5 Questions That Predict Marital Success
May 19, 2020
Good marriages have a lot of things in common, while unhappy marriages are as different in as many ways as there are unhappy people married to each other. Yet the factors which make for either being happy or unhappy are often far more predictable than most folks think. Dr. John Gottman is a psychologist and researcher and based upon his findings published in the Journal of Family Psychology, it is indeed possible to predict, with 94% accuracy, which marriages will end in failure long before the couples are ready to call it quits.
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For 88 years, the Royal Bank of Canada produced a monthly letter that had a huge readership. "It has become almost habitual in these grim days," the letter opened with in 2003, "for political and economic commentators to speak of a ‘crisis of confidence.' Looking back, if we thought we were in a crisis of confidence then, today, we can apply that phrase to governments, global health, the economy and personal relationships. Belief and trust have given way to doubt and skepticism. The confidence that we once may have had in an institution, or a person, or even the future, has eroded and what we have left is a crisis marked by uncertainty and conjecture.
May 18, 2020
Theology is the study of God, but in the street use of the word, your theology is what you believe about God. Historically, the Church has based its theology upon the written Word of God, the Bible, with tradition affirming the position which godly men and women have held down through the centuries.
May 15, 2020
Many of us today prefer not to get involved. "Let government meet this need," we say, or we think, "I'm not qualified to handle this." We quickly excuse ourselves from even attempting to reach out to someone who is in pain. There are professionals to handle things like that and hurting people make us uncomfortable.
May 14, 2020
Love is all you need, sang the British rock band, the Beatles, in 1967, during what was called the “Summer of Love.” And whether or not the kind of love the Beatles were singing of is really what the world needed, it is true that our world would be a drab and desolate place apart from the greenery of love. Jesus Christ talked a lot about love. In fact, the subject of love was so important to Him that he talked with his followers about love in His last meal with them on earth.
May 13, 2020
Roses are perhaps the world’s favorite flower. However, there is a facet of growing roses that we don’t focus on—fertilizing. Yet, fertilizer is a very necessary part of growing beautiful blooms. Unfortunately, the best fertilizer to produce lovely roses is the natural type that smells very badly. No one likes the odor, but everyone likes the results. This fertilizer, however, can be compared to the painful experiences of life, especially those that come through the difficult people we all encounter.
May 12, 2020
What do you do to change when dishonesty has become a way of life, when it is just as easy for you to look someone in the eye and lie as it is to breathe and sleep? To the Corinthians, who knew something firsthand about dishonesty and deceit, Paul wrote, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!" (2 Corinthians 5:17). In God's sight, conversion makes you a new person; yet the fact remains that the ongoing change in your life, the result of God's Holy Spirit working within, takes time. Conversion isn't an instant transformation from dishonesty to moral perfection.
May 11, 2020
Here is something amazing about God: He is for us, not against us! So often, especially if we have grown up in a home with a very religious tradition, it is very easy to focus on wanting to please—first our parents, then teachers, employers and yes, God. Faith can become only a checklist of things to do and not do, instead of a real relationship with someone who says that He loves us so much that He would sacrifice for us.
May 8, 2020
God works in and through the difficulties and problems that confront you in ways that you seldom see except in retrospect. That's when you look back and say, "Ah, now I can see the hand of God leading, guiding, and protecting me; but I certainly didn't see it at the time." Right! That's why your hindsight is so much better than your foresight. Looking back you have 20/20 vision, but staring trouble and difficulty in the face, you are completely blind.
May 7, 2020
The Washington Post uses the word "compassion" as a synonym for governmental spending to help the needy and homeless. And while no rational person would argue against the involvement of government in helping the homeless and the poor, the idea of compassion as being a government program is a far cry from the biblical concept of the word. The term "compassion," found some 41 times in 39 verses, always included personal involvement.
May 6, 2020
"You don't get what you deserve; you get what you negotiate!" business writers claim, stressing that when it comes to your job review, you’d better be ready to prove your point with your boss. The fact is, however, that statement is pretty true. What you deserve and what you get may be totally different.
May 5, 2020
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