Devotional Archives for NIV Devotions for Couples
Regrets can be a major obstacle to personal growth and happiness, causing us to dwell on what could have been instead of focusing on the future. By recognizing the underlying emotions driving our regrets and seeking guidance from God, we can break free from if-only thinking and move forward with a renewed sense of purpose and vision.
Marriage is a journey of contrasts, marked by moments of profound connection and intimacy, as well as times of disconnection and pain. By exploring the ups and downs of marriage through biblical perspectives and personal anecdotes, this article offers practical insights and spiritual guidance for couples seeking to strengthen their relationships and navigate life's challenges together.
True love is not just a feeling, but a choice that requires effort and sacrifice every day. By embracing the messy reality of life with God's eyes, hands, and Spirit, we can transform our relationships into expressions of genuine love that transcend romantic ideals and fleeting emotions.
Christian wives are called to submit themselves to their unsaved husbands in a way that showcases Christ's love for the church, leading to a transformative experience that can attract others to Christ even if the husband never responds. By embracing a gentle and quiet spirit, Christian wives can demonstrate purity and reverence that ennobbles them and has the power to change those around them.
Conquering fears in marriage requires courage, trust, and confidence in God's goodness and power. By drawing on biblical examples of "Knights of Faith" who trusted God despite their weaknesses, couples can find strength and encouragement to navigate life's intimidating aspects together.
A biblical passage from Philemon 1-25 highlights the power of submission in relationships, as exemplified by Paul's approach to his former slave Onesimus, who had become a Christian while in Rome. By applying this principle of strength defined by submission, individuals can navigate disagreements and conflicts with greater faithfulness and love, leading to deeper personal growth and stronger relationships.
As believers, providing for one's family is a fundamental aspect of faith, yet many struggle to achieve financial stability. A personal story of struggling with debt and receiving help from the church highlights the importance of giving generously to benevolent funds and taking responsibility for one's own household.
The apostle Paul's model of church leadership as nurturing parents is a radical yet beautiful concept that challenges traditional views on authority and obedience. By embracing a more compassionate and supportive approach to parenting, Christians can help shape the next generation into hopeful, loving people who embody the love and grace of God.
The concept of "pan-scale love" in marriage, coined by John Powell, refers to the initial all-in commitment that often gives way to a more balanced approach as relationships evolve. When this balance is disrupted, it can lead to feelings of resentment and a sense of being taken advantage of, highlighting the importance of maintaining generosity and humility in marriage.
When life's heavy loads become too much, Christians must learn to share their burdens with each other and seek outside help when needed. By examining our own loads, lovingly sharing each other's problems, and seeking qualified professionals when necessary, we can maintain a healthy balance and progress in our Christian walk.