The following post is written from the perspective of one who has not always made the best decisions. But I am learning. And I am happy to pass on to other men and women the principles I have learned that help me make good decisions.
1. Weigh the decisions you make before they weigh you down.
Every day I meet people who are prisoners of their own body because of poor lifestyle decisions they made throughout the years. The decisions they made were little choices that ended up having a cumulative affect on their health. I know this because I have been there. The temptation of the moment resets the course of their life. Each action we take must be weighed in light of what we want our life to look like in the future. Whether your dealing the physical, spiritual, or social dimensions of your life, what you do today matters. Weigh your decisions carefully.
2. Keep your ultimate goal in mind.
Years ago I read about a pro golfer who prepared for each major tournament by going to the very last hole and working his way backward He would stand on hole 18 looking back at the course. From there he would plan where his drive or fairway shot needed to land to give him the best opportunity to get his approach shot close to the pin. Then he would walk back to that spot and calculate what kind of shot he would have to make from the tee box to put him in that position.
He would walk the entire course backward to plan each action to lead to the ultimate goal of success at the 18th hole. In his book Seven Habits of Highly Successful People, Stephen Covey clarified this principle in a chapter entitled “Begin with the end in mind.” These are principles essential to anyone who seeks to live fully alive. Have a purpose. Know what you want to accomplish with your life. Then work backward from there to so that each shot you take at life puts you in the best position to reach that goal.
3. Recognize the importance of little things
My friend Phil Waltrep tells a story that illustrates the power of small actions over a period of time. One day he discovered that the foundation of his house was settling to the point that the structural integrity of his entire home was being threatened. He called an expert and found out that the problem was due to a small leak in the gutter system. One drip at a time the defective gutter had deposited tens of thousands of gallons of water that eroded the soil at the foundation of the house. So little decisions over time can alter the course of life. But there is hope! Phil recognized the problem, fixed the gutter and repaired the foundation.
You see, little decisions can also add up to create character and foundational strength that leads to living fully alive. As a boy I visited Carlsbad Caverns in New Mexico. As I stood in awe of the majestic and beautiful stalagmites, rising hundreds of feet from the cave floor, The guides said that they were formed over thousands of years one tiny drip at a time. The decisions you make today can be foundation of your success tomorrow.
No decision is a small decision.
Every action is worthy of careful consideration.
Small decisions are the building blocks of success or the emissaries of destruction.
As a pilot, I learned aviation accidents are rarely the result of a single catastrophic event. Most are the accumulation of a series of bad decisions.
If the pilot had changed any one of these little actions and made the proper decision he would be alive today.
No matter where you are in life and regardless of the bad decisions you have made, your next decision can be a good one.
God’s mercies are new every morning.
Today is a new day. Don’t sacrifice tomorrow’s opportunity on the altar of today’s desire.
Bill Gothard, isolated four “Levels of Friendship”:
2. casual friend
3. close friend and
4. intimate friend
Here is my question: Do our “cyber-friends,” the social network “friends” we have never met, fit in any of these categories? Are they part of another category all together? Are they really friends?
by Ken Davis
Benjamin Franklin is quoted as saying, "Many men die at 25 and aren't buried until they are 75." This book is intended to wake up these people.
Fully Alive uncovers forgotten signs of life in a culture seemingly filled with the opposite. Through action steps that led to his physical, mental, social, and spiritual health, Ken Davis recounts his journey back to the land of the living and the signs of life he found along the way.
The anchoring focus is based on the apostle Paul's quest for life, when he said, "I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection." A power greater than death is available for what we face today? Who doesn't want a piece of that?
Filled with narrative stories, humor, and practical help, this book is for anyone who wants to live fully and wonders just what that might look like in daily life.
Many people are lurching in the twilight, hoping to sing once again…living lives of quiet desperation, searching in vain for signs of life.
St. Irenaeus said, "The Glory of God is man fully alive." For those who have been sidelined in life, for those tempted to give up, this book screams…Live!