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Choosing Contentment Over Comparison – Part 2

January 20, 2026
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Society has taught us to believe that contentment comes from being completely comfortable and lacking nothing. But in reality, contentment has nothing to do with what you have or don’t have—it all comes down to how you think. Dr. Robert Jeffress shares the Bible’s secrets to learning contentment.

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Hi, this is Robert Jeffress, and I'm glad to study God's Word with you every day.

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This Bible teaching program on today's edition of Pathway to Victory.

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There is nothing that will rob happiness in life from you more than comparing ourselves with other people, falling under the myth of more that there's something in life that could make us happier.

Well, what is the alternative to covetousness comparison? In a word, it is contentment.

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Welcome to Pathway to Victory with author and pastor Dr. Robert Jeffress. You know, society has taught us to believe that contentment comes from being completely comfortable and lacking nothing. But in reality, contentment has nothing to do with what you have or don't have. It all comes down to how you think.

Today on Pathway to Victory, Dr. Robert Jeffress shares the Bible's secrets to learning contentment. But first, let's take a moment to hear some important ministry updates.

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Thanks, David, and welcome again to Pathway to Victory. Before we dive into today's message, let me share something with you that's transformed my walk with Christ. It's the privilege of advancing God's kingdom through generosity.

Now, here's the thing. God doesn't need our financial help, yet God extends an invitation for us to join him in his work. Why would he do that? Because when you step out in faith with your resources, it changes you from the inside out. You get a front row seat to watch God take what you've given and multiply it into transformed lives across the globe.

That's exactly why I'm inviting you to become a Pathway Partner. Here's how it works: a Pathway Partner sets up a recurring monthly gift to support the ministry of Pathway to Victory. And the ripple effects are profound. You're creating a living legacy that reverberates across the world and into eternity.

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Whether you become a Pathway Partner with a monthly commitment or give a one-time gift, today *The Legacy Life* comes to your home with my thanks. Have a pen ready because after today's teaching, we'll give you all the details on how to respond.

But right now, let's consider the words of Paul in Philippians chapter 4. I titled today's message "Choosing Contentment Over Comparison."

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Comparison, write this down. Is an attitude of dissatisfaction with God's provisions for my life that leads to an obsession with having more. In the Old Testament, the word for comparison was covetousness. Covetousness is a dissatisfaction with what God has already provided us. And you look in human history, it is that desire for more or different that leads to all sin and rebellion against God.

Let me share with you two myths that we often buy into that fuel our desire for more. Myth number one: I can have it all. That is, if you work hard enough, there is absolutely no limit to what you can achieve. You can have it all. Myth number two that fuels our dissatisfaction: I could be happy if only I had blank. You know how most people fill in that blank? I could really be happy if only I had more money.

You know, Solomon was the wealthiest man of his day, and he talked about the futility of money. Turn over to Ecclesiastes chapter 5 for just a moment. Solomon gives six reasons that money will never satisfy our deepest needs.

First of all, Solomon observes that no one ever has enough money, or at least thinks they do. Look at verse 10: "Whoever loves money never has money enough. Whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with his income." Closely related to that, in verse 11, he says money attracts parasites. Look at verse 11: "As goods increase, so do those who consume them. And what benefit are they to the owner except a feast whose eyes are upon them?" The more money you have, the more people who surround you.

Thirdly, he says a limitation of money: money produces anxiety. Look at verse 12: "The sleep of a laborer is sweet, whether he eats little or much. But the abundance of a rich man permits him no sleep." Fourthly, money can be harmful. Verse 13: "I have seen a grievous evil under the sun, wealth hoarded to the harm of its owner."

Fifth, money can easily be lost. Solomon says, look at verse 14: "Wealth can be lost through some misfortune." And I mean, think about this: how tragic it is to sacrifice, to save, to accumulate money, only to have it wiped away by a bad investment, a catastrophic illness, or a lawsuit.

Sixth, and perhaps most importantly, money can't satisfy ultimately because money is only temporal. Look at verse 15: "Naked, a man comes from his mother's womb, and as he comes, so he departs. He takes nothing from his labor that he can carry into his hand." You know, the fact is, you came into this world with nothing, and you and I will leave it with nothing. There are no U-Hauls in heaven. Everything we have, we leave behind.

I saw a great illustration of that years ago from the advice columnist from the newspapers. The title of the article from Ann Landers was, "You can't take it with you." She writes, "Aunt Emma was married to a tightwad, Uncle Ollie, who was also a little strange. Uncle Ollie made a good salary, but they lived frugally because he insisted on putting 20% of his paycheck under the mattress. Toward the end, he made Aunt Emma promise in the presence of his brothers that she would put the money he had stashed away in his coffin so he could buy his way into heaven if he had to."

The following morning, after Uncle Ollie died, she took the money, about $26,000 from under the mattress, to the bank and deposited it. She then wrote a check to Uncle Ollie and put it in his coffin. Money is temporal. You know, the fact is, you can't take it with you, but you can do something else if you're a Christian: you can't take it with you, but first you can send it on ahead of you if you want to.

And that's what so many of you do so faithfully every week, giving of your resources to God's work to make all of this possible. The outreach of our church. That's what Jesus talked about in Luke 16, about making friends for yourselves by money. That when you get to heaven, there will be people who will be there to greet you, people you have won to Christ or played a role in. Because if you're giving, many of you are going to have a whole welcoming crew who are going to be there to say thank you for what you gave to the church that allowed me to know Christ as Savior.

You can send it on ahead of you, or you can leave some of it behind to keep on working for God's kingdom after you're gone. You know, another great illustration of that: we were contacted that we had this great opportunity on the largest Christian network in the world, Trinity Broadcasting, that covers 98% of the globe. They invited us to start airing Pathway to Victory in a prime slot Monday through Friday at 7 AM and Sunday mornings at a prime slot at 9 AM.

It was a great opportunity, but it was going to cost us an extra million dollars a year over three years: $3 million. Well, we didn't have $3 million. We don't have any budget to do that. But it was such a God thing that that opportunity came that we went ahead and walked through that door.

And you know what's interesting? At the same time that that opportunity came up, we were notified that a woman who had viewed our church, Pathway to Victory in Colorado, had passed away. And she left us in her will $500,000. So we received that $500,000. We were notified that another viewer in California passed away and has left Pathway to Victory a million dollars. So in a couple of weeks, we already have one and a half million dollars toward that goal of $3 million.

The work of this church wouldn't happen if it were not for people like you who faithfully give week after week. But also remember the church in their wills. I want to thank those viewers of Pathway to Victory who make that ministry possible because of your faithful giving. Remember, we're going to leave it all behind. There is nothing that will rob happiness in life from you more than comparing ourselves with other people, falling under the myth of more that there's something in life that could make us happier.

Well, what is the alternative to covetousness and comparison? In a word, it is contentment. Paul said in his letter to the Philippians, Philippians chapter four, "I have learned to be content in whatever circumstance I am in." Now, this word content is not a synonym for lazy or couch potato.

And so let me give you a definition of contentment that I use in my book, The Road Most Traveled. Contentment means being at peace with the unchangeable circumstances, choices, and even mistakes that shape our destiny. Let me say it again: contentment means being at peace with the unchangeable circumstances, choices, and even mistakes that shape our destiny.

Contentment is the attitude that says, "I'm gonna be satisfied with what God has given me." It's interesting when you look at the Apostle Paul. He was never satisfied with what he was, but he was always satisfied with what he had. He was never satisfied in his relationship with God. In Philippians 3:14, he said, "I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." But he was content in his material possessions.

In fact, in Philippians 4, verses 11 to 13, he wrote, "Not that I speak from financial want, for I have learned," underline that word, "learned," "to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I know how to live in prosperity in any and every circumstance. I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

Paul said, contentment doesn't come naturally, certainly not in our culture. It's something we have to learn. How do you learn how to be content? How to be satisfied with what God has given you? Very quickly, let me share with you three secrets for learning contentment.

Number one: Compare yourself to God's standard of success rather than human standards of success. Compare yourself to God's standard of success rather than human standards of success. Before Paul met Christ, he was in the rat race. He was comparing himself to other people. He wanted to be the Hebrew of the Hebrews. And he was. He was taught in the school of Gamaliel. He was circumcised on the eighth day. He was of the tribe of Benjamin. He measured his success in terms of other people. But the moment he met Jesus Christ, that standard changed. He says in Philippians 3...

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But whatever things were gained to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ. More than that, I count all things to be loss. In view of the surpassing value of knowing Jesus, my Lord, he said, all I'm concentrated on is my relationship with God. Not what other people do or don't do.

You know, for 50 years, Dr. George W. Truitt was pastor of this church. He had a great definition of success that I've never forgotten. He said, "Success is knowing the will of God and doing it." God has a unique plan for your life and my life. True success is knowing what that purpose is and fulfilling that purpose. Not the purpose he has for somebody else, but the purpose he has for you.

When we stand one day before the Bema, the judgment seat of Christ, we're going to be evaluated not according to God's plan for somebody else's life. Not his plan for Billy Graham or Lottie Moon or anybody else. We're going to be judged according to the unique plan God has for us.

Number two: to experience satisfaction in life, trust in God's sovereign plan in your life. Do you realize that the most important parts of your life were all part of God's sovereign plan for you before you ever drew your first breath? I mean, think about the most important things about you: your physical makeup, your emotional makeup, your parents that produced the right DNA to make you who you are. All those things were predetermined by God. You didn't have one thing to do with it.

If you don't believe that, listen to the words of Psalm 139:13-16. David said, "You made all the delicate inner parts of my body and then knit them together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex. It is amazing to think about. Your workmanship is marvelous in how well I know it. You were there while I was being formed in utter seclusion. You saw me before I was born and scheduled each day of my life before I began to breathe. Every day was recorded in your book."

What great verses to remind us that that unborn child in the mother's womb is the work of God's hands. God is crafting that child into a unique human being for whom he has a tremendous purpose. And when we destroy an unborn child, we are destroying a life and the work of God.

You may have heard me several times talking about these late-term abortion bills supported by New York and Virginia. Now, seven other states are considering laws that would allow for the murder of a child in the 7th, 8th, even 9th month they are in the womb, or unbelievably, even after the baby is born, if the parent changes his or her mind about the child, to allow the child after being born to be murdered. Lou Dobbs asked me, "Pastor, how do..."

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You account for that?

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Why is that? And I said, the Russian writer Dostoevsky said, without God, all things are permissible. If there is no God, as some would have us say, if God has not spoken, then who's to say it's wrong to murder a child? But ladies and gentlemen, God has spoken and he has said all life is. And it is the duty of Christians to stand up, to rise up and say, this is murder, this is wrong, this is depraved, and we're not going to have it in this country. And thank God for Christians. Thank God for a president who's willing to say, all life, all children, both born and unborn, are made in the image of God. That's what we must remember.

Now, these verses are a wonderful defense of the sanctity of life, but don't allow that to also hide from you. These verses are great confirmation of the sovereignty of God in your life. It ought to be a great source of comfort to you to think that every part of you was predetermined by God and not only your emotional makeup and your physical appearance. But notice in verse 16, he says, every day of your life was scheduled in God's book before you lived one of them. That means the other aspects of your life, your choice of a mate, your vocation, your children, everything has already been recorded in God's book.

Do you know God's design, His sovereignty over your life even extends to your economic status in life? You know, we think, oh, well, if we have money, we think it's because of our ingenuity or our hard work. Now, no, no, it's all because of the graciousness of God. And by the way, compared to the rest of the world, every one of us in this room today are wealthy. We're wealthy. Job 34, verse 19, says, God shows no partiality to princes, nor regards the rich above the poor, for they are all the work of his hands. Even our economic status is a part of God's plan. And that's why Paul said in 1 Timothy 6, 17, instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy. If you're going to be satisfied with your life situation, trust in God's sovereign plan for your life.

Finally, a key to contentment is learning to manage your expectations. Manage your expectations. You know, there's a story about a guy who, for no reason other than his generosity, every day went to every house on his block and gave the occupant $100. He did it for 30 days. On the 31st day, he went to every house, but he accidentally missed a house. He missed a house. The guy opened his window and stuck his head out the window and started cursing the man, saying, where is my hundred dollars? You know, we're like that with God. We think God owes us certain things simply because he's given them to us in the past. The fact is, God owes us nothing. We need to manage our expectations.

Paul had a good way of doing that. In 1 Timothy 6, 7, 8, he said, for we have brought nothing into this world, so we cannot take anything out of it either. If we have food and covering with these, we shall be content. Those are powerful words. If you know where your next meal is coming from, if you have a place to sleep tonight that's inside instead of outside in the elements, you and I should be satisfied. Anything we have above that is purely by the grace of God. God owes us nothing. If we have food and covering with these, we shall be content. Learn to manage your expectations.

You know, at the beginning of this series, choose your attitudes, change your life, we said, an attitude is our response to the circumstances of life. How do you respond to the inevitable circumstance of other people having more than you have? If you respond with dissatisfaction, with covetousness, it's going to lead to misery and eventually to sin in your life. You can choose that response or you can choose to be content.

Let me close by having you write down three statements that will help you learn contentment.

**Three Reminders**

**Reminder number one:** God's plan for your life is unique; therefore, refuse to compare yourself with others.

**Secondly:** God's purpose for your life is based on his elective will; therefore, trust in his sovereignty.

**And finally:** God's provisions for your life come from his goodness; therefore, be grateful for what he has already provided.

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Therefore be grateful for what he has already provided.

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You know what? It is impossible for gratitude and discontent to exist in the same heart. If we have food and covering with these, we shall be content.

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Don't you find yourself feeling grateful to God today? Well, as we wrap up today's program, I'm going to give you a little nudge and remind you to get in touch with Pathway to Victory today. In the month of January, we're making a concerted effort to add more friends to our team of Pathway Partners. A Pathway Partner is someone who agrees to give a monthly automated gift to support the ministry of Pathway to Victory. And in this role, you'll be making an eternal impact.

When you get in touch with your first gift as a Pathway Partner, I'm going to send you David Greene's brand new book, *The Legacy Life*. As the founder of Hobby Lobby, David knows how to build a business. But that's not what this book is about. It's about setting your legacy in motion today. See, your legacy isn't something that's deployed after you die. It's something you release right now so that the next generation can discover the life-changing truth of God's word.

In light of the global unrest right now, people need to hear the truth as never before. Are you willing to step forward to become a Pathway Partner today? Here's David with all the details.

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I'm David J. Mullins. People believe that forgiveness depends on whether or not the offender comes asking for it. But in reality, forgiveness is an attitude choice that starts with you. Learn how to choose forgiveness over bitterness Wednesday on *Pathway to Victory*.

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