We need to begin to understand together that as followers of Jesus we are going to face "Gethsemanes," devastating times. When someone declares that if you come to Jesus, you are going to be happy all day, every day for the rest of your life, it's a lie. Jesus, himself, stressed that we would face hard times of testing, but we wouldn't face these struggles alone. He's already been there and done that, and he promises he won't allow us to be tested more than we can handle. He also promises that we will learn obedience through the things we suffer. Our "Gethsemanes" will lead to a glorious new life. Jesus will show us the way.