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Red Flags Before Marriage | Should You Walk Away?

March 28, 2026

In this episode, Pastor Mike responds to a difficult relationship situation involving engagement, conflict, and emotional instability. When a relationship shows signs of anger, avoidance, and lack of accountability—especially before marriage—it raises serious concerns.

He explains why engagement is not a binding covenant like marriage, and why it’s important to step back, seek wise counsel, and evaluate the relationship honestly. If there are clear red flags such as refusal to seek pastoral guidance, emotional harm, or instability, it may be wise to pause or even walk away.

This teaching offers biblical wisdom and practical guidance for anyone navigating relationships, engagement, and the decision to pursue—or reconsider—marriage.

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Join us each Friday as Pastor Mike tackles hard-hitting questions Christians face in the modern world. Arm yourself for your next challenging conversation by getting relevant, biblical answers on hot topics of the day.

About Focal Point Ministries

Dr. Mike Fabarez is the founding pastor of Compass Bible Church and the president of Compass Bible Institute, both located in Aliso Viejo, California. Pastor Mike is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute, Talbot School of Theology and Westminster Theological Seminary in California. Mike is heard on hundreds of stations on the Focal Point radio program and is committed to clearly communicating God’s word verse-by-verse, encouraging his listeners to apply what they have learned to their daily lives. He has authored several books, including 10 Mistakes People Make About Heaven, Hell, and the Afterlife, Raising Men Not Boys, Lifelines for Tough Times, and Preaching that Changes Lives. Mike and his wife Carlynn are parents of three grown children, two sons and one daughter, and have four young grandchildren.

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