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Dave Drewry: Ink, piercings, tattoos, and painted torsos. It seems that body art is on the rise, and it's a trend that's only becoming more and more popular. Today on Focal Point, Pastor Mike Fabarez steps out from behind the pulpit for an informal discussion about this topic. So stay tuned. And welcome to Focal Point. I'm your host, Dave Drewry. And we're ready to kick off another informal Q and A session with our pastor and teacher, Mike Fabarez. Now today's subject is the cause of celebration and anguish across dinner tables in our country. Is it right for Christians to get tattoos?

Well, believe it or not, the Bible has something to say about this trend, and it's going to shock and surprise some of you, I guarantee. So right now, let's join executive director Jay Warton for this colorful edition of Ask Pastor Mike.

Jay Warton: Well, thank you, Dave. Pastor Mike, we've got a good question today. What does the Bible say about getting tattoos or body piercings? Can a Christian get a tattoo or be pierced?

Mike Fabarez: Yeah. Well, this is a common question these days, it seems, with the popularity of all this. And a lot of people will quote Leviticus that talks about marking and cutting the body, but you've got to take the context of that and clearly put that in front of us and say, well, that had to do with the cultic ritual for the pagan gods of Canaan, and it's certainly not talking about someone putting a fish or an ichthys or a cross or whatever on their arm. That that's certainly not what's in view. So we we can't quote Bible verses and say, well, here, it's expressly prohibited in the Bible.

As a matter of fact, you'll see throughout biblical history without much comment at all when it does come up at least, you know, people have earrings and you assume there's piercings and whatever. I mean, it's certainly not a primary concern, it seems, in the Bible. So, you know, it's one of those situations, sometimes we call them gray areas where you got to make a decision not based on an express prohibition in the Bible, but, you know, is this a wise thing for me to do? How's it going to affect other people? You got to make decisions based on something other than quoting a chapter and a verse in the Bible.

Jay Warton: Well, Pastor Mike, what are some of the questions a Christian might ask themselves before getting a tattoo or getting a piercing?

Mike Fabarez: Yeah. I mean, you know, and this obviously it has to do with so many things in terms of the effect that it has on others, what it is, and plus the permanence of these things I think is important for people to think through. I mean, it's like if I moved into a house and said, you know, whatever you put on the wall right there can never come down for the, you know, the entirety of the life of this house, I mean, you'd think long and hard before you put something permanent up on the wall. So there are obviously wisdom issues on this, and I know pastors come out and they give their opinion on this all the time, and I like to stay away from that because I can't sit here and weigh in on the fact that, you know, this is some kind of grievous sin because in certain areas, cultures, sub cult it's it's not an issue at all.

And I think it comes down to what you're doing and what you're putting on and how you've thought it through and all the rest. I mean, it's an issue of wisdom, and certainly if you're young, you should be consulting, you know, a lot of people before you make decisions that have a permanence to them. And certainly this is something that does.

Jay Warton: Well, talking about that permanence and young people, what about teenagers that may be living at home and they're asking their parents about getting a tattoo or getting a piercing? How should we handle that with our children?

Mike Fabarez: Yeah. Well, you know, and I don't know the laws across the country, but I know here in California, you can't get a tattoo. It's illegal to give a minor a tattoo. There may even be a higher age number than that than 18. I don't know what the age is, but you can't. It's illegal. So I defer to Romans 13 when something is illegal and say, I don't care if your parents think it's cool, you know, you can't do what the government has said you can't do as long as what they say you can't do in no way keeps us from obeying the Bible.

And since there's nothing in the Bible that says you've got to get a tattoo, then when the government says you can't, I should be a respectful citizen and say, hey, I I can't do it. You know, it's like drinking. People talk to me about drinking all the time as one of these gray areas. And and often it comes from people that are under the drinking age. And I think, well, that's a silly question. We can't even have the debate of what it means to drink as a gray area until you pass the age of whatever country or state you live in.

So it's important that we recognize that, you know, there are some categories where this isn't shouldn't even be a question of is this okay to do because it's not.

Jay Warton: Well, thank you, Pastor Mike. Certainly there are a lot of opinions on this topic, and we appreciate your conversation today. Let's continue this discussion by looking at how to make godly decisions about other gray areas besides just tattoos and piercings. This message is titled Sorting Out God's Orders from Our Opinions.

Mike Fabarez: Now we're used to as Christians having the non-Christians yell at us and say stuff like, you know, chill out, stop with all your rules, need to live a little bit, have some fun, loosen up. You know, you need to just if it feels good, do it. We're used to hearing that from from non-Christians, but the problem with modern Christianity is we're hearing a lot of that from Christians and church goers, right? They look at people like you and they say, oh, you're just so uptight about the Bible. Always having examine everything and so think about this and discern that.

It's too much work. Just give me got to go with the flow. You need to go with the flow. Go with the flow. Grace. Just you need to dance to the music of grace. Just do that. And you don't need to be thinking about your steps and counting them to see if you're doing it right. Just flow, baby. Flow. Now that may play well, give a lot of goosebumps and, you know, ooze and ahs from that kind of over sentimentalized Christian subculture that we see so much of these days, but it is not biblical. Let me just say that as clearly as I can say that.

It is not biblical. And let me show you why. Ephesians chapter 5 verse 15 does not call us to a care-free Christian life floating along on the clouds of some kind of theological feeling or reaction. It is about looking at our lives carefully. It couldn't be said anymore grammatically intensive than it said right here in verse 15. Ephesians 5:15 he takes a verb that is nowhere else in the New Testament. A modified by an adverb. And look at it here. Grammarians put a little star by this verse because it's a unique construction, very strong, very intensive.

Look what it says verse 15. It says you've got to look carefully. You need to examine. You need to look hard. You need to be diligent. You need to be methodical. You need to look at this with with a kind of discernment you've never had. What how you live, how you walk. That's his little analogy for for for life. The decisions you make. Not as unwise, but as wise making the best use of the time. Why? Because the days are evil. There's no time for just winging this. This is this is high time to make every decision count.

Verse 17. Do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. You need to think about it. You need to figure this out. You need to give it thought and attention. And you need to be someone who gives it a lot of your care. To speak up and to use the dance metaphor by the way. It's a great little Hebrew word study perhaps sometimes you might you might want to do. It's in Psalm 119. Might want to jot it down, look it up later. Psalm 119 verse 59. He says this, the psalmist, when I ponder, when I think, literally in Hebrew, when I count my ways, I turn my feet to your testimonies.

The word of God has to direct every step of the Christian life as I give care and attention to how I live. Look carefully then how you walk. You're still in Ephesians. Go back up to verse 8. He says at one time you were darkness, now you're light in the Lord. Walk as children of light. Live like that. Well, what kinds of things? Well, the fruit of light is found in all that is good, right and true. And try to discern what the will of the Lord is or what is pleasing to the Lord. Figure it out.

Think about it. Give it some thought. The world and even some churches and Christians may encourage you to live care-free. The Bible is calling you to live carefully. That's different. Consider your steps. Live circumspectly, discerningly because the days are evil. You want to bring glory to God. You want to end this life with a life that garners the approval of God, that kind of well-done, good and faithful servant. We need to be looking carefully to the decisions that we make. And some people say, well, that's great. That's what I want to do. But uh you know, it's all about the black and white of scripture.

And if it 's not prohibited or it's not commanded, then I'm on my own. Uh and and I can understand that mindset because the Bible has a lot to say about how we're to live, what we're supposed to do, the black and white, the clearly and expressly commanded and prohibited. Go back to Romans, the end of the chapter, you'll see there some very expressed and clear commands from the scripture. Take for instance a look at um speaking of walking, living our lives with that analogy, walking the way we make decisions. Look at verse 13. Romans 13:13 Let us walk properly as in the daytime.

Now he lists some things that have always been clearly and expressly prohibited in scripture. Orgies, drunkenness, sexual immorality, sensuality. Those things are clear. They're obvious. Uh someone says after this, hey, we're going to an orgy. You want to go? You say, no. Uh the Bible says no. I can't do that. It's against the scripture. Let's go get drunk tonight. No. Drunkenness. I can't do that. Let's go have sexual immorality. Meet you at 7:00. No. The answer is no. It's sinful. That's clear, right? Quarreling, same way. Jealousy. Don't do it. Those are clearly expressed commands in Bible.

But look at verse 14 starts to open the door a little bit to there ought to be care given to more than just the express commands of the Bible. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ and make no provision for the flesh to gratify its desires. Understand we have a lot of freedoms in the Christian life. But those freedoms need to be carefully considered. Sometimes in a congregation like ours, we're going to have people that are going to come to this conclusion and people that are coming to that conclusion. And chapter 14 is going to say, you need to make sure that all of you have fought carefully about these things.

And it may be so that at the end of the day we come to different conclusions on some matters that aren't expressly talked about in scripture. Understand that. We get that. Uh but you need to have an attitude up front that's going to say, we're all going to think carefully about it, which is what the whole 14th chapter is about. We're all going to try to discern what the will of the Lord is. That's what the whole 14th chapter of Romans is about. We're going to work at that, but in the meantime we're not going to be throwing rocks at each other.

And that's how it starts. Look at verse 1 chapter 14. We're going to look at the first six verses today. That's all we have time for. He says, as for the one who is weak in faith. Now that sounds like a slam, but it 's not a slam. As a matter of fact, he's going to say, hey, you need to embrace this person, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person believes uh he can only eat vegetables. And that's his decision. That's what he's decided.

Now let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains. And let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him. To were you to pass judgment on another servant, uh it's before his own master that he stands or falls, and he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. Then he gets back to some gray areas in their church. One had to do with food, right? Verses two and three. Now he's going to bring up people that have uh concerns about the calendar.

Verse 5. One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. You got to think about it. You got to discern it. You got to give it care. You got to work it through some biblical evaluation, which we're going to deal with in the chapter. And he provides the ingredients for that as we move through this chapter. Then he explains something about the motives here. The one who observes the day, well, he observes it in honor of the Lord. And the one who eats, he eats in honor of the Lord since he gives thanks to God.

While the one who abstains abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. So we got two issues on the table here. And they may be issues that you're thinking if you, I mean, come out this with a modern mentality, wow, some weird people in that church, right? I mean, they're worried about what day it is and they're worried about what to eat, and they think that has some relationship to their relationship with God, okay? Well, that's the problem. We can't fully identify it with the specifics of their issues because maybe we don't sympathize or understand their struggle with Old Testament ceremonial laws.

So let's jot that down and just think for a minute with a little bit of empathy and sympathy that these guys were struggling with issues. Two two issues on the table, pardon the pun, food and days. Those were important to them because we've got a church that as the crow flies, be a long flight, you got 13 1,400 miles from Jerusalem to Rome. This is a first century church in the middle of the first century in Rome that is the hub of of of of society. These are mostly non-Jewish people, Gentiles we call them, that make up the church.

But apparently because it is the hub of of society in the day, uh there's a lot of Jewish people there in that town too. And the converted church, people that have been reached with the gospel of repentance and faith in Christ, they were both Jew and Gentile in the church. And you've got some people with that Jewish background that grew up with all the Old Testament ceremonial laws that included rules about food and days. Those were the two issues that we were dealing with in the church here. The issues that he's going to address. And then you got a lot of Gentile people, a lot of people that have, you know, didn't didn't go to Sabbath school, never had a dietary restriction.

Uh they are in the church too, and they're looking across the way going, hmm, you're not eating the, you know, the the bacon uh for breakfast. What's wrong with you? Uh what why don't you do that? That is the issue here. Some people grew up with Saturday worship. Romans get saved. The new tradition of the church was Sunday worship. Some people struggled with what day they worshiped on. And that was a big deal. Some people grew up with, you know, looking at Tishri the 10th uh which which was Yom Kippur or Nissan the 14th, the Passover.

Those are important days on the calendar for any Jew that grew up in a Jewish culture. And now in Rome we're Christians. There's nothing in the New Testament about those. As a matter of fact, there's a reason those have become irrelevant. And people struggle with you feel like that's still important and you don't think that's important, and they started casting aspersions, they started despising one another and passing judgment on one another. He says don't do that. We need to empathize with the problem, the principle from their problem that now will help me define what my debatable issues are.

Okay. So let's sympathize with the ceremonial laws. Here's what you need to know about the ceremonial laws. They are distinct in the Old Testament from the moral laws. That's very important. There are three primary bodies of laws in the Old Testament. You have the ceremonial laws which had to relate to rituals and worship. They dealt with things like the sacrificial system, the Levitical priesthood, clean and unclean rules relating to foods and seeds and clothing and and materials and all those things that symbolically showed the separation of Israel from the nations. Those were the ceremonial laws.

Then you had the civil laws. I guess I had over here the civil laws. And those were when they came out of Egypt, they would go to court in Egypt if they had a dispute and had a little fender bender with their camel. They would say, well, judge, he backed into me. They'd do all that. Now we don't have that. We don't have courts because we're wandering around in the desert and we're going to create a new society, a new nation in in the land of Canaan. So they needed a civil set of laws, judicial laws.

What's the restitution ratio? What do we do when we catch someone in the act of stealing an ox and how do we do all that? All those laws then are laid out. And that was provisional for the nation of Israel. What did I say back in Do you remember when we were dealing with this? Are we a nation among nations or are we an international organization? We said the Church of Jesus Christ is an international organization. Therefore the civil laws are not applicable. We learned in Romans 13 because we live under the laws of our nation.

And in the first century we saw that they were deferring to the laws of Rome, and they submitted to the governing authorities of Rome and the Roman Empire, and they lived without the applicability, at least the direct applicability of the civil law. So civil law. Hmm. Ceremonial law. All of those related to worship. And then there were the moral laws of God. The moral laws of God that dealt with how you live. They dealt with decisions that were right and wrong, not because they were simply prescribed, but because they reflected the character, the moral character of God.

That's the moral law of God. And that's an important set of distinctions that is important for us to make as Christians because when someone says to you, when you quote some kind of moral law, they'll say, oh, you're getting that from the Bible. Well, you don't keep these rules, do you? What does the Bible say about fabrics? You can't have this fabric with that fabric. You can't take that seat and plant it next to that seat, and you can't do this and you can't do that, and you got these issues of clean and unclean, and how about the food and all that stuff.

You don't do any of that. So therefore let's toss the whole thing out. The Bible's very very clear. And by the way, if all of those rules were still in vogue, we'd have to keep them, and we do it. You'd have to do exactly what the Bible said. You'd have to check the tag on your shirt to see if you were breaking the the unclean and clean rules. And that's what we would all do. But God says all of those were for one primary purpose. If you want to write down some references, here's one to write down.

The first one might be uh the whole book of Hebrews. There's a big reference. Uh right? Chapter 1 through chapter 13. But how about this one to be specific? How about chapter 10 verse 1? All of these ceremonial laws, that's the context, the temple, the tabernacle, the ark of the covenant, the Levitical priesthood. They were all a shadow of the good things that were to come. And Christ came and fulfilled them and then made all of those as chapter 9, chapter 8, chapter 6, chapter 10 say made those passé. The Hebrew rescinded those ceremonial laws.

They are no longer valid or in vogue and you don't have to keep them. As a matter of fact, they're done. God no longer holds you responsible to keep the ceremonial laws of God. That's what the Bible teaches. You want to look at one yourself. Here's a good one. Let's turn to this one. You can jot it down too. It's Colossians chapter 2. Colossians chapter 2. Let's go to verse number 16 and 17. The same principle again, over and over and over again. We see this in the Bible. When it relates to the ceremonies that separated the peoples for the sake of a national distinction and a religious kind of distinction as it related to their ceremonies of worship and their rituals of food and washings and days, those are all rescinded in Christ.

Verse 16 and 17. Colossians 2:16 and 17. Therefore let no one pass judgment on you in questions of food or drink or with regard to festival or new moon or a Sabbath. These are a shadow of the things to come, but the substance belongs to Christ. We see it over and over and over again. The reason we keep the moral law and not the ceremonial law is because the Bible says ceremonial law was to lead us to the reality of Christ. When Christ comes, ceremonial law passé. But you know, what a lot of people do with the whole topic is this, if the Bible doesn't say it, command it or prohibit it, I'm cool, I'm on my own, and off I go.

Don't want to think about God anymore. I'm going to go live my life. Here's the thing, you need to think about God and you need to ask before I go to poker night or buy that outfit or spend the money on that luxury car or go to this particular place with vacation with my family or I do this thing or have that thing done. Here's the deal. We need to ask the question, can I honor the Lord in this, right? Can I really with a clear conscience honor God in this? Because no matter if the thing is allowable, soon as your motive is one that is using that in some way as a provision for the flesh, but it's something that in some way it it's got it's got a wrong thing pushing that, then you know it's wrong and there's no question about it.

The motive is critically important. A motive makes can make that thing at least in the first area of filtering this question out, it can make that area acceptable in terms of my motive at least, right? But motive will not will not in any way salvage an expressed moral command. In other words, if you do the right thing with the wrong motive or you do a neutral thing with the wrong motive, it's wrong. Did you catch that? If you do the wrong thing with the right motive, right? It doesn't redeem the wrong thing. In other words, put it this way.

Are you ready? Jot it down this way. Never waver on God's moral law. Never. We can never waver on God's moral laws. Those cannot be salvaged by a good motive. If I said, hey, you know what? Let's just ask. Here's I I don't know. This has been a bad sermon, but prostitution. What does the Bible say? Do not join yourself to prostitute. If you do become one flesh with her, don't do that. So you know that's sin, right? That's sin. That's a moral law of God. So if I said, listen, we're going to go up after the service, a little men's activity, we're going to go up to Santa Ana and we're all going to, you know, spend the afternoon bedding down with prostitutes, right?

But here's the thing, oh, don't worry. You're looking concerned about that? Our motives are really good. Motives are really good, perfectly good. As a matter of fact, we're going to do a lot of evangelism. We're going to take up kind of getting it right and uh why the Bibles and we're going to pass those out and you know, between sessions we're we're going to talk about the Lord and and you know. So don't worry. Our motives are good. Do you see what I'm saying? What if I really had good motives? Do you see what I'm saying?

Doesn't matter how good my motives are. If it's expressly prohibited, right? You can't do it. Or if it's expressly commanded, you can't not do it. And people all the time try to play with God's moral laws that way. It is a moral law not to forsake the assembling of yourselves together, right? You have to have some connection to the local church. You should know who your pastors are. Those are moral laws in the New Testament. And if if you go, well, my motives are right, you know, I was hurt, don't feel right about it. So you know what?

I just kind of float around or I do internet church or I just watch David Jeremiah on TV or whatever. That doesn't count. See what I'm saying? I don't care how good your motive is. There can be things that you can try and write off because your motive is going to salvage it. Your motive does not salvage sinful behavior, but your motive, right? Can be a great indicator whether you should proceed with some of these gray areas. Do you follow that? That's a that's a very very important. You cannot salvage a sinful behavior with a good motive.

These are important decisions. Don't discount them. Keep that at the forefront of your mind.

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