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David Ring: Look at me, people, look at me. I'd still walk with a limp. I'd still talk funny about the joy that floods my soul because Jesus touched me and made me whole.

John Fuller: What a unique delivery of a life-changing message from David Ring, as he talked about the triumph that he's known in spite of the severe limitations on his body from cerebral palsy. Now, if you've ever felt unloved or ridiculed, and most of us have at some time, please know that this program could be just what you need to hear. Welcome to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly. I'm John Fuller.

Jim Daly: John, I got to tell you, I love this message from David Ring. I just love it. His story is so inspiring because he hasn't allowed his physical challenges, as difficult as they are, to stop him from doing what God has called him to do. And that should inspire all of us.

He is determined to share the Gospel with as many people as he can, despite what most people would call his limitations. In fact, he visited Focus on the Family back in 2007 and spoke at our staff chapel gathering, and, boy, were we inspired. And if you missed part one of David's presentation yesterday, please get in touch with us. We can send you the entire message on CD or audio download, or you can get it from the Focus on the Family app for your smartphone.

John Fuller: Yeah, the links for all of those are right at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast. David Ring is an author, evangelist, and a husband, father, and grandfather, and we'll hear more about his family today.

And Jim, as we said last time, David has a speech impediment, as you can tell from the clip that we just shared, but that message that he has is so clear as you lean in and listen along. You kind of get used to the rhythm of his delivery, and it's so powerful. Here now is David Ring speaking at Moody Bible Institute's Founders Week a number of years ago on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly.

David Ring: People come up to me and say, "Brother Dave, don't you want to be normal?" And I look at them, I say, "What's normal? You think you're normal? You've got a long way to go, buddy. And some of you aren't going to make it. Amen?" I don't want to be normal. I want to be just like God made me. Let me tell you something that'll blow your mentality down the tube. God knew me before I was even born. When I was in my mama's womb, God ordained me. The Bible says I was wonderfully and fearfully made by God.

Do you know God never says "oops"? God never says "oops." Now, by looking at some of you, he came real close. But I thank God for the way I am. By the way, what's wrong with walking with a limp? What's wrong with talking funny? We throw away broken things, don't we? But God doesn't. God uses broken things. What's wrong with cerebral palsy?

You say, "Dave, it's a minority." I beg your ever-loving pardon, because the Bible says if God be for me, who can be against me? They tell me it's a handicap. It's a disability. Baloney. Baloney. I would rather be like I am any day than a healthy man that doesn't know the power of God.

I would rather be like I am any day than a healthy woman that's never seen the love of God in her life. I thank God for the way I am. I would not trade places with any one of you. I thank God for walking with a limp. I thank God for talking funny. It's a privilege to talk funny. When I'm in public and open my mouth, people look. When you open your mouth, they just keep on going.

I thank God for the way I am. Contentment. Contentment. Contentment is not getting what you want; it's wanting what you've got. I thank God for what I've got. They tell me I'm a cripple, but the Bible tells me I'm more than a conqueror. They tell me I'm a nobody, but I've got news for those jaybirds. I'm a somebody. I've been bought with a price. I'm a child of the King. I've been adopted into the family of God, and hallelujah, my name is written in the Lamb's Book of Life.

They tell me I can't do anything, but the Bible says with God, all things are possible. They tell me I will never be a preacher, but I am. I'm preaching my guts out, man. In 1971, God called me to preach. I was minding my own business, and God said, "Dave, I want you to preach." I said, "Who, me? Lord, I can't preach. Lord, I talk funny. Lord, people can't understand me. Lord, I have cerebral palsy." Can you imagine me telling God I have cerebral palsy? I got a funny feeling God said, "Really? You've got to be kidding. Tell me something I don't know, big boy."

I said, "God, if you want me to preach, take a second look and then call me." He took that second look. He still called me to preach. And I got my bag, got my Bible, turned and opened to Philippians 4:13, which says, "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." And people look at me. I'm not going to let a shaky body slow me down from doing what God called me to do. Now, look at me. Look at me. I have cerebral palsy. What's your problem?

What's your problem? Why are you crying the blues? Why are you down in the dumps? Why are you down in the mouth? Why do you want to quit? Why do you want to throw in the towel? Look at me. What's your problem? Don't whine, but shine. Don't you think it's about time to get the lead out and put the Lord in? Don't you think it's about time to get off your blessed assurance?

Don't you think it's about time to get off dead center in your life? Look at you. God gave you a healthy body. Look at mine. I'm weak. I'm frail. I can't even say "Jesus" plain. What's your problem, healthy man? What's your problem, healthy women? What are you doing in your life? Don't whine, but shine.

John Fuller: You're listening to David Ring on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, and I'll encourage you to go deeper with this incredible message by getting a copy of David's book, *The Boy Born Dead*. We'll send that to you for a donation of any amount. And when you visit us online, be sure to sign up to receive a free set of audio downloads. It's a collection called *Enduring the Challenges of Life*, and it features testimonies and encouragement from Joni Eareckson Tada, Sheila Walsh, Dr. Tim Keller, and more, plus the entire message from David Ring. You'll find that collection and also David's book at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast or call for details: 800-A-FAMILY. And let's return now to more from David Ring.

David Ring: They told me I would never make it as an evangelist. I've only been doing it 23 years. I may not make it. They said, "Dave, you will never get enough invitations to shake a stick at." But last year alone, in 1995, I received in my office in Orlando, Florida, over 700 invitations. When I get a little bit more invitations, I'm going to go full-time.

God doesn't want my ability, but God wants my availability. This is the only thing I do for a living. I'm not on church staff. I'm not on church payroll. I go from town to town, from church to church, all over this country. And people, this is what I've been doing for 23 years. I speak over 200 times a year.

They tell me it can't be done. I love it when men say "no way," because God says, "Stand back, boys, let me take over." It's not by power, it's not by might, but by God's spirit. Let us march when God is in it. Don't ever judge a book by its cover. They told me I would never finish college, but I did. I crammed four years of college into five.

They told me I would never find a wife. My own family told me that. They said, "Dave, don't even look for a wife. No woman will love you. You're not good enough. Don't even look for a wife. You will never find a wife. You can't make a living for a wife. Don't look for a wife." But in 1981, God found me a dynamite wife who loves me.

Who loves me, who prays for me. She is dynamite. We've been married for 14 years now, and you know what? She loves me more and more and more. She loves me just the way I am. I told her the other day, "Don't ever think about leaving me. If you leave me, I'm going with you."

I might be dumb, but not stupid. But I thank God for my little healthy wife. Nothing's wrong with her. She is beautiful. They told me I would never be a daddy, but I am. Not once, but four times. Pretty good, huh? I'm a daddy to three little girls, one little boy.

People come up to me and say, "Brother Dave, are your children normal?" Sometimes I think they've got brain damage, but that's normal. Amen? Look at me, people. Every time I look at my family, all I can say to God be the glory. Great things He has done. People, I didn't get a bum deal. I got a blessed deal. I didn't get the short end of the stick. I got the whole stick.

People, if you don't believe in the power of God, look up here. I've come a long way, baby. Amen? I know where I've been. I'm the one that lost my mama. I know where I've been, but thank God I know who I am. God took away my mama that loved me just the way I am. You know why? God gave me five people that love me just the way I am: my wife and four kids.

I know where I've been. I know who I am, and I sure know where I'm going. And one day, I'm going to look up, and I'm going to see my mama and my daddy again. Wouldn't that be neat? You say, "Dave, do you miss your mama? Do you miss your daddy?" Sure I do. I would love to go home Thanksgiving and eat Mama's good home cooking.

I would love to go home at Christmas time and find a present under the tree from Mom and Dad. I would love to call my mama up and say, "Happy Mother's Day." I would love to call my mama up and say, "I sure do love you today, Mama." I would love to point my daddy out, to let my daddy hear me preach in Chicago, and after I preach, let my daddy tell me everything I did wrong. I would love that.

But I can't ever have that. But don't feel sorry for me because joy coming in the morning. And not only that, when I get to heaven, I'm going to have me a brand new body. I'm not going to walk with a limp. I'm not going to talk funny. I'm going to walk and talk like Jesus.

People, if you don't like the way I am, hang in there. I'm still in the oven. God's still in the kitchen. God's still cooking on me. And when God gets finished cooking on me, God's going to pull me out of the oven, and God's going to say, "Well done, good and faithful servant."

But until then, until then, I'm going to keep on doing what God called me to do. I have cerebral palsy. What's your problem? What's your problem? What are you doing with your life today? If I can do it, surely you can.

It's not what you are on the outside. It's everything you are on the inside. What's your problem? Are you doing all you can with all you have? Think about it, man. Think about it, woman. Are you doing all you can with all you have? Can you and I do any more? I wonder today. I wonder today what kind of impact we can make if every one of us would say, "I'm not doing all I can, but today I want to make myself more available to You, God." People, don't give God any more excuses. You don't have any. Amen? If I can preach, if God can use me, look what God can do with you. Amen.

John Fuller: Well, that thunderous applause wraps up this incredible broadcast featuring David Ring on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly. Wow, Jim, what an inspiring person.

Jim Daly: He really is, and if David's message doesn't light a fire under you, you've got another problem. And that brings up a pretty bold question I'd like to ask you. What in your life rises to that level, that kind of challenge that David has overcome? And where can you do a better job with your attitude, your approach, with your expression of the Gospel? And let me tell you, I'll ask myself those same questions.

David shared so clearly what the Lord can do with a person who takes their eyes off their own problems and puts them on Him, on the Lord. And that's really the message I got from the presentation. And the other takeaway is that we need to teach our children that everyone, regardless of their appearance or their ability to communicate, has value in God's eyes. They are made in His image, and He can use them mightily like He did David's life.

John Fuller: It's so important to really understand that, to teach that. Now, here at Focus on the Family, we want to encourage you in your journey as a mom or a dad, in your walk with Christ. We recommend David's book, in which he captures his story. It's called *The Boy Born Dead: A Story of Friendship, Courage, and Triumph*. And you can hear in his voice all that victory that he's attained in Christ. Get your copy of *The Boy Born Dead* from us here at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast or call 800-A-FAMILY. And by the way, it might be a good idea to get the book and then read it together as a family.

Jim Daly: That's a great idea, John. And here at the close of the program, I want to share a letter that we received from a mom named Phyllis. She said that her 21-year-old daughter, Caitlin, was diagnosed with chronic seizures at age three. She underwent several surgeries with absolutely no improvement. But recently, Caitlin had a sixth surgery, and she is now seizure-free, and we all praise the Lord for that.

Phyllis went on to say that during some of the darkest times on this journey, she would tune in to the program and that it would give her the encouragement she needed to make it through the moment. And she would also call us for prayer, and that gave her hope. She said that she loves us, and that's humbling, believe me, and that she could not have made it through the last 18 years without Focus.

Isn't that something? That really blesses me, and I hope it blesses all of you that help support the ministry too. It is such a privilege together to stand in the gap for these parents who need help. So I'd like to encourage you to consider partnering with us financially. That is the fuel that gets ministry done.

These are very difficult times for many, many people. In fact, we receive over 2,200 requests each month for a consultation with a counselor. Think of that. And with your help, Focus on the Family can put that proverbial arm around the person and pray with them and help them and really counsel them through those dark moments.

So if you're in a good place and the Lord is blessing you, can you consider helping bless others? The best way to do that is through a monthly pledge. That really helps even out the budget for us, or a one-time gift is good too. And when you make a monthly pledge of any amount, we'll send you David Ring's book, *The Boy Born Dead*, plus a free audio download of his entire presentation. And that'll be our way of saying thanks for partnering with us in ministry. And if you can't make that monthly commitment, we get that. we can also send you the book and the audio for a one-time gift of any amount. So get your copy today.

John Fuller: Donate today online at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast or when you call 800-A-FAMILY. And remember that David's message is part of a larger collection of audio downloads. It's free. It's called *Enduring the Challenges of Life*. You'll find this five-hour audio collection that you can sign up for on our website. Thanks for listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly. I'm John Fuller, inviting you back next time as we once again help you and your family thrive in Christ.

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