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Licensed counselors JJ West and Doug Barnes kick off Season 3 with a powerful conversation on what really works in sexual integrity recoveryโancient paths, clear boundaries, daily structure, brotherhood, and the โgift of getting caught.โโ
In this episode, they:
- Unpack Jeremiah 6:16 and why recovery is a path, not a quick fix.
- Share real-life tools that still shape their own integrity walk years into recovery.
- Highlight books and concepts that helped them move from secrecy and shame into freedom and community.โ
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- โRecovery isnโt a sprint; itโs a marathon on an ancient path.โ JJ and Doug explain why there is no magic formulaโand why asking for the โgood wayโ and walking in it is the only way to find rest for your soul.
- โWhat keeps me on the path?โ Doug shares five core practices: integrity and secondary boundaries, understanding triggers, living a battle-plan routine, proactive checkโin calls, and letting trusted brothers really know and love him.
- โWhy canโt I fix myself by myself?โ JJ talks about the โgift of getting caught,โ the renewal of the mind, and how both heart and brain need healing in sexual addiction recovery.
- โWhat do my porn patterns say about my story?โ They discuss how the specific content a man is drawn to can point to wounds of the heart and legitimate needs heโs been trying to meet in illegitimate ways.
- โWhat if my dadโor spiritual leadersโfailed me?โ JJ shares how โbad kingsโ can still drive men toward their good Heavenly Father, and how God can reโfather the parts of a manโs heart that were never nurtured.
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๐ FEATURED RESOURCES & MENTIONED BOOKS:
(Consider linking these in the show notes/store as available.)
- ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ ๐๐๐ฃโ๐จ ๐ฝ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐จ๐๐ซ๐ (3โDay Workshop) โ Tools, teaching, and brotherhood for men ready to break free from pornography, affairs, and sexual acting out.โ https://newlife.com/workshops/every-mans-battle/
- ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐ผ๐๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ โ Sharon Hershโs book that unpacks why you canโt fix your broken self with your broken self, and why โgetting caughtโ can be a gift that leads to freedom. https://www.amazon.com/Last-Addiction-Recovery-Lasting-Freedom/dp/0877882037
- ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ข๐๐๐ฎ โ Dr. William Struthers explains the brain chemistry of pornography and how God renews the mind in recovery. https://store.newlife.com/purchase/wired-for-intimacy
- ๐๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐๐ฎ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ง๐ช๐จ๐ฉ โ Jason Martinkus on rebuilding trust with radical honesty and practical amends after betrayal. https://store.newlife.com/purchase/worthy-of-her-trust
- ๐๐ฃ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ โ Jay Stringer shows how your unwanted sexual behavior can actually map the story of your wounds and point you toward healing. https://www.amazon.com/Unwanted-Sexual-Brokenness-Reveals-Heal
- ๐๐๐ข๐จ๐ค๐ฃ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐ ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐จ โ Nate Larkin on why David was restored and Samson wasnโtโand how brotherhood makes the difference. https://store.newlife.com/purchase/samson-and-the-pirate-monksing/dp/1631466720
- ๐๐ค๐ฌ ๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ซ๐ โ Milan & Kay Yerkovich reveal how attachment styles shape intimacy and sexual acting out (featured more deeply at the Intimacy in Marriage workshop).โhttps://store.newlife.com/purchase/how-we-love-expanded-edition
- ๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐๐จ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ช๐๐ก ๐ผ๐๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ โ Mark Laaserโs clinical and pastoral guide to understanding sexual addiction. https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Wounds-Sexual-Addiction-Laaser/dp/0310256577