God’s Power to Revive a Heart, Ep 3 of 3
Imagine being truly free. Not ruled by the bitterness of what others have done to you. Not ruled by guilt from what you’ve done. Hear about the power you need to be truly free, on Revive Our Hearts with Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth.
Dana Gresh: Hey, this is Dana Gresh. We'll be diving into Revive Our Hearts in just a moment. But first, have you been concerned about what seems to be an increase in the number of false teachers indoctrinating our teens and tweens today? Now, I don't know if there actually are more false teachers or they just have more access to our teens and tweens through things like TikTok and Instagram and YouTube, but I'm concerned.
And so is Nancy. That's why we partnered together to create the Wonder app, a Bible reading and daily devotional app for teen girls. We launched it in January. I was talking with Susie Wiebel, the theology director, the other day. She said, "I am so proud of this product. We are fighting against the lies that our teens are hearing by getting them in the Word every single day."
Every single day, they get a daily devotion from some of our really well-trained, maturing in faith 20-something-year-old teachers that are great role models. And then they read the Scripture for themselves. That is the antidote for the false teaching that is in the world today. Because as our teens become more and more acquainted with the truth of God's Word, when they hear the false doctrine, they recognize it. They know that it's a counterfeit.
So, if you're concerned like I am concerned about it, I hope that you might pray for us. Pray for me. Pray for Susie Wiebel. Pray for our other teachers who are teaching on a daily basis on the Wonder app. Pray that God would help us to continue to fund this app. It's a very expensive endeavor, but we believe that it's an important and strategic work for the body of Christ right now for us to get teens in the Bible speaking their language, which is digital. They speak the language of digital.
Now, here's some really good news and a kind of an update for you. We have, at the last that I was updated, just under 3,000 active users in the Wonder app, and we have barely just promoted it. We have been kind of letting people kick the tires. We've been testing it out, making sure that it's working digitally, that the technology is working.
And I can only tell you this: that every day I wake up and I do my daily reading plan for the Wonder of the Word initiative right in the Wonder app. I can keep track of how far I am along in my reading, and the Wonder app is bringing the Word of God alive for me. The Wonder app is bringing the Word of God alive for these teen girls.
And get this: I got a letter the other day from an 80-year-old "teenage" woman who is using the Wonder app to read God's Word every day. I just want to say thank you to all of you who have supported Revive Our Hearts because you've made this work possible. I just want to ask you to pray for the Wonder team and the Wonder app. And if you'd like more information, just head over to reviveourhearts.com/wonder or just head over to your app store and download it for your phone.
Andrea Griffith: I think that there's so many women in churches today that we have these skeletons in our closet, we have all the grave clothes on, and we don't know that the other one has it.
Dana Gresh: Andrea Griffith knows what it's like to feel weighed down by condemnation. This is the Revive Our Hearts podcast with Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth, author of Brokenness: The Heart God Revives, for April 8, 2026. I'm Dana Gresh.
This week, we've been listening to the testimony of Andrea Griffith. Like many of us, from all outward appearances, Andrea looked like a perfect church member as she grew up. But the truth was that her heart was far from the Lord. Over the last couple of days, Andrea has described her lifestyle of immorality, abortion, and rebellion, even while she was ministering in churches across this country.
I first met Andrea when she joined the staff of Life Action Ministries. Andrea was on one of our road teams traveling and visiting churches promoting revival. It was during this season that Andrea was convicted about the need of her own heart to be revived. Even after having confessed the sin of her past and surrendered her life to the Lord, Andrea became physically ill and needed to come off the road and move back in with her parents.
During her years of traveling with Life Action, Andrea had met Trent Griffith, who was another Life Action teammate. As we pick up the story, Trent had a surprise for Andrea.
Andrea Griffith: A few months later, I’d come home from work and I walked in the front door of my house and my mom said, "Something came for you today, it's in your room." So I walked over to my room and I opened the door, and there sitting on my bed was Trent. He was supposed to be up in Ohio somewhere doing a conference, but instead, there he was in Huntsville. He said, "Come on, Andrea, let's go up to your parents' property."
So we drove up to my parents' property where they were building a house, and there was a little stream there. He started quoting all these verses and saying all these things, and I thought, "This sure sounds like a proposal, but I'm sure that's not what he's doing. I'm sure it's not a proposal." Finally, he pulled a ruby wedding band out of his pocket and he said, "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies."
Now, I certainly did not see any virtue in my life, but God had quietly been rebuilding behind the scenes. What I've learned since that time is that is God's specialty. He loves to take the broken places in our lives—the places where we've totally blown it, the things that we are so ashamed of and hope nobody else knows, where we think we can never minister out of that because that failure was just too big. God loves to take those broken things and make them into something He can use to give us back beauty for the ashes of our lives.
So I said yes, and we were married December 17, 1994. In order for me to be married to Trent, I needed to come back on the road and be traveling. I was still sick, I was still taking the anti-depressants, still not doing really well. The first Sunday back, I just got up that morning and got before the Lord and said, "God, I want You to teach me something today. Show me something new in Your Word. I've heard all these messages before, but I want You to teach me."
So I walked in, and that morning the man was talking on bitterness. He started talking about the characteristics of bitterness. How when we're bitter, we're overly sensitive, we assume negative, and we have a critical, fault-finding spirit. I thought, "Okay, this guy is describing my life." Then he went on a little further and he started talking about how bitterness shows up physically in your body. He started saying how you have no rest and no strength.
I thought he might as well just put my picture up there because he is describing me, but I am not bitter. I thought about all these people that I had forgiven. That was one of the first things I had to do after I came to know the Lord was I had a list of people I needed to forgive. I had done that, but I know he's describing my life. I'm thinking, "God, I do not know who I'm bitter toward. If I'm bitter, You're going to have to show me because I don't see it. I am not bitter."
Finally, I just got still before the Lord and He spoke to my heart. It wasn't an audible voice; it was louder than that. I just remember God saying, "Andrea, you are so bitter toward yourself. You have never accepted the forgiveness that I gave to you when I died on the cross. You are so bitter at yourself." I remember just saying, "You're right, God, that's it."
I got up out of the service and I went and I found Trent and I said, "I am so bitter." And he looked at me and he said, "I know that." Our husbands know when we're bitter. Those closest to us, they know when we're bitter. In Hebrews, it says, "See to it that no root of bitterness spring up among you defiling many." Bitterness is a root issue. It's under the surface.
We think that we can keep it under the surface. We'll be bitter and it's in our hearts, but we're just going to keep it down there. But you know what happens? That bitterness, it springs up in us, it comes out of our mouths, and it defiles those closest to us—our kids, our husbands, our parents. The very ones that we don't want to hurt, we hurt because of our bitter spirit. Bitterness is simply harbored hurt. It's not some great big thing; it could be as simple as your husband saying something to you and it hurt your feelings, and you just don't let it go and you're bitter.
It can be as simple as a small little thing, or it can be some great big thing in our lives, and we walk around with these bitter spirits. So I knelt there with Trent, and for the first time, I thanked God for my past. Now, you don't thank God for sin, but I thanked God that He was big enough and sovereign enough that He can take the mess I've made and use it for something that will bring Him glory.
Do you know the story of Joseph? When Joseph saw his brothers again, he said, "What you meant for evil, God meant for good." It is the same way in our lives. You don't diminish the evil that you have done. I met with another lady and she said, "Andrea, you know, you had one abortion, but I had many." She said, "I cannot get over that. How do you do it?"
As we talked, what I realized is she was trying to minimize the sin. You do not minimize the sin. You look it square in the face, as evil as it was, and you let it break your heart over the evil that you've committed. Then you move from there and you see a great big God who is so much bigger than our sin. He's so much bigger than our failings. When we put those failings and that sin in His hands, He's able to fully forgive and then work all things for our good and His glory. He's that big. He does that.
After I thanked God for my past, I got up off my knees and I literally felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. We went on down the road to the next church and I just said to Trent, "What do you think about me not taking these anti-depressants anymore?" He said, "Okay, why don't you try it?" I stopped taking them and I never missed them.
Gradually, I got my strength back. Gradually, I got my health back. I had made myself sick for two years, all because of my bitterness and my pride. I thought it was humble for me to think that I had to crawl through broken glass to get back to God. I thought it was humility that made me say, "Oh, I'm just this second-sorry, secondhand Christian." Do you know what that was? That was the epitome of pride.
Because you know what I was doing? I was believing my own thoughts and feelings above what this book says. There's a perfect example of this in John chapter 11. You all know this story; it's the story of Lazarus. It says, "The man who had died came forth, and he was bound hand and foot with wrappings, his face was wrapped around with a cloth, and Jesus said to them, 'Unbind him and let him go.'"
Well, that was me. I was in the grave when I came to know the Lord that day in the prayer room, and Jesus called me from death into life. I came out of that grave—He brought me from death into salvation, from darkness into light that day that I got saved—and I had on my grave clothes. At that moment, Jesus said, "Unbind her and let her go."
But do you know what I had been saying for years? "No, God, please don't take those grave clothes off. No, God, I deserve these grave clothes. I know I stink, I have the aroma of death on me. I know I cannot live a very effective Christian life as I'm bound. I know I'm not an attractive Christian to the people that are lost looking from the outside in and they're seeing my life, but don't take these grave clothes off. I deserve these grave clothes."
And you know what? I do deserve those grave clothes, and so do you. But God is so gracious and merciful that He died on the cross to remove my grave clothes, to bring me from death into life, to pay the penalty of my sin. The Gospel is not just sin that's forgiven; it's sin paid for. He paid for my sin. I don't pay the penalty for that; He paid the penalty for that.
When you realize that, that makes the blood of Jesus so precious—that He did that for me. It makes the preciousness of who He is and His sacrifice so much greater. As all that was happening in my life, I like telling that story because I think that there's so many women in churches today that have these skeletons in our closet. We have all the grave clothes on, and we don't know that the other one has it. We all think that we've arrived and that we're all perfect and that she's never done anything like that before.
But we all have skeletons, we all have issues. I have certainly not arrived. That was just the very beginning, and every day God shows me something more. I don't know where this has hit you today. I don't know what specifically God has spoken to you about. But I want us to end our time with Isaiah 61, and then I just want us to take a time and let God speak to our hearts before we rush back into the busyness of our day.
Isaiah 61 says, "The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me because the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to those who are bound, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, to grant to those who mourn in Zion to give them beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit, that they may be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified."
Now, look at that list. Does that list look like God is waiting for you to crawl over broken glass to get back to Him? No. Do you know who that is? That is your enemy who walks before the Lord and is an accuser of the brethren. Today, God wants each one of us to make the Great Exchange. To say, "God, all I have to give You are the ashes of my life. God, I've blown it. I have nothing to offer You but ashes."
But His Word says when I bring Him those ashes, He'll take it and He'll make something of beauty out of it. "God, all I have to bring You today is a heavy spirit. I'm stressed out, I'm burned out, I'm heavy." And God says, "You give Me that heavy spirit and I'll give you back a garment of praise."
Some of us maybe have hearts that are full of mourning, and God wants to make the Great Exchange and give us the oil of gladness. They don't do this at Walmart, okay? You don't bring some piddly little thing and put it up there and they say, "Take the greatest thing in the store." But my God does that.
What has God said to you? Are you bitter? Do you need to forgive? Do you need to make a Great Exchange today with the Lord? Are you sure you're saved? That it's not just lip service, but it's a life of walking with God. Are you broken? Is there something that God has been saying to you, "Do this," and you've said, "No, I will not," and you're not broken?
Lord Jesus, You taste better than anything in this world that the world has to offer. God, Your Word says to taste and see that You are good. Lord, we have tasted and we know that You are good. I pray that You would give us hungry hearts for You. God, don't let us live our lives in complacency, but with the longing for You, a thirst for You. Let those needs drive us to You, the only one who can meet our needs.
Thank You for being such a good God. Thank You that You are our portion and that everything You do is good. I pray for these ladies that are here today. God, I ask that You would just place a hedge of protection around them, that You would continue to speak truth into their hearts all throughout this day. God, if there's any business that they still need to do with You today, they would find the time to get alone with You and do it.
You are so great. Help us to recognize that and to be drawn to You. I pray that You would make us oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, so that You would be glorified in our lives. We love You, Jesus. We need You. It's in Your name that we pray. Amen.
Dana Gresh: Regardless of what your past sins may be, God can provide forgiveness and freedom. Andrea Griffith has been illustrating this as she has shared candidly out of her own journey. We've heard her story over the last three days. If you've missed any of this testimony, listen to the audio at reviveourhearts.com.
After hiding an immoral lifestyle for many years, Andrea finally discovered what it meant to be free. She walked through a difficult but joyful process of confession, brokenness, and surrender. That led to her releasing the bitterness and extending forgiveness and clearing her conscience with those she had wronged. It was then that she was able to begin walking in honesty and holiness.
Praise the Lord for His faithfulness to revive us. I hope you were encouraged by listening to Andrea's story this week. The same kind of life transformation is possible for you. As you seek the Lord for personal revival, we'd love to send you some helpful resources. This month, you can get the Refresh Journaling Set for a gift of any amount. Visit reviveourhearts.com to give and request yours, or you can call us at 1-800-569-5959.
We can't produce revival. We need God to revive us. This is His work, first and foremost. Tomorrow, we'll hear a message from Nancy about this very truth. Please be back for Revive Our Hearts. This program is a listener-supported production of Revive Our Hearts in Niles, Michigan, calling women to freedom, fullness, and fruitfulness in Christ.
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Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth has touched the lives of millions of women through Revive Our Hearts and the True Woman movement, calling them to heart revival and biblical womanhood. Her love for Christ and His Word is infectious and permeates her online outreaches, conference messages, books, and two daily nationally syndicated radio programs—Revive Our Hearts and Seeking Him. Her books have sold more than four million copies and are reaching the hearts of women around the world. Nancy and her husband, Robert, live in Michigan.
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