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Dr. James Dobson: Welcome everyone to Family Talk. It's a ministry of the James Dobson Family Institute supported by listeners just like you. I'm Dr. James Dobson and I'm thrilled that you've joined us.

Roger Marsh: Well, welcome to Family Talk, the broadcast ministry of the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute. I'm Roger Marsh. You know, some lives are measured by accomplishments. Others are remembered for the way that one decision of faith changed everything that followed. Well, on today's Family Talk broadcast, we're looking back to a conversation featuring a couple of titans of Christian media, Dr. James Dobson and his longtime friend Pat Robertson. Now, both Dr. Dobson and Pat Robertson are with the Lord, but you may remember that Pat was a Christian broadcaster and the longtime host of the 700 Club. But behind that public ministry was a journey that began long before the cameras ever turned on.

During the next half hour, you're going to hear how a young man with a law degree, a military background, and different plans for his future encountered Jesus Christ. And you'll hear how that faith would eventually lead him to take enormous risks, to step into unfamiliar territory, and to trust God when the future seemed anything but certain. This is a conversation about calling, obedience, and learning to recognize God's hand through every season of life. Let's get to it right now. Here is Dr. James Dobson to introduce his friend Pat Robertson on today's edition of Family Talk.

Dr. James Dobson: Pat, it's so good to have you here.

Pat Robertson: Well, Jim, it's good to be with you. We've been friends for so many years and I congratulate you on all the work you've been doing. So it it's a joy to be with you today.

Dr. James Dobson: Well, I was on your program many times and it's about time you were on mine.

Pat Robertson: Well, thanks for returning the favor. It's my pleasure.

Dr. James Dobson: Pat, you're still going strong and we're very honored to have you join us. I want to start by reading just a portion of your bio from your book and it is most impressive. Pat graduated magna cum laude with a Bachelor in Arts from Washington and Lee University. He has a Juris Doctorate from Yale Law School and a Master of Divinity from New York Theological Seminary. He's written 21 books including The Secret Kingdom, which was the number one religious book in America. Pat and his wife Didi have four children, 14 grandchildren, and 15 great grandchildren. Pat, I'm going to start by asking you to name them all.

Pat Robertson: You know I was kidding, don't you?

Dr. James Dobson: I know you were. You know, and by the way, I'm I'm up now to 17 great grandchildren, two more going. So I'll I'll have 19 before the the ones that are in the in the womb are born. So that I'm I'm getting there. 19 great grandchildren.

Pat Robertson: Let's let's start with a health report. How are you doing these days?

Dr. James Dobson: You know, I'm doing great. I've got a like an old car that's got I've got a pacemaker that keeps my heart going and I've I had my prostate taken out and and I don't have one of them, so I don't have cancer. And I had a fall off a horse. I broke eight ribs and I've had a bunch of stuff going on over the years, but I'm still going strong. And And for that I I work out about three times a week and lift weights and do all that. So I'm I'm very vigorous.

Pat Robertson: Well, praise the Lord. You know, in 2011 I fell off a horse too. I grew up in Texas and so I was very very familiar with horses and feel comfortable on them. The horse was just standing. We weren't even moving and I had a $500 Texas hat on that somebody had given me and I liked it. It was white and the wind blew and that hat blew off and I reached over to get it and my foot came out of the stirrup and I went down and I landed on a six gun and I broke my scapula and my clavicle.

Abs I was in the hospital for 17 days. So I've I've done what you've done.

Dr. James Dobson: I I really enjoyed. I was riding what they call dressage. I was into a high-level dressage and I had some great horses, but this one horse spooked. A dog started chasing him and he took off and I lost the stirrup and and he just was wild. I tried my best to control him and I couldn't do it and finally I went off and oh boy. The rest of they say is history. I was bleeding to death. I was you know, my spleen was torn all to pieces. But anyhow, I'm I'm all recovered, Jim. I'm I'm good as gold.

Pat Robertson: Pat, I just quoted a few of your accomplishments, but that wasn't even the beginning of it. Of course, I didn't even mention the 700 Club and you're the founder of Regent University and so many other accomplishments. You have had a very full life, haven't you?

Dr. James Dobson: It's been amazing. You know, I was coming out of seminary and I was asking God what to do and he he led me very clearly to come to Tidewater, Virginia and to buy an old television station. I I only had $70. I didn't even own a television set and I didn't know anything about television and God said buy a station. And here this old station had been taken off the air and I came down and and began that first ministry. It was a miracle. That was 1961. It's been quite a time since.

Pat Robertson: You talk about starting from scratch. You really had to begin putting it together from virtually nothing and look what the Lord has done with it. Pat, let's go back to your childhood. Your father was a US senator, wasn't he?

Dr. James Dobson: Uh he was a senator. He he went to Congress when I was two years old and he served for about 14 years in the House of Representatives and then he was elevated to the United States Senate. He served 20 years in the Senate, so he was there about 34 years. And I laughingly say when I was two that I I first learned mama and then I learned daddy and then I learned constituent. All I heard about was don't do that. What will the constituents think? And so I grew up trying to behave myself in the public arena because of what the constituents would think.

Pat Robertson: So did you spend time hanging around the US Capitol?

Dr. James Dobson: Uh I worked up there for the Appropriations Committee when I was in law school. I had my first congressional campaign. It was crazy. I was in the seventh grade and we had something called Robertson for Congress and I was in that little committee and and you know, it was sort of a joke because I was just a kid. But I I was involved in politics from the early get-go and so I I ran for president and in my book is quite a story of how I got that going.

Pat Robertson: Yeah, I want to know more about that. Were your mom and dad both Christians?

Dr. James Dobson: Uh my father was the son of a Baptist preacher. He kind of made a decision when he was a youngster, but you know at my mother's funeral, uh my father knelt down beside the bed where we were and I led him to Christ.

Pat Robertson: When did you first give your heart to the Lord?

Dr. James Dobson: I was about 23 years old, I think. I'd told my mother that I had wanted to go into religious work and my mother was a deeply committed Christian and she said, you know, son, you didn't quite sound right. And I knew why because I really hadn't come to the Lord. And she said, well, I know these people is guy named Cornelius van der Bruggen. Uh he he might talk to you. So I said, all right, I'm living in New York and I was in business and I I took the train down to Philadelphia and we met in this fancy hotel and he brings out this great big black Bible and puts it on the table and I was just embarrassed out of my mind.

I thought the these people are going to throw us out for being religious fanatics. And I thought, oh my goodness. And then he said, all right, Pat, you're here. Tell me about your experience. And I told him and he said any Mohammedan could have told me what you told me. Isn't there something more? And at that time something came out of me and I said, yes, I believe that Jesus Christ died for the sins of the world and for my sins too. And then it was like a voice in my ear repeating something I'd read from the book of Romans which said if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God had raised him from the dead, you'll be saved.

And I knew at that moment that I had come to the Lord. Boy, I was transformed. I mean it was amazing.

Pat Robertson: Isn't it amazing how the Scriptures can reach out and talk to you when you didn't even know what you were looking for and there it was.

Dr. James Dobson: Exactly. I mean my mother had prayed for me. My aunt had dedicated me when I was just a little baby to the Lord and uh I had this godly heritage and I couldn't get away from it.

Pat Robertson: You know, I just read something about you that I didn't know. You were a lieutenant in the Marines in Korea, weren't you?

Dr. James Dobson: That's right. I was assistant adjutant of the First Marine Division uh when we were engaged. We were in a place called the Punchbowl and Heartbreak Ridge in North Korea. It was a freezing cold winter and I was there with the Marines and I'm proud of that time of service.

Pat Robertson: Why did you get out of the military?

Dr. James Dobson: Well, I was a civilian. I joined the platoon platoon leader class when I was in college and uh when I graduated from from college I got a commission in the Marines and my parents gave me a trip to Europe for a summer. So I was over there studying at the University of London and I went to Paris and I was sitting in one of those Paris sidewalk cafes and I was reading a paper and it said I didn't know what I didn't know what was, but it said a group called the Maran were being called up.

Well, the Maran is what I was. I was a lieutenant in the Marine Corps. And when I when I got back to to America from Europe, I had orders to report to Quantico and I I I went there for training and then from training I went on over to Korea.

Pat Robertson: Uh I assume you were not in combat at that time because you were a lawyer. You were in the adjutant general's office.

Dr. James Dobson: Well, I I was in in a combat unit. I I had I've been given three battle stars. So

Pat Robertson: Really?

Dr. James Dobson: The Marine Corps considered it combat. I mean I was with a combat division, but I I just wasn't in the front line. Although my my MOS is combat infantry, so I was trained in all the skills of how to shoot people.

Pat Robertson: I'll bet we've just told people something that they didn't know. And here's something else that I didn't know. Uh when you became a civilian, you lived for a time in a hippie commune in Brooklyn, New York. What what was that all about?

Dr. James Dobson: Like Ted Turner said I was country before country was cool. I lived in a commune before communes were cool. When I got through seminary, the Lord gave me a Scripture, Luke 12:33 and I said, what am I doing next? And And the thing said sell what you have, give to the poor and come follow me. And so I put an ad in the paper, sold my furniture and moved in with a friend who was living in Bedford-Stuyvesant, one of the worst slums in America. He had a parsonage there and in the parsonage was a former madam of a house of prostitution.

Uh several other people one guy was a big fellow. He was a little bit mentally disturbed and uh we were all living together in this commune and I had my wife and two little children at the time and we were living in that environment. And you talk about rough. I remember Jim, I I was praying, Lord, what do I do now? And I was told my wife I said, are you willing if we buy the house next door that had been a house of of prostitution and we make it a mission here in in Bedford-Stuyvesant?

And she said, okay, if the guns wants you to do it, I'll do it and I'll be with you. And I was sitting there in that old church with a little light on and the Lord said read uh Jeremiah 16:2. And I said, okay, Lord. And I opened the Bible and it was the most beautiful Scripture I think I've ever seen. It said thou shalt not take a wife or have children in this place. And I said, praise God, I'm out of here.

Pat Robertson: That's called proof texting, isn't it?

Dr. James Dobson: I told my wife, honey, we're leaving and you know, pack your bag. And I had an old 53 DeSoto and we had a U-Haul trailer and a few baby beds and some pots and pans and I took off for Virginia and they say the rest is history.

Pat Robertson: Did you ever practice law?

Dr. James Dobson: Uh I never did. I I graduated from law school, but I I never practiced. I went into business right out of law school. I was with WR Grace in New York and and uh then I I was in business with a couple of friends from law school, but I I I never practiced law as such. But I I've sure practiced it since. I've I was taught corporations. I was taught SEC. I was taught tax law and my specialty was uh learning how to form corporations and I've done a lot of that since.

Pat Robertson: Uh well, tell me about Didi. When did you get married? How did you meet her? And uh tell me about your life together.

Dr. James Dobson: Well, while I was in law school, they had a nursing school at Yale and uh they had a mixer uh over in the law school. I went over there to see how these girls were doing and uh she was trying to get away from this guy and she went over to the Punchbowl to try to get away from him. When she did she she got close to the candles and her hair caught on fire and I I showed up Sir Galahad and put the fire out of her hair. And of course, her wonderful thing, you know, I said he put the fire out of my hair and he started a fire in my heart.

And so that from that on we we we got married not too long after that.

Pat Robertson: Well, let's talk about the 700 Club. How did that come about?

Dr. James Dobson: You know, I was praying. I I came down to Virginia and I bought this little old TV station. My first year I think our total income was $8,000 and the second year it was $20,000 and we were struggling. I mean I had almost nothing and you know, it was so uh the great temptation to walk out of the thing. But uh uh I was saying, God, what do you want me to do? And I I'd been reading a book about a man named Charles Mueller. Uh you remember the one over in England that had that those orphans?

And he never asked anybody anything. He never solicited money. He always trusted the Lord. So I thought I will do the same thing. And as I was praying, God basically said to me, I didn't call you to be George Mueller. I called you to broadcast to the world. And uh I said, okay, Lord. So I said our total need is for 700 people uh to give $10 a month. That would be uh $7,000. And I said, that will take care of our budget. So I started something called the 700 Club and uh we had a telethon and our first year we get 300 people uh to give $10 a month and it wasn't exactly what we needed.

But about the third year of of doing that uh God moved in in a tremendous revival. He shook the area we were living in. It was unbelievable what God did and people were being healed. And one woman said, I'm I'm walking softly in my home because of the power of God coming through your radio station. It was just a fabulous time and uh that was the 700 Club. And so a couple of years later uh we did the same thing and God moved again. And so I I thought we'll call a program the 700 Club because it sounds like 007 and sounds like you know, something kind of interesting.

And that that's how it started. On 700 people to give $10 a month.

Pat Robertson: You knew then that God's hand was on you, didn't you?

Dr. James Dobson: I did. I did. But you know, I tell you a lot of times you just young you have to test God and God tests you and you always question, am I doing the right thing? Uh have I got it right? And you know, I it it really you know, when you just starting out, you're not sure. Uh later on I know for sure a lot of things, but in those days the Lord was just teaching me little by little by little. Uh this book I've written called I Walk with the Living God. You know, God has come out of the pages of the Bible and he's been real to me step by step by step.

I've seen his hand.

Pat Robertson: This is a book of stories about your life and they're really interesting. If I can share my own experience, I was at USC School of Medicine and I felt like God wanted me to leave there and start a radio program and we started with nothing also or very little. I got a grant from Tyndale House in exchange for a book that turned out to be The Strong-Willed Child. And they gave me $35,000 to start the ministry with. And two years later I had run out of money. Uh if all of the bills had come in, we would have been $30,000 in debt.

And so one day uh a friend of mine knocked on the door and I he's a godly man and I invited him to come in. My mother was there and my wife and we went into the bedroom and got on our knees and I said, Lord, I thought that this is what you wanted me to do. I thought I felt your leading and we have gone on that basis. But if I did uh hear you write, this would be a good time to hear from you. And that was in October and in November $60,000 came in.

And uh from there the Lord had just revealed himself in so many ways I couldn't miss it. It's wonderful when that happens, isn't it?

Dr. James Dobson: Well, you know, this is so amazing parallel to what I've seen because I got down here and uh you know, I was living on faith and I was going to trust God. Somehow along the way a man came to me and he said, okay, uh I want to help you a little bit. And the next thing I know I had run up about uh oh I think uh $15,000 in debt or something like that. And and I I said, I can't do this to the Lord. And I said, God, there's a particular day uh if if I don't hear from you I'm going to consider that you didn't want me to do this and I'll I'll pack it in and whatever's here in this television thing I'll sell and try to liquidate these debts and quit.

A friend I'd I'd known in New York came down to Virginia and I I didn't know anything about it. And he didn't know that I needed the money. And he came into my living room and before another thing happened he said, God has sent me down from New York. He said, I want to give you something. So he handed me a check and uh it looked like 800 and I thought, well, it's $80. That's kind of sweet, but it won't meet my my need. And I looked on and it was 8 8 0 0 0.

It was $8,000.

Pat Robertson: Oh my.

Dr. James Dobson: And it paid the bills and it it was honestly it was God that the the the night before I was going to close it all down God heard and and sent it just exactly what you're talking about. Isn't it amazing how these things parallel each other?

Pat Robertson: Yeah. Well, I I think the Lord has to let you know that he's the source of your strength. And you think you can do it on your own uh you have a whole different perspective on who runs it. And uh you know, he lets you struggle. He just does. People think when you're Christian everything just goes swimmingly, but yeah, he lets you go through some difficult times and you learn from that.

Dr. James Dobson: That's right. Well, I you know, they said a whole idea of the chicken and the egg. If that chicken doesn't peck on that egg the little chick he doesn't get strong enough to live. You know, if you try to help him and crack that shell open he he dies. He can't live. You know, there was a time I had to trust him for $1,000 and now you know, I have to believe him for several hundred million and you know, it's it's it's I'm used to it. I can believe God for all kinds of things now.

Pat Robertson: Well, he has blessed you and everything that you've done. The title of your book is I Have Walked with the Living God.

Dr. James Dobson: That's right.

Pat Robertson: Uh Pat, we're out of time, but if you don't mind I'd like to just continue to talk to you and we'll let people hear this next time.

Dr. James Dobson: Okay, that'll be fine.

Pat Robertson: Okay, it's a pleasure to have you on. I have respect for you and we want to talk about your presidential run and the other things. So stay tight.

Dr. James Dobson: All right, I'll I'll be here.

Roger Marsh: Pat Robertson's story is a reminder that following God often requires trusting him before we know exactly where he is leading. And sometimes it's through those uncertain seasons that we learn just how faithful he truly is. You're listening to Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk. We just heard part one of Dr. Dobson's conversation with his dear friend Pat Robertson. Both men have gone on to be with the Lord now, but how grateful we are to have this recording to share with you and to reflect upon the great timeless truths that they shared during this discussion. By the way, if you'd like to hear today's program again or to share it with a friend, simply go to drjamesdobson.org and you'll find the audio right there.

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Well, I'm Roger Marsh and on behalf of all of us here at Family Talk and the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute, thanks so much for joining us today. Be sure to tune in again next time right here for part two of Dr. Dobson's conversation with Pat Robertson discussing the topic I Have Walked with the Living God. That's coming up right here on the next edition of Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk, the voice you trust for the family you love. This has been a presentation of the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute.