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You Married a Disappointment

March 20, 2026
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If you are disappointed in your marriage it's not because you have a bad marriage, it's because you are married..

Dave Wilson: If you are disappointed in your marriage, it's not because you have a bad marriage. It's because you are married.

Ann Wilson: Yes! This is Real FamilyLife with Dave and Ann Wilson.

Dave Wilson: Paul David Tripp said that, and he is so right because I think everyone at some point gets disappointed in their spouse. Don't you think?

Ann Wilson: I know I have been, and I know you have too. You don't have to say that right away! We've put too much pressure on our spouse and our marriage to make us happy.

Dave Wilson: We try to get from our spouse what only God can give us. All of our happiness is found in our spouse, all of our needs are met by our spouse, and they cannot do that.

We put too much on them, and we need to go vertical. We need to get our eyes up to heaven and say, "Only Jesus can meet me where I need to be met. My spouse can't do that."

Ann Wilson: Get more at familylife.com/real.

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About Real FamilyLife®

Real FamilyLife® is conversational in nature and provides practical, biblical tools to address the issues affecting your family. You'll receive motivation, encouragement, and help.


About Dave and Ann Wilson

Dave and Ann Wilson are co-hosts of FamilyLife Today©, FamilyLife’s nationally-syndicated radio program.

Dave and Ann have been married for more than 40 years and have spent the last 35 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They have been featured speakers at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember® since 1993, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.

Dave and Ann helped plant Kensington Community Church in Detroit, Michigan where they served together in ministry for more than three decades, wrapping up their time at Kensington in 2020.

The Wilsons are the creative force behind DVD teaching series Rock Your Marriage and The Survival Guide To Parenting, as well as authors of the recently released books Vertical Marriage (Zondervan, 2019) and No Perfect Parents (Zondervan, 2021).

Dave is a graduate of the International School of Theology, where he received a Master of Divinity degree. A Ball State University Hall of Fame Quarterback, Dave served the Detroit Lions as Chaplain for thirty-three years. Ann attended the University of Kentucky. She has been active with Dave in ministry as a speaker, writer, small group leader, and mentor to countless women.

The Wilsons live in the Detroit area. They have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, three daughters-in-law, and a growing number of grandchildren.

Contact Real FamilyLife® with Dave and Ann Wilson

Mailing Address
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100 Lake Hart Drive
Orlando FL 32832
 
Telephone Number
1-800-FL-TODAY
(1-800-358-6329)