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Should Christians Use Preferred Pronouns? Pastor Mike’s Clear Answer

January 13, 2026
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In this direct and challenging segment, Pastor Mike from Focal Point Ministries answers whether it is sinful for Christians to call transgender individuals by their preferred pronouns. Pastor Mike explains why he believes Christians should not participate in affirming something that contradicts biological reality and biblical truth. While emphasizing respect and compassion, he also stresses that believers must avoid supporting what they believe to be falsehood. This brief but important exchange offers clarity for Christians wrestling with cultural pressure and conscience.

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Guest (Male): I'll squeeze in one last one here. Anne asks, "Is it a sin to call transgender people by their preferred pronouns? And are you confident in your answer, or is it a best guess?"

Focal Point Ministries: I would not call a transgender person by their pronouns. If they are going to get all hot and bothered, then I guess we're not going to have a conversation. I don't want to engage in someone else's delusion because that's what it is. It's not truth; it's not fact.

Therefore, I want to be respectful, but it does not mean I'm going to accept or engage in their lie because that's what it is. I know that hacks people off and I'm sorry, I guess—no, I'm not. I don't know. Sorry, not sorry. But there's the reality of answering that question quickly, Anne.

We can talk more about it. Call me back tomorrow. Lord willing, I'll be here tomorrow if the creek don't rise, and we'll be talking about what is on your mind. Thanks so much for listening. My name is...

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Dr. Mike Fabarez is the founding pastor of Compass Bible Church and the president of Compass Bible Institute, both located in Aliso Viejo, California. Pastor Mike is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute, Talbot School of Theology and Westminster Theological Seminary in California. Mike is heard on hundreds of stations on the Focal Point radio program and is committed to clearly communicating God’s word verse-by-verse, encouraging his listeners to apply what they have learned to their daily lives. He has authored several books, including 10 Mistakes People Make About Heaven, Hell, and the Afterlife, Raising Men Not Boys, Lifelines for Tough Times, and Preaching that Changes Lives. Mike and his wife Carlynn are parents of three grown children, two sons and one daughter, and have four young grandchildren.

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