How do you lose your first love? You can lose your first love when you replace a kingdom mindset with religious tradition and personal preference. You can lose your first love when you lose your passion for and pursuit of God's presence. You can lose your first love when you become self-focused and not mission focused. You can lose your first love when your become overwhelmed with a wound or loss. And you can lose your first love when you begin to subtly make the Holy into something common.