Mom and Dad, you need to realize you know there are situations that are too strong for your kids. Please have the guts to put a fence up there. Your kids are not 37 years old, they haven’t had all the experiences that you have, and they haven’t made a lot of the mistakes that you have made. You do know more about life, morally and spiritually. Be an adult. Say No! Boy, I have to talk hard to myself about that. My personality is, “Let’s everybody, just live and let live.” I’m hard on myself but I don’t want to be hard on anybody else. That is what is killing our kids. Nobody wants to be a daddy. Do you know what it takes to be a dad? Strength. “No!” “Why?” And then be filled with reasons, strong godly reasons.