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The Way of Love
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1 Corinthians 13 is subtitled "The Way of Love." In this chapter, Paul tells the Corinthians that love is the greatest of the enduring Christian characteristics and without it we are nothing. However, love is not as easy or pleasant as it sounds. It is effortless to say "I love you" but so hard to demonstrate in real life. The Bible calls Christians to love "not with words or speech but with actions and truth" (1 John 3:18). It is not that the words are wrong, but they are certainly not enough to qualify as biblical love. And the "actions" aren't just any benevolent actions that please the giver, they are to be specifically aimed at the well-being and benefit of the recipient. They are actions and truths that build up, encourage, correct, challenge, and meet the need of the recipient. Such actions can be difficult, involve sacrifice and are sometimes downright painful. Consider Christ's ultimate demonstration of love. John utilizes its example as the definition of biblical love when he writes, "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us" (1 John 3:16a). But John doesn't leave it there, he drives home the call for us to do the same: "And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers" (1 John 3:16b). While the world turns love into an exercise in self-gratification and sentimentality, we as God's people are exhorted to love as Christ did - doing the hard work of giving ourselves for the benefit of others. That is biblical love.

This February, Focal Point is taking a look at several aspects of biblical love. Yet we cannot begin to exercise biblical love to those around us if we do not first learn true, biblical love for God. The call of God on our lives and the message for us in Scripture is distilled into one line it reads like this: "Love God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your strength." This was the central command of Old Testament Judaism (Deuteronomy 6:5) and it was the primary imperative of the one whose name we bear (Matthew 22:37). But when that clear and forthright standard is held up for comparison with modern Christianity, it seems that only a few are focused on this goal. It appears to be a paltry and seemingly "fanatical" minority among us, who would even name this central biblical command as a part of their life's mission or current goals. But before we call this folk fanatical, remember that the responsibility to love God with all that we are cannot be erased or minimized under the guise of New Covenant grace. When some claim we are unfettered from this calling because we are "not under the law" they fail to realize the promised effects of grace. Jesus said when we have been forgiven much we love much (Luke 7:42-47). Grace doesn't free us from the obligation to love God with all of our hearts, it is the fuel for doing so. The Apostle John penned an entire New Testament book based on the proposition that loving God is the sign of those who are actual participants in the grace of God (1 John). Lastly, it is important to note that this supreme love is not meant for the "god" of our choosing. Seeking to fulfill the primary biblical calling must be aimed at the only God who is - the God of the Bible. As John clarifies, this love will be measured by an honest assessment of our transgressions of his holiness (1 John 1:8, 10) and our resolve and growing consistency in keeping his commands (1 John 3). He exhorts his readers, "This is love for God: to obey his commands" (1 John 5:3). When we love God with all our hearts, it will prompt us to truly love others as God commanded us.

 
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The Four Loves

In his most famous work, English poet John Donne declared: “No man is an island.” But Donne’s creative expression on the human condition wasn’t a new discovery. The Bible is riddled with evidence that man was never intended to live in isolation. And yet, we live in lonely times, don’t we? Even though technology tethers us together around the clock, our culture has never suffered more loneliness, seclusion and despair. 

This month on Focal Point, we are looking at Paul’s encouraging words in Romans 15 and 16. He delivers the mandate to live a selfless life, to look out for our neighbor’s good and “to build him up.” (Romans 15:2). Christians who choose isolation are inherently at risk. Spiritual trouble finds its fuel when we choose to be isolated. The New Testament model portrays open-handed Christians who invest in each other’s lives and live in harmony. Paul shared his joys and victories as well as his hurts and struggles with his friends. When he was weak, he not only cried out to God, but he also called out for the help of his Christian friends. “Come to me quickly,” he told Timothy, when he was left without the support of those he formerly trusted (2 Timothy 4:9).

When Paul sat with his Christian comrades, he didn’t portray a super-spiritual disguise. He was genuine, vulnerable and transparent. We would do well to follow this biblical pattern. So as we dig into Romans together, let’s learn to reach out and be real. Let us aspire to serve and be served. Let us look for the mutual encouragement and support that comes when real Christians truly get to know and love each other  There’s another British author whose writings have become cherished around the world. C.S. Lewis wrote, The Four Loves. It’s a definitive book on affection, friendship, romance and unconditional love. This classic work is our special resource this month, and I highly recommend you get a copy. Just click on the link below and I will send it out to you. Lewis will bring additional insight into your biblical understanding of authentic love. 

As we study the book of Romans this month on Focal Point, Paul’s words will challenge you to become an encourager. And conversely, Paul’s words will inspire you with a depth of encouragement that comes only from God. I’ll close with Paul’s wonderful benediction: “May the God of hope fill you will all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13)