Guidelines For Living

Harold Sala

This Is Why Adultery Is Harmful

June 9, 2021

When I asked the Episcopal Bishop of Liberia what was the greatest problem facing families in his country, he immediately responded:  "Unfaithfulness in marriage, in at least 90% of our homes."  The bishop gave me a straightforward answer untainted with excuses or justification.  He could well have said, "You know, we really can't help what's happening here ‑‑ it's our culture!"  Or he could have told me, "Our problems here are the result of the media and the role models which have been imported.  The rest of the world is destroying us here!"

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Loving what God loves and hating what He hates never comes easy.  Do you know why?  Most of the time, our agenda and His are not moving the same way.  It's the age-old conflict of a child's will versus the will of his father.  When our first grandson began to talk, one of the first phrases that he mastered clearly was, "I want...."  But the way the youngster voiced it made it clear that he didn't need any encouragement to be assertive.  He had his own agenda, and he was intent on getting his way.
June 8, 2021
When a certain worker got too much money in his paycheck, he said nothing, thinking that he had indeed encountered some good luck.  The comptroller, however, found his mistake and deducted the overpayment from the next check.  This time, however, the worker loudly complained, "You made a mistake; you didn't pay me enough money."  The comptroller said, "Look, last pay check, I overpaid you, and you didn't say anything then.  Now, why do you complain when I deducted the amount of the overpayment?"  Embarrassed, the worker began to blush and replied, "Look, I can overlook one mistake, but with two mistakes I had to say something."
June 7, 2021
When a Japanese Christian came to San Francisco for a visit, he attended a church service where Ralph Sockman spoke on the Life of Jesus.  Asked by a friend how he enjoyed the message, the guest replied, "Well to hear him tell it, Jesus was an American, a Methodist, and an Armenian. But everyone knows that it is not true, for Jesus was really a Japanese, a Baptist, and a Calvinist."  Right!
June 4, 2021
From the impressions made on the walls of the catacombs of Rome to the mansions of the wealthy, Jesus Christ has been the inspiration for the world's great art, and the face of Jesus has been the inspiration of all the world's great artists.  Rubens, Raphael, DaVinci, Titian, Michelangelo, and thousands of others, have all taken brush and pallet in hand and painted the face of Jesus as they pictured it in their mind.  The painting of the face of Christ done by Warner Sallman hangs in many homes, yet, when I finally cross heaven's threshold, for some reason, I do not expect Christ to look just like the person portrayed by the artists. 
June 3, 2021
It's an amazing fact, yet true: the writers of the four Gospels never gave to the world an actual description of what Jesus Christ really looked like.  Nevertheless, there is an actual description of the appearance of Christ.  One of the few that has survived the centuries is said to have been written by the governor of Judea, Publius Lentulus.
June 2, 2021
Author Philip Yancey grew up in church.  But he experienced a lot of confusion over what he learned about God and what he experienced in life.  He wrote a book that shatters a lot of our cherished ideals and the images we have grown up with. He called the book, The Jesus I Never Knew.
June 1, 2021
"Seeing is believing," so goes the old saying, yet from God's point of view, the very opposite is true.  Believing brings spiritual vision, which clears the brain of fuzzy negative thinking.  I've been thinking of the incident which took place as Jesus was on His way to Jerusalem, where He was to die.  He knew this.  A sense of urgency drove Him towards the Holy City.  Jesus sensed that what would take place in Jerusalem was the very purpose for which He had come.   What would happen was the main event of the ages.  But as Jesus was leaving Jericho to take the road up to Jerusalem, He encountered a blind man—actually two of them—who cried out, "Have mercy on us, Son of David!"  When Jesus heard this, He stopped.  From a social standpoint, they weren't important.  They really didn't count, but they counted with Jesus. 
May 31, 2021
"There are six things the LORD hates, seven that are detestable to him," wrote Solomon 3,000 years ago.  Numbers three and four on that list of character disorders which the Bible calls sins are "hands that shed innocent blood," and "a heart that devises wicked schemes."
May 28, 2021
Rebekah lived in a polygamous society where the women were property and beautiful women were commodities to be purchased at the cost of gold or blood.  Isaac, her husband, knew this all too well; so when he was asked, "Who is this woman?"  he lied out of fear, saying, "She is my sister!" And why not?  Who keeps faith with the enemy?  A generation before, his father, Abraham, had essentially done the same thing to try to protect his mother.  You can read about both incidents in the book of Genesis.  This issue of lying to protect someone when the very act of dishonesty only endangers relationships all the more is not new.  The incidents which I related took place almost 5,000 years ago, yet the issue is as relevant as your wife's most recent visit with her neighbor or best friend.
May 27, 2021
The practice of dishonesty is the second taboo on God's list of what He detests (See Proverbs 6:16-19).  While God loves the sinner, He certainly dislikes some of his habits.  Question:  On a scale of 1-10, how honest are you?  Would you say you are honest all of the time?  Most of the time?  Part of the time?  Or whenever it suits your purpose?
May 26, 2021
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Start your day with hope, confidence, and purpose by listening to the Guidelines for Living daily devotional with Harold Sala! This 5-minute program offers insightful teaching from God’s Word and practical application for living out your faith in the day-to-day. Strengthen your relationship with Jesus by adding this short devotional to your daily routine.  Guidelines for Living is the longest running five-minute program in Christian radio!  

About Harold Sala

Speaker, author and Bible teacher, Dr. Harold Sala founded Guidelines in 1963 and pioneered the first 5-minute Christian program on radio.  Dr. Sala holds a Ph.D. in biblical text and has taught at conferences, seminars and churches the world over.  An author of over 60 books published in 19 languages, his most recent release is 40 Unstoppable Women (Rose Publishing).

 

 

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