New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: June 22, 2016

June 22, 2016

Caller Questions:

  • After my affair, my wife is now in love with a woman; should I wait it out? 
  • My husband is doing porn; why does he hide texts and lie to me? 
  • I suspect my separated husband is manic depressive but he will not do anything about it. 
  • How do I move on from a traumatic job loss that I can’t stop thinking about? 
  • I said disrespectful things jokingly to my wife and she will not be intimate with me; how do I fix it? 

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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Caller Questions: My ex just got out of prison for raping our daughter; how do I get past it and move on to a new relationship?  My teen kids don’t want to see me even though the court says I can; how do I turn this around?  Am I unforgiving if I protect myself from a verbally abusive husband?  Why do I allow my separated husband to control me and why do I continue to believe his lies?  Will my husband ever break free from his pornography addiction? 
June 21, 2016
Caller Questions: Do I have biblical grounds for divorce if my husband has viewed porn all of our married life?  What is the difference between boundaries and forgiveness after my husband denies he had an affair?  I am a trucker who is not able to attend Every Man’s Battle; what can I do to get off porn?  Should I be telling someone about my dreams of horrific events that come true? 
June 20, 2016
Caller Questions: My husband lets his mother rule him; how can I deal with feeling less important?  While we were briefly separated, I had sex with another guy and got pregnant; now that I am back with my husband, should I tell the other guy he could be the father?  Update from previous caller: My roommate is taking me to an AA meeting tonight. As our 25th Anniversary approaches, are my wife and I chasing a fantasy of being happily married?  What do you think about a woman dating a man 7yrs younger than her? 
June 17, 2016
Caller Questions: I married 5yrs ago and can’t get pregnant; do I have a right to push for adoption? My husband has two older kids.  How can I heal if I never talked about my sister’s fiancé assaulting me 4yrs ago?  How do I survive taking care of a 13yo son struggling with ADD and depression? 
June 16, 2016
Caller Questions: I ended a 7yr live-in relationship because of my boyfriend’s sexual integrity issues; how do I heal?  Is is OK for my recovering sex addict husband to sponsor a woman in her recovery?  My husband tried to choke me and denies being with prostitutes; what should I do? 
June 15, 2016
Caller Questions: How do you know when it is time to let go of your 12yr marriage?  Why would a man I was dating change from wanting children to not wanting them within 2yrs?  How can I help my 16yo son who is in jail for being a sex offender? 
June 14, 2016
Caller Questions: My husband is an alcoholic and sex addict; should I wait for God to heal our 3yr marriage?  After being married twice and losing my dad to suicide when I was 15yo, how do I heal? How do we have intimacy in our marriage after aborting our child 30yrs ago? 
June 13, 2016
Caller Questions: I am 23yo engaged to an older man with 15yo kids; how do I convince my family I know what I am doing?  How do I forgive my husband for having an affair with my coworker and leaving me with the bills? Why does your Lose It for Life workshop work for weight loss?  Is it reasonable to remain distant to my husband while he has an affair? Or is that causing him to get closer to her?  I am a 5yr Christian praying for a wife; should I just sit and wait on God? 
June 10, 2016
Caller Questions: I have a dysfunctional family; how do I reconcile with my sister?  My 9yo grandson is very smart, but very rude and obnoxious; what can I do to change his behavior?  Is it normal for a husband to need space and not be intimate during his sexual addiction recovery? I am the caregiver for my angry and abusive husband; is it OK to separate him on another floor for our safety?  I found out my 21yo daughter is gay when I saw them kiss; how should I respond?
June 9, 2016
Caller Questions: Why is New Life so hard on the men? Are women not accountable?  I have a restraining order on my abusive husband; what help is there for him?  How can I break free from my addiction to pornography?  I told my daughter-in-law not to yell so much at the kids; how do I repair our relationship? 
June 8, 2016
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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