Focal Point with Pastor Mike Fabarez

In his most famous work, English poet John Donne declared: “No man is an island.” But Donne’s creative expression on the human condition wasn’t a new discovery. The Bible is riddled with evidence that man was never intended to live in isolation. And yet, we live in lonely times, don’t we? Even though technology tethers us together around the clock, our culture has never suffered more loneliness, seclusion and despair. 

This month on Focal Point, we are looking at Paul’s encouraging words in Romans 15 and 16. He delivers the mandate to live a selfless life, to look out for our neighbor’s good and “to build him up.” (Romans 15:2). Christians who choose isolation are inherently at risk. Spiritual trouble finds its fuel when we choose to be isolated. The New Testament model portrays open-handed Christians who invest in each other’s lives and live in harmony. Paul shared his joys and victories as well as his hurts and struggles with his friends. When he was weak, he not only cried out to God, but he also called out for the help of his Christian friends. “Come to me quickly,” he told Timothy, when he was left without the support of those he formerly trusted (2 Timothy 4:9).

When Paul sat with his Christian comrades, he didn’t portray a super-spiritual disguise. He was genuine, vulnerable and transparent. We would do well to follow this biblical pattern. So as we dig into Romans together, let’s learn to reach out and be real. Let us aspire to serve and be served. Let us look for the mutual encouragement and support that comes when real Christians truly get to know and love each other  There’s another British author whose writings have become cherished around the world. C.S. Lewis wrote, The Four Loves. It’s a definitive book on affection, friendship, romance and unconditional love. This classic work is our special resource this month, and I highly recommend you get a copy. Just click on the link below and I will send it out to you. Lewis will bring additional insight into your biblical understanding of authentic love.