Guidelines For Living

Harold Sala

Forgiving People You Don't Want to Forgive

April 7, 2021

Amidst the heather of beautiful Scotland lived a country doctor many years ago.  This Scottish physician was greatly loved by the villagers and patients of the wee town in bonny Scotland, so when he died, he was greatly missed by his village.  His wife, though, did not share his disposition or love for people, and upon his death she examined the financial records which were found in the doctor's office.  On several pages were written these words in the doctor's hand in bold red ink: "Forgiven—too poor to pay."

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The reflections of an old man who senses that death is near are always meaningful. Such were the words of Moses who reflected on a life of challenge and who wrote, "Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commands" (Deuteronomy 7:9). 
April 6, 2021
A dad took his son, then about five years old, and lifted him to the top of the wall about 42 inches off the ground. Then he said, “Now, son, jump and I’ll catch you!”  The little boy looked down and hesitated. “Come on, jump! I’ll catch you.” The lad looked into the face of his father and then jumped, but as he did so the dad withdrew his arms and the little boy landed in a crumpled heap on the ground—shocked, and crying. “Look,” said the dad, “this is to teach you an important lesson—you can never trust anybody, ever, not even me. Don’t forget it.”
April 5, 2021
"You can make three wishes," goes the old story of the genie and his jug.  If you could fulfill three desires, what would they be?  Fame, fortune, and power?  Or what?  When he wrote to friends at Philippi, a colony in northern Greece where he had established a church, Paul told them he had three desires, much different ones from those which I suspect we would have written about.  First, he said that he wanted to know Christ in a meaningful and completely fulfilling relationship.  He then added that he also wanted to know the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings.
April 2, 2021
David Jacobs was six years old when he began an uphill battle with cancer which eventually took his life.  But in the course of the valiant battle which David fought, this brave little boy gave us some insights that remind us of the way "a child shall lead them."   He was about to undergo a chemotherapy treatment when he and his father sat next to a gray-haired man old enough to be David's grandfather.
April 1, 2021
Question: Why does the guilty one seem to get away with wrongdoing? Ever ask yourself that?  There are times when it appears that the real winner is the liar, the cheat, the scoundrel—at least at the onset. Take, for example, the woman who asks the penetrating question about the betrayal of her husband. She writes, "Why isn't he suffering, why is he getting away without any pain. He sinned, he caused the pain and yet I'm the one walking through the fire, and I'm the one carrying around the scars from the burns."
March 31, 2021
In a Judean wilderness, David cried out, "O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water" (Psalm 63:1).  At the time, David was being hunted by Saul, who felt that he was a threat to his kingdom, and at times David became weary in body, wondering if he would ever find peace.   No doubt he wondered if he would ever be able to go back home to Bethlehem and sleep without concern for his safety.
March 30, 2021
Someone handed the following to me written by an anonymous hand.  It's labeled, "The Toddler's Creed."  It reads, "If I want it, it's mine.  If I give it to you and change my mind later, it's mine.  If I can take it away from you, it's mine.  If I had it a little while ago, it's mine.  If it's mine, it will never belong to anyone else, no matter what.  If we are building something together, all the toys they are mine.  If it looks just like mine, it's mine."  Any parent who has ever tried to mediate between siblings, both of whom are shouting, "It's mine!" has to smile. 
March 29, 2021
A gray-haired woman in her 70s walked down the aisle of a plane, stopped by an empty seat and asked the person sitting next do it, "Excuse me, do you have any grandchildren?" When the very surprised person responded, "Yes, I do!" the woman moved on down the aisle. Asking the same question, the person next to the empty seat stammered, "No, but we wish we did."  Sitting down the woman said, "Wonderful!  Now I will tell you about mine!"
March 26, 2021
A sign over a mirror in a public school reads, "You are now looking at the most special person in the world." The message is part of a program designed to build self-esteem in children, and there is no questioning the fact that some kids suffer from a lack of self-esteem. At times parents disparage the achievements of their kids—like, "Why can't you do as well in school as your sister?"  Or, "You're dumb," or "Get up, you lazy girl."  Or, "You'll never amount to anything when you do that sort of thing."
March 25, 2021
"My husband and I have been listening to you for a long time," writes a friend of Guidelines.  Omitting the very kind things she wrote, she continues: "We have been ever evolving in our spiritual walk and find ourselves at a painful standstill, not knowing how to proceed." 
March 24, 2021
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Start your day with hope, confidence, and purpose by listening to the Guidelines for Living daily devotional with Harold Sala! This 5-minute program offers insightful teaching from God’s Word and practical application for living out your faith in the day-to-day. Strengthen your relationship with Jesus by adding this short devotional to your daily routine.  Guidelines for Living is the longest running five-minute program in Christian radio!  

About Harold Sala

Speaker, author and Bible teacher, Dr. Harold Sala founded Guidelines in 1963 and pioneered the first 5-minute Christian program on radio.  Dr. Sala holds a Ph.D. in biblical text and has taught at conferences, seminars and churches the world over.  An author of over 60 books published in 19 languages, his most recent release is 40 Unstoppable Women (Rose Publishing).

 

 

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