Not Suffering for Nothing
If you ever had any doubt, Joni can most definitely handle her wheelchair.
Joni Eareckson Tada: This is Joni Eareckson Tada sharing hope. What I've learned is that Joni can really handle her wheelchair. With God's grace, that is. Grace makes it possible to even smile in my wheelchair, and I can even handle chronic pain through His grace.
But when it comes to loneliness, that's a deep kind of suffering that requires an even deeper measure of grace. Loneliness is emotional despair tucked way down deep in the soul, the heart, and in the gut. It is so different than being in a wheelchair or even handling pain.
People who are profoundly lonely often feel that their lives are meaningless, that they could jump off a bridge and no one would ever even notice their absence. Loneliness can even make us feel as though we are suffering for nothing, and that is the worst feeling of all.
If ever there were a person whose suffering seemed to be for nothing, a person who was physically isolated, it was my friend Denise. Back in the rehab institute I lived in for almost a year, Denise was my Christian roommate. A strange neuromuscular disease had left her blind and completely paralyzed.
Lying motionless in her hospital bed all day, this young woman was extremely isolated. She had little connection with other people except for an occasional nurse or infrequent visits from her mother, who had to take the cross-town bus to see her. But was Denise lonely? Oddly, she would have said no.
Denise never complained. She always had a warm greeting for me and the rest of her roommates. She was always interested in how we did at physical therapy. Despite her blindness and paralysis, despite living day in and day out in bed, she really knew she wasn't alone.
Denise realized that others were observing. Others were benefiting from her life of faith lived out in her narrow hospital bed. She took great comfort in knowing that her response to suffering was on display for God and the whole spiritual world. Millions of angels and demons were observing and learning from her perseverance and endurance.
Denise was instructing the whole world of unseen beings because the Bible makes it clear that the spiritual world is intensely interested in the thoughts and affections of every human being. Angels actually rejoice when we trust and obey God. Read Luke chapter 15, verse 10 as an example.
Ephesians chapter 3, verse 10 proves that the spiritual world has its eyes upon us because it says, "God's intent is that now, through Christians, His manifold wisdom should be made known to the rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms." Right there you have it.
Denise's life, your life, is like a chalkboard on which God teaches lessons about Himself to instruct and show angels and demons. Denise was not alone in that bed, and neither are you in your life. Maybe some people around you don't care about your life, but a great many someones are watching you with fascination.
They want to see if God's sustaining grace really is sustaining your life. They want to see if God's working in your life. They are curious as to how you will respond to trials and whether or not God will support you. Friend, your life is on display for millions of unseen beings. Little wonder God wants us to trust and obey Him when, and especially when, you are alone, when no one seems to be watching.
Guest (Male): This story from Joni inspires me greatly. I'm so glad I can go back and listen to it again at joniradio.org, and you can too. Go to joniradio.org for this program and so much more. And remember, if you're feeling lonely today, the heavenly realms are watching, listening, and learning about God from you.
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Drawing on decades of personal experience, including her own journey through paralysis, loss, and chronic pain, Joni speaks with both compassion and conviction. Each short reading invites reflection, prayer, and renewed trust in God’s presence even when life’s circumstances feel overwhelming.
“When life hurts, our faith can feel fragile but God’s love remains unshaken,” Joni writes. Keeping Faith When Life Hurts helps readers anchor their hearts in Scripture and discover strength not in denial of pain but in confident dependence on God.
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Drawing on decades of personal experience, including her own journey through paralysis, loss, and chronic pain, Joni speaks with both compassion and conviction. Each short reading invites reflection, prayer, and renewed trust in God’s presence even when life’s circumstances feel overwhelming.
“When life hurts, our faith can feel fragile but God’s love remains unshaken,” Joni writes. Keeping Faith When Life Hurts helps readers anchor their hearts in Scripture and discover strength not in denial of pain but in confident dependence on God.
About Joni Eareckson Tada: Sharing Hope
Joni Eareckson Tada: Sharing Hope is a broadcast ministry of Joni and Friends committed to bringing the Gospel and practical help to people impacted by disability around the world. Joni and Friends has been advancing disability ministry for over 40 years. Their mission to glorify God, communicate the Gospel and mobilize the global church to evangelize, disciple and serve people living with disability answers the call found in Luke 14 to “bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame… so that my house will be full.”
About Joni Eareckson Tada
Joni Eareckson Tada is an esteemed Christian stateswoman and respected global leader in disability advocacy. Although a 1967 diving accident left her a quadriplegic, she emerged from rehabilitation with a determination to help others with similar disabilities. Mrs. Tada serves as CEO of Joni and Friends, a Christian organization which provides programs and services for thousands of special-needs families around the world. President Reagan appointed Mrs. Tada to the National Council on Disability, then reappointed by President George H.W. Bush. During her tenure, the ADA was passed and signed into law. Mrs. Tada served as advisor to Condoleezza Rice on the Disability Advisory Committee to the U.S. State Department. She served as Senior Associate for Disability Concerns for the Lausanne Committee for World Evangelization. The Colson Center on Christian Worldview awarded Joni Tada its prestigious William Wilberforce Award, and she was also inducted into
Indiana Wesleyan University’s Society of World Changers.
Joni Eareckson Tada has been awarded several honorary degrees, including Doctor of Humanities from Gordon College and Doctor of Divinity from Westminster Theological Seminary. She is an effective communicator, sharing her inspirational message in books, through artwork, radio, and other media. Joni Tada served as General Editor of the Beyond Suffering Bible, a special edition published by Tyndale for people affected by disability. Joni and her husband Ken were married in 1982 and reside in Calabasas, California.
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