown
steve@keylife.org
http://www.keylife.org/
P.O. Box 5000
Maitland, FL 32794
In Canada, send requests to:
Key Life Canada
P.O. Box 28060
Waterloo, Ontario N2L 6J8
1-800-KEY-LIFE